Why is it that no one wants to date a black man?

A 32-year-old girl graduated from a prestigious school, and no one wanted to marry her in 10 years, just because she had a black boyfriend

What I want to say is that I know that all domestic boys reject those who have had a black boyfriend. Girls, I don’t understand why so many girls still take risks to find black boyfriends?

Is it just because of the sense of superiority of foreigners? But it would be foolish to gamble with your own happiness.

Why is it that no one wants to date a black man?

I am a native of northern Shaanxi. I am 34 years old this year. When I was working in Shenzhen when I was 26, I met an African. After knowing each other for a long time, we developed a relationship. We were together for less than two years, and then he After returning to China, there was no news. There was no news for more than two years. It was really painful at the time. I slowly came out. I have had several boyfriends in the past few years, but I knew that I had He just left without saying anything.

From last year to now, colleagues and friends have introduced a few of them, but they also dislike having African boyfriends and are unwilling to do so. Why is this? Who among today's people has never been in love? Does it become a stain if they fall in love and break up? Is it dirty to fall in love with an African? Nowadays, it is normal to live together before marriage. Why am I being discriminated against? Are Africans not human beings? Why are black people so sensitive?

Last month, someone introduced me to a boyfriend. The conditions were very similar. We felt good about each other. We had been dating for more than a month. I said it felt good and we should meet the parents. After all, we are so old. There was no time to delay for too long, so he agreed. When we set off to meet the parents, he told me that his family did not agree and he would not come back. I looked at him confused and wanted to know the reason. He said that his family People know that I have been in a relationship with a black man and I don’t agree with anything. Could it be said that people all over the country care about this? Could it be that I did something wrong?

Hello, classmate:

Your embarrassing experience is a bit disgusting. Let me tell you my opinion. People’s impressions of black people are really not very good. The biggest reason why people’s impression of black people is that they are lazy and sick. This disease is AIDS, so people think that if you have lived with Africans, you may be infected. , this is the biggest worry, I don’t know what other people think, but in my impression, this is the case, because most people in Africa suffer from this disease.

After so many years, it should actually be fine, but in people’s minds you are no longer clean, and you are still with a black man. This is the biggest obstacle. Generally, people have a bad impression of black people. , all think that they may have AIDS. This is a scary thing, and it also makes people think that it is contagious and will be passed on to the next generation. Therefore, you cannot blame others for these things. If you want to blame, you can only blame yourself.

Meet them slowly. Marriage is something that can be encountered but cannot be sought. You can’t find it when you want to find it. It depends on fate. Maybe your prince is on the way here. Take advantage of it. Opportunity is enough. Marriage is not something that must be forced. Only when you meet the right person can you do it. There are also people who don’t care about this. It’s just that you haven’t met them yet. As time goes by, people will slowly forget that it doesn’t matter what others think. The most important thing is to be yourself.