After watching "Thirty Only", can you accept a man who wants to return to his family after cheating?

After the broadcast of "Only Thirty", the topic of whether to accept cheating has also been a hot topic among everyone.

In the play, Xu Huanshan cheated on Lin Youyou, and both actors were scolded. Especially Zhang Yue, who plays Lin Youyou, even turned off the comment function on his social software.

It can be seen how hateful Lin Youyou’s character is! At the end, Lin Youyou went back, and Xu Huanshan finally realized his mistake and decided to divorce Gu Jia. There is a saying that a prodigal son can never change his mind for gold, so it can be seen that sincere repentance is also valuable. There is also a saying that if a person is not a sage, who can have no faults?

However, these words only appear when you are calm. In other words, how many people can really accept it?

After all, most of the things like cheating will happen zero or countless times in the future. Here I use the plot of "Thirty Only" to talk about my views on the return of a lover to the family after an affair. Gu Jia can avoid divorce for the sake of her son, but can she really accept Xu Huanshan in her heart?

When Xu Ziyan told his mother that he chose his father, and her mother liked him the most, he also liked his mother the most, so that his parents would not divorce. Gu Jia can make any efforts and sacrifices for her son, and she can also keep this intact family without divorce for her son. However, even if Xu Huanshan gets better, will Gu Jia really forgive him?

From the heart, how much courage and how much pressure does it take to digest and forget these things in the past? This is also true. Impulsiveness, passion and mistakes, there are no cats that steal food in the world, these are just words and excuses to paralyze yourself! The main reason why Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu were able to remarry was that Chen Yu made no passionate mistakes in pursuing his wife

Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu divorced, but later remarried and lived a happy life. Just imagine, if Chen Yu flirts with girls or has a relationship with a girl after the divorce, will Zhong Xiaoqin still be moved by him? The answer is self-evident.

Although Chen Yu doesn't like to talk or communicate, he doesn't flirt with women and has no other thoughts except raising fish. So after the divorce, he reflected on his mistakes and started his own journey to pursue his wife. He has encountered difficulties and been confused, but Chen Yu always wants to be good to Zhong Xiaoqin and no one else. The premise for Chen Yu to be a good husband is that Chen Yu can change himself for Zhong Xiaoqin and accept everything about Zhong Xiaoqin. Zhong Xiaoqin and Zhong Xiaoyang also stopped in time, without any deeper emotions or relationships. It is precisely because of this that Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu have such a happy ending. If there is true love, who is willing to share it?

Liang Zhengxian told Wang Manni that she and Zhao Jingyu should go south and north without interfering with each other. Wang Manni said that she felt dirty, so she took off all the things Liang Zhengxian bought in a fit of anger. Wang Manni said that if it was true love, how could she be willing to share it?

No one wants to! Even in the costume drama, it is normal for the emperor to own three palaces and six courtyards. If his concubines really love him, they will be jealous. In this case, let alone cheating. There is always a reason for cheating, and the biggest reason is not enough love, or having a new love. Afterwards, if you find that the other person is not suitable, or after comparison, you still think the original match is better, you will come back to admit your mistake and repent. How can it be so easy?

If life is peaceful, the affair will be forgotten. If there is a conflict, this matter will still be brought up. Can you really bear it? The plot of the TV series is like this, but is it not the same in life?

Most people cannot accept it. Marriage has responsibilities and cannot be arbitrary. Even if someone has no choice but to accept it, or accepts it because of love at the time, they will collapse one day. Therefore, whether it is mental cheating or physical cheating, I feel that I cannot accept it. There is no need to convince yourself that the other party has changed for the better, because the road ahead is really very difficult. What do you think?