I'm 27 years old. I haven't been to work for six months. I don't want to do anything. What should I do?

I suggest you think about what happened six months ago. You didn't go to work.

In other words, you have to find out why you are so negative and procrastinating now. Is it because I didn't want to work six months ago, or because something suddenly lost confidence in myself and then I didn't want to do anything, or because I was hit by something and didn't dare to face life, and so on. In short, you have to find out why you are like this. Because finding the reason can get rid of the status quo.

Second, I suggest you look at the reasons you found rationally.

Because rational treatment can make you better understand yourself and reality. To look at it rationally, we need to do the following three things: first, understand that the status quo can be changed because you can. Maybe the status quo disappoints you, and you have lost the motivation to change, but I see that you can come here for help, which shows that you are self-motivated, and this "self-motivated" is the beginning of your change, and you should see your inner desire to change.

The second is to look at your own advantages. Maybe now you feel that you are nothing, nothing, but it is not, because everyone has advantages, and you are no exception. As I said before, your coming here for help shows that you are self-motivated, and I can see from your description that your expression ability is not bad, and you have friends who can provide you with places to eat and live, which shows that your popularity is good and you must have advantages.

The third is to learn to look at yourself from a developmental perspective. Maybe you have no confidence after you know that you have an advantage. At this time, you should learn to look at yourself from a developmental perspective. You are only 27 years old, and you still have a lot of time and energy to improve yourself, so you should see the power of time. When you look at it rationally, all kinds of negative emotions in your heart may be resolved.

Third, focus on yourself and think about what you can do to make your mood better.

When you look at yourself rationally, you may know what to do. At this time, you should focus on yourself and do your best. For example, you can do what you promised your good friend first. After all, you live on others, promise to help, and don't let your friends down. You can still go home, because your mother wants you to go back, which shows that she misses you very much. Moreover, after you go back, you can also communicate with her and tell the truth, which will also make you feel better and may find the next direction-either study or go out to work;

You can also ask yourself what you want to do now, regardless of external factors. Such rhetorical questions may help you find the motivation of life, and then push you to start acting without delay; You can also remind yourself when you want to be lazy, "I can't be lazy all the time because I am responsible for my life", which may also enhance your motivation and make some changes. In short, you should know that you can do something to make yourself better. When you start to act, all kinds of negative emotions in your heart will naturally dissolve slowly, because sometimes the enemy of all kinds of negative emotions is action.