I had a hysterectomy, and my mother-in-law didn't want me to tell anyone except that you were only 30 years old.

There is nothing wrong with you. Your mother-in-law is selfish. A woman can't have children if she has her uterus cut off. Traditionally, she is not a woman (traditional prejudice, practicality, please forgive me). Your mother-in-law thinks it will discredit your husband's family if it gets out. According to your mother-in-law's performance, your mother-in-law attaches great importance to this matter. From the side, she is hypocritical, but who is not hypocritical? Everyone is selfish. Since your mother-in-law did this to you. It means that she has begun to dislike you subconsciously. The eyes are the windows to the soul. Your mother must be very sad about the same thing and won't hurt you. She will persuade you to say something like don't worry. As for the mother-in-law, the first consideration is not your feelings, but her own selfishness. This is the heart. Life is like this. There are many people who divorce for hysterectomy, not to mention her mother-in-law, an outsider. You keep saying that you are right, but in fact you are wrong. Why do you say that? The problem is in your head. Thought is the dominant behavior. The fuse has been lurking in your heart for a long time. This is unacceptable. Relax your mind. Your wronged mentality is the beginning of your pain. The seeds of contradiction have been planted in your heart. I advise you not to tell anyone about it, especially not to tell your mother and you what your mother-in-law told you. Their reaction will only aggravate your antipathy, which is the fuse of family conflicts. Let go, it's hard for women to know that they live for themselves. Many times, women are emotional and rational. Think carefully about what emotions they will bring to you when they take the initiative. Smart women will bury their grievances in their hearts, laugh outside and cry in their hearts. This is life. Think about their future life and live with your husband and mother-in-law. If she feels bad, let her go. You live for yourself. The stronger you are, the more people respect you, but don't follow blindly. You should be independent and thoughtful, and grievances are also your own grievances. This is your own feeling. Why do you want others to comment that although you have a hysterectomy, you are still a strong woman. You love and cherish those who care about you. Others just pass by and turn a blind eye. The more others bully you, the stronger you are. If fate is unfair to you, the more you love yourself and even feel vulnerable. Who cares about you? Don't make your parents sad. It is not easy to have you. Let them rest assured. Don't let children deceive hatred from an early age. They are innocent. A broad heart will bring you infinite happiness and happiness.