What is the truth of the old rural saying "if you are not alone, you will be widowed"?

My family is an ordinary rural family in the north. My cousin lives right behind my house. Although they are my cousins, they are about the same age as my father. There are two children at home, both older than me. Our village is relatively poor, especially when I was young, everyone's income basically depends on their own acre of land. When I was about ten years old, my cousin broke his leg riding a motorcycle, and the whole leg of his left leg was amputated, basically losing his ability to work. This is still a big blow to a rural family who lives by farming. After about a year, my cousin's legs have basically recovered, and he can walk with artificial limbs by himself. The whole family moved out to raise chickens and showed a chicken farm to a large breeder, and his work was also at leisure. In this way, my cousin helps others raise chickens, and my sister-in-law finds some odd jobs nearby. Although she doesn't earn much, it is enough for her family. In the words of her sister-in-law, her fortune has been bad in recent years.

Two years later, the whole family came back for one thing-filling the pit. This pit has existed for as long as I can remember. In the left rear of my yard, next to my cousin's yard, it used to be my vegetable cellar, but it was abandoned, leaving such a big pit. Sister-in-law said that someone had seen it, because the pit next to the yard would lead to bad luck in recent years, so she came back to fill the pit with light rain.

Now my cousin's family is in town, bought a house and worked as a wholesaler in a vegetable market in the city. The two children are driving trucks to pull vegetables everywhere all day, and their lives are relatively good, at least much better than staying in the countryside.

This story is my personal experience. Let's talk about this first. Let's look at this proverb first.

In fact, it is not difficult to understand the meaning of this proverb: "the height in front of the house is hollow, and if you are not alone, you will be widowed." The back of the house is hollow, which is a pit. Such a house is unlucky.

In fact, I think this should belong to the category of Feng Shui at the earliest. In the present words, it belongs to feudal superstition. I don't understand it, so I won't discuss it much. From a scientific point of view. First of all, the front of the house is high, the biggest disadvantage is shading, and it is definitely uncomfortable to live in bad lighting; Second, it is not safe. As we all know, rivers are basically at the foot of the mountain. If the house is in front of the mountain, it will be dangerous to encounter heavy rain and flood water. There is a depression behind the house, and anyone who says there is a pit behind the house is uncomfortable. In addition, all houses have foundations. If there is a pit next to the house, the foundation will be unstable and dangerous. Generally speaking, building a house should avoid these "high places" and "low places" and try to find some places with flat terrain and good lighting, which is both comfortable and safe.

What about the story I told you at the beginning? My cousin's "fortune" has indeed improved, at least now life is very good. In fact, this is not difficult to understand. First of all, the "pit" is in the front left, not in the rear. Besides, I think the real reason is that they are out. At first, the family left their hometown and went to a strange place. No one knows what they have experienced in these years. Now their lives are all earned by hard work over the years. I believe that there are a few families in every village who gave up one acre and three points at home when they were very young and went out to work hard and do business ... These people are living well now, at least better than most people who stayed in the village. Therefore, a good life can not be filled by filling this pit, but by hard work.

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I wonder if feng shui has any influence on the family. But in reality, there are also families who are in trouble after building a house. Everyone says it's feng shui.

The first one is my grandfather's house. Because it needs wood to build a house, I cut down a big tree in the old grave garden. Within ten days, there were three grandparents and brothers, and one child died in each family.

The second thing is my nanny's menstruation home when I was a child. Less than a year after the new house was built, the father and son died of sudden illness, and the grandson suddenly became ill in the middle of the night. My grandmother (my aunt) overturned and broke her leg while driving a tricycle to the hospital. The daughter-in-law recruited a door-to-door son-in-law and left with the man in a few months.

My uncle used to be four brothers, but three died in one year. After receiving instructions, the old house was stripped, the back door was sealed and the door changed direction. ...

What is the truth of the old rural saying "if you are not alone, you will be widowed"? Hello, everyone, I am an old saying in the countryside. Today, let's talk about this topic.

Our ancestors are full of great wisdom, especially the proverb culture is catchy to read, and its meaning is easy to understand and convincing, such as "people are diligent in making treasures, but lazy in making grass". However, some slang cultures are too absolute and exaggerated. To tell the truth, we should learn to inherit dialectically and critically, for example, this sentence "If you are not lonely, you will be widowed".

Rhyme, catchy. The ancients feared nature and knew how to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. When building a house, it is best to sit facing south, because we live in the northern hemisphere of the earth and the north wind blows in winter. Sitting in a house facing south can resist the cold and get plenty of sunshine. It can be said that it is warm in winter and cool in summer. This is a big rule of building houses in farming society, or it may not be all, but the general principle is that it is livable by mountains and rivers, with sufficient light and good air circulation.

I said so much before, but I just paved the way for this old saying. Do you understand some truth here? The housing construction mode of "the front is high and the rear is empty" does not conform to the habits of China people from ancient times to the present, and it is really unscientific and impractical. Literally, it is known that the front of the house is high, either hilly slope or mountain obstacle, while the back of the house is low-lying, either a big pit or a big pond, which is really bad.

Let's talk about the adverse effects of a house with a high front and a concave back, and let's not talk about whether it will make people "lonely". The high front prevents sunlight from entering the courtyard and indoors, so the room will be in a dark and humid state for a long time, and there is no shelter behind the house. In winter, the north wind blows and the room will be very cold. If it really rains, the water will flow backwards into the yard and indoors, resulting in a cold and humid house for a long time, and all the furniture, bedding and clothes in the house will not dry, which will definitely make people sick for a long time.

And "not alone is widowed" is obviously a warning. It doesn't really make people lonely or widowed, it's just a kind reminder. In other words, when building a house, we should make a survey in advance to see if this place is suitable for construction, and don't rush into it. As the saying goes, "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." We should think carefully about what our ancestors left behind. The essence of ancient wisdom is extensive and profound, and sometimes its literal meaning is superficial.

But the other way around, it's wrong. Housing construction "empty before high"? That's not right. It's a cemetery, not a house. If housing construction really can't avoid this geographical trend of "high before and low after", can there be a good way? We must lay a good foundation, improve the indoor height, widen the front of the house, fill the low-lying area behind the bungalow, do a good job in flood control, then repair the drainage ditch and do a good job in lighting and waterproofing. Let's not talk about other dross topics, just be people-oriented and livable. In some places, the old saying is still contradictory. For example, "the north is high and the south is low, and the lame and dumb are not born" has no scientific reason. These are some views of the old rural saying that rural houses are "high before and empty after". Teachers and farmers with different opinions can exchange feedback.

A foreign staff member led a Feng Shui gentleman to the ancestral grave to see Feng Shui. When they arrived, they saw some children stealing apricots from the apricot tree next to the grave. The gentleman tried to shout, but the members stopped him and said, don't make any noise, which frightened the children and made them fall from the tree. Don't say it hurts to break their legs and arms, I also feel bad. When they leave, we will go there ... Mr. Feng Shui lamented: What kind of feng shui do you still see with such a kind heart? The place where ancestors are buried and the place where future generations live is a blessed land. Goodbye, Mr. Lund. ...

What is the truth of the old rural saying "if you are not alone, you will be widowed"? This sentence still makes sense. In rural areas, generally speaking, there are many scruples about building a house. This is why people take a fancy to all kinds of geomantic omen.

Building a house in the countryside, I like to lay the foundation in an open place, and pay attention to broaden my horizons. There'd better be a small pond beside the house. You can keep some fish. It's New Year, so you can collect fish and dry preserved fish. It would be better if pigs could be raised. After the Spring Festival, you can also kill pigs and dry bacon.

As the saying goes, "the front is high and the back is concave" means that there is a highland in front of the house blocking the line of sight. This kind of terrain is the most taboo for farmers. We usually like to look down on the house. There can't be highlands ahead, but financial positions ahead. The front is high, blocking the wealth from entering the house, and you can't make big money. This kind of "generosity" can explain the importance of the financial position in front of the house.

"Houwa" means the low terrain behind the house, which is tax evasion. It doesn't matter whether you are tall or not, it's still a good thing. This low-lying place is not chosen by farmers to build houses. Generally speaking, farmers will choose flat and condescending places to build houses.

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The front is high and the back is empty. What do you mean if you're not alone?

People often have certain requirements on the height of houses when choosing places and renovating houses. Literally, the front is high and the back is concave, which means that when building a house, there needs to be a slightly higher slope in front and a slightly lower depression in the back. If you are not alone, you are a widow. You mean, if it was before, you would either die alone or die alone.

Although this is a cliche in the eyes of people in the past, it is actually based on science. Because if the front is a slope higher than your own house, when the weather turns cold, the front slope blocks the sun, and the sun will not shine on the house. The house is prone to bacteria and the temperature is getting cold. Living in this environment for a long time will make you sick over time. Therefore, when people choose the building base, they usually choose the chassis with low front.

However, if there is a depression behind it, the terrain is low. If it rains heavily, water will accumulate in the lower back. For a long time, the front was blocked by the highlands, and the sun could not shine on the house. There is a humid environment and temperature behind, which is easy to make people sick. Moreover, if the house is cold for a long time, people's life will be very depressed and people's mood will become more and more unstable. If there is a natural disaster in the area where they live, the terrain with high front and low back will lead to landslides, and the buildings are not firm, so it is easy to wash away the houses. People who live in it are also dangerous.

Therefore, no matter in the past or now, when building a house, we should try to avoid looking for the terrain with high front and low back, which will not only do bad harm to people's psychology, but also make the house eroded by natural disasters. It's not good for people who live here for a long time. Living in a modern city, although every building looks the same, it can't be chosen according to the topography of the front high and the back low, but the influence of lighting should be considered. If there is no sunshine at home for a long time, bacterial growth can easily affect people's health.

And with the development of modern society, many concepts are gradually improving. In fact, some old sayings still have some truth. Now people can identify some good essence learning through their own knowledge, but don't follow those impractical old sayings. We should believe more in the power of science.

There are many proverbs in rural areas of our country, which are very wise. These are the experiences summed up by the older generation in the long-term life process. Some of them guide agricultural production, while others guide people's lives. Building a house in the countryside is also a big event. For many people, working hard all their lives is to build a beautiful house and let future generations live in a comfortable house. Therefore, it is very important to choose the foundation of rural houses, because it involves the foundation safety of a house. If the foundation is unstable, it may harm yourself, your family and even future generations. Therefore, many folk sayings are a common cognition about building houses in rural areas. For example, the elderly in rural areas often say that the former is high and the latter is empty. If you are not lonely, you will be widowed. What does this sentence mean? Does it make sense? I stopped for tea today to talk to you.

For farmers, finding a good homestead and building a decent house is one of the most important things in their lives. Feng shui used to be very popular in the countryside. Before each household builds a house, there is a special Mr. Feng Shui who goes to the homestead chosen by himself or the homestead chosen by Mr. Feng Shui to see if it is suitable. Then, the feng shui master will determine the date and time to break ground.

When choosing a homestead, if the front of the house is relatively high, such as a slope or a high dam, and there are low-lying rivers, ponds and other areas behind the homestead, this is a very unfavorable terrain and is not suitable for building houses. Building a house in such a place is prone to problems. This is the literal meaning of the old people in rural areas who say that the front is high and the back is empty.

First, if there is a steep slope or high dam in front of the homestead, it is easy to block out the sun, which will make the home dark and humid, which is not conducive to the health of family members, and may cause some chronic diseases in the long run. At the same time, it is easy to cause the house to be damp and moldy, which is easy to cause the house to be damaged.

Second, the terrain in front of the homestead is high, which is prone to the possibility of houses being washed away when it rains or flash floods break out. Once this kind of risk occurs, it is very harmful, ranging from water accumulation in the home to damp and moldy furniture, to house collapse, and may even endanger personal safety.

Third, the low-lying land behind the homestead and pond is easy to lead to foundation settlement, house cracking, and even house collapse in serious cases, resulting in a tragic situation of family destruction and death.

Fourth, the low terrain behind the homestead is easy to cause water accumulation, which will easily lead to the resurgence of the house at home in the long run, which is very unfavorable to the elderly and children who live in it for a long time.

It is a relative exaggeration to say that the front is high and the back is empty, which shows the serious harm of building houses on this terrain. Farmers need to be vigilant and never choose. Even in today's environment, this sentence still has some truth. Therefore, the wisdom of the ancients is very profound, and we still enjoy it today. Although simple and clear, it contains profound truth. Everybody right? How to understand this sentence? Please leave a message below to express your opinion.

Rural people have always been very particular about building houses. Sitting facing south, facing the sun in the shade, commanding, these are all things that we rural people need to consider when building a house, because building a house is a very important thing in life for rural people, and we have to live in it all our lives, so we should abide by all the etiquette and pay attention to building a house. So today's topic says "high before and low after, not lonely or widowed". What exactly is it? The following small farmers will tell you something.

First, from the health point of view, the front room is taller than the back room, which will block the sunshine in the back room. Rural areas are generally located in mountainous areas and woodlands. Not seeing the sun for a long time will produce moisture and wet poison, which will induce many diseases for normal people for a long time, which is very dangerous, so it is necessary to avoid high before and low after.

Secondly, from the safety point of view, if the front of the house built on the mountain is higher than the back, the safety will be greatly reduced in natural disasters such as landslides, landscape eruptions and snow. And the stress surface will be small, the risk will be great, and there will be no shelter, so there will be more dangers.

Third, from the feudal point of view, the front door is wide and the money is exhausted. If the high-rise building in front blocks the back door and our financial path, there will be many unfavorable things, and the financial path will be blocked out, so we must avoid that the house in front is higher than the house behind.

Fourth, from the heart, the house in the back is higher and condescending than the house in front. On the other hand, if the house behind is lower than the house in front, it will produce a sense of depression for a long time, which is also harmful to physical and mental health over time.

As for not being alone, this is a bit exaggerated. In the past, old people always used exaggerated methods to warn future generations. We can listen to the second half of this proverb. The above are some personal understandings of this proverb by small farmers. If it is not suitable, leave a message in the comment area for discussion!

If you are not alone, you will be widowed.

This is a long-standing saying, which can be explained from several aspects, such as yin house geomantic omen, yang house geomantic omen and physiognomy.

First of all, Yang Zhai Feng Shui, a family, if the back of the house is low-lying, it is easy to accumulate water and the water flows out from behind. This is a counterintuitive phenomenon and easily leads to the owner's illness. If the accumulated water does not disappear for a long time, there will be repeated diseases, serious illnesses and minor illnesses. People get sick when they have money, and it is difficult to make money without money. Moreover, it is easy to have a bad relationship with neighbors and often quarrel over trifles.

Besides, the yin house is feng shui. If there is a puddle behind the ancestral grave, or it is low-lying, and there is someone else's ancestral grave nearby, then the ancestral grave of one's own family belongs to being a filial son to others, and it has lost its dignity for generations. Children of future generations are often unfriendly, have festivals with each other, and even don't communicate with each other, becoming strangers. And there are business people, and business has been unsatisfactory. On the surface, there is a wind and water, but behind it is an empty shelf, with little income, or losing money to earn money.

Descendants with such ancestral graves are also prone to have no descendants, or more daughters, fewer boys and fewer descendants.

Physiologically, because according to the traditional theory, such people have a backward forehead, a short chin and a backward state. His face is flat and his eyes are smooth. There are three vertical lines on his nose and three vertical lines in his eyes, especially when he smiles. This is also a feature of no offspring. Such people have no children for a long time after marriage and may remain single.

Because there is also Yang Zhai Feng Shui on the face, a person lying on the ground with his forehead facing south is facial Feng Shui. The nose is the center of the house yard, the forehead is the south gate, and the chin is the back of the house.

Of course, there are also problems such as fleeting colors, so I won't explain them here.

Building a house mainly has three meanings, which should be avoided as far as possible:

First of all, the building structure itself is high before and low after. Because the house cannot be built at the same time, the height of the roof is inconsistent when it is repaired in batches, and the more it is repaired, the lower it is. Some build the main house first and then the small house at the back, or in the big yard, the height of the front gatehouse in the yard is higher than the house itself. This kind of house is high in the front and low in the back. The biggest drawback of such a house design is that the front is too high, which is easy to block the circulation of fresh air in the back room, which will block the sun and cause darkness in the back room.

Then there is the uneven terrain of the homestead, which leads to the state of high before and low after. Such houses are generally built on the mountain, and the homestead itself is high before and low after. This kind of terrain is most prone to geological changes, which is not conducive to the stability of houses.

There is also a saying that the terrain in the yard is lower than the height of the land outside the yard, or the indoor building is lower than the outdoor, which is also called "the front is high and the rear is empty". When it rains again, it will often cause the flood to flow backward into the yard or the house, which will greatly affect the stability of the house. In the yard, it will easily cause the room to be damp and affect the health of residents.