What men lack most is ambition.

What men lack most is ambition. Almost all men have ambitions. The more men who come from lower family and social status, the greater their ambitions! Ambitious men, regardless of appearance or height, have irresistible charm, but why do men lack ambition the most?

What men lack most is ambition 1. Men lack ambition.

The first characteristic is that the spiritual world is barren.

Ignorance is the common feature of most worthless people. It is said that knowledge changes fate, and the rich spiritual world never belongs to such people. The horizon and pattern are as small as ants, and the spiritual world is extremely barren. People who spend their energy on daily chores and daily necessities are satisfied with their narrow self-space, never take the initiative to study and struggle, and may not even bother to turn over a book, and their ideological consciousness has not grown a little, or even more.

The second feature is that I like to complain about life.

Some people always don't like to complain when their life or work is unsatisfactory. There are many such people in our life now. In fact, many times, in the face of some things, we should learn how to solve the problem, instead of living by complaining all day, because we can't solve the problem at all. Learn to change your mind, embrace life with a positive side, cheer yourself up every day, do everything with your heart, have a clear conscience, and believe that life will develop to the good side and spend every day happily.

The third characteristic is to muddle along and have no pursuit.

Ambitious men are the most attractive. Because ambitious men have an impulse and tenacity to be dissatisfied with the status quo and not admit defeat. In their cognition, they are the masters of fate. On the contrary, men who have no ambition are only satisfied with the status quo and think that this is their own life. I never want to change anything. I live a drunken life today, muddling along every day, as long as I have food, clothing and shelter in my life. No pursuit, no ideal, their mantra is, why are people so tired? Be content. Use this sentence to cover up your laziness and inaction, just to avoid losing face.

The fourth characteristic, being hypocritical, focuses on superficial kung fu.

Sincerity is not only a wise way of life, but also wins respect for yourself. Those hypocritical people, on the surface, seem sincere, but in fact, they say one thing and do another. Hypocrisy is actually a person's personality problem, and getting along with such people will inevitably cause a lot of trouble. This hypocrisy is a superficial compromise to gain one's own interests. In fact, we often meet such men, but they can only pretend for a while, not for a lifetime. When he is chasing you, he relies on it in all aspects; When I caught up with you, I exposed my true colors. Do you expect him to cherish you after marrying you?

What men lack most is ambition. Men who are equally "ambitious" for both sexes are embodied in the following aspects.

1, which is very demanding for the other half.

The economic base determines the superstructure. A successful man, a man with a big pattern, has a high ideological level. This has nothing to do with education, but is determined by rich life experiences.

A man with a big pattern must be a man with rich life experience, and a successful man must be a man with many failures and successful experiences. At this stage, men's material needs have been met, and they need more spiritual communication. At this moment, what men need is the opposite sex who has a certain life experience and is particularly feminine.

Being able to exchange successful experiences together, men can listen to each other's wonderful past, and women can respect and understand men's past. And all this is not a woman without rich life experience and a certain ideological realm can do.

The charm of a woman is not only in appearance. No matter what age, no matter whether the appearance is old or not, a woman like Mr. Jiang Yang, who exudes temperament from the inside out and has a deep understanding of life and strong thinking, is still a goddess that many men can look at from a distance and can no longer be ridiculous. It is the object pursued by many successful men and big men.

2, will not easily have a relationship with women.

When you have sex with a woman, you are responsible. Even today, this kind of consciousness is gradually weak, it is still the basic moral standard. A woman who has never had sexual experience or takes sexual experience seriously will have sex with a man because of trust.

Men with big patterns understand this, so there will be restless Liu Xiahui. Only a man who has no goal and lacks self-confidence all day long will have sex with a woman regardless of the consequences.

Because of success, you have a sense of responsibility, and because you have a certain social status, you should pay attention to the negative effects. This is a necessary quality for every man with a big picture. Even in front of the woman he likes, he should remain rational, because for a man, there are still many meaningful things waiting for him ahead.

3, it will be better than others to your other half.

Women never need central air conditioning, just like the classic line "Who makes him a living Lei Feng" in Fanghua. A man's kindness to one woman is love, and a man's kindness to all women for a long time becomes friendship.

Men should treat women differently. Men can have friendly concern and even become good friends with the opposite sex, but it must be remembered that some things can only be done for the special opposite sex.

A man who truly understands life understands the difference between a lover and a friend, always keeps a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex, and always cares about his lover at any cost. This is why some men are very busy, but the wife at home still trusts her husband and never feels wronged.

Men have limited energy and feelings. It is necessary to concentrate limited feelings into intensive firepower to produce greater results. Leave your own warmth everywhere like Chili noodles. The warmth lasts for a very limited time and will dissipate in the blink of an eye. No one will remember.

Men should be ambitious and enterprising people, and strive to pursue the highest realm of career and love. Only in this way can we achieve more and more wonderful and meaningful life. The so-called ambition is not only a staged struggle, but a continuous high standard.

What men lack most is ambition. A man is not a man without ambition, a woman is not a woman without cooking, and a man without ambition is not a man. I have really seen this seemingly reasonable "wisdom of life". What is meant by "coming here", "being a child", "taking a big vacation" and "not easy" is actually the kind that looks very comforting and inspirational, but in fact, especially Chunchong is also illogical. Take the sentence "A man is not a man without ambition" as an example. The man who speaks presupposes an ambitious goal for a man, and then outputs it crazily.

Logically, this is a mistake of "no real Scots".

Many times, what is reasonable for one component is unreasonable for other components. We can often observe the consistency between things, so when consistency does not exist, we will also think that there is consistency. You try to defend your flawed views by Monday morning quarterback and revising the standards.

In fact, I fully understand how Zhang Dongsheng felt when he heard these words. A "Phoenix Man" in the eyes of others tried his best to solve the problem when he was a child, but when he grew up, he gave up everything to live in a strange big city because he liked someone. In fact, his psychology is easy to guess, that is, two words: humble. Especially his earning ability can't keep up with his other half, and the other half and the other half's family have always looked down on him, so when he begged his parents-in-law to save their marriage, they said something like this:

The first thing they think of is "we have never treated you materially", and the rest is "daughter's happiness". As for the mood of the son-in-law now, they have never considered it, thought about it, and will not comfort them. You can imagine how depressed he is living in such a family. I refused a colleague's party, went home to have dinner with my wife and bought chicken and vegetables, but her wife said, "I'm going swimming" and refused. This is not just an accident for a day or two, but his daily life. Having said that, I have to praise Qin Hao's acting skills.

This is the expression on his face when he listens to his mother-in-law. His eyebrows, corners of his eyes, corners of his mouth and eyes behind his glasses all express his feelings, from sadness, despair, thinking to forced smile. Everyone knows that he is sad, even the audience can feel it, but the people in front of him can't feel it. Therefore, that kind of biting indifference is vividly expressed in this change of expression, and his emotional changes are only revealed in 30 seconds. Of course, the director and screenwriter contributed a lot, otherwise they wouldn't have succeeded in attracting my attention in the first two minutes, which surprised me and made me put down my paper and watch several episodes specially. This part is not very dramatic. You can try it yourself. Ha ha ha ha ha. If you are careful, you can find countless intriguing details from this "hidden corner", such as the comparison between the first reunion of Chaoyang and Yan Liang and Pupu.

When we first met, they were separated by a gate, with Chaoyang inside and Yan Liang and Pupu outside. They were all locked up. Yan Liang and Pupu were shut out of their normal life, while Chaoyang was shut out of their mother and classmates, and there was a gap between them. So after letting them in, Chaoyang hid her mother's precious jewelry. At that time, they were only indoors, crowded and oppressed. Later, when three people were playing together, Chaoyang found that his mother's jewelry was not lost, and Yan Liang and Pupu also helped him clean the house, so they slowly opened their hearts, so the backs of the three people merged together-Yan Liang and Pupu also let him stand among the three people. At this time, they reached the roof, which was open and comfortable. These are all details, but the relationship between people and psychological changes are also hidden inside. In the echo, a story is told slowly. 12 episodes 1 hour short play, the capacity is not very large, but each shot has its meaning-which is why it can get a high score of 9.0 in Douban as soon as it is broadcast-even the ending song "Little White Boat" is also a part of the plot.

Chaoyang, they recorded "Little White Boat" sung by Pupu as a souvenir, and the lyrics of "Little White Boat" are similar to the moral of this story:

In the blue sky and the Milky Way, there is a small white boat with a osmanthus tree on board. The white rabbit is playing with the paddle, but it can't be seen. Sail to the western heaven without sails, cross the Milky Way to the cloud country, cross the cloud country, and then where to go. In that distant place, the golden morning star is a lighthouse, shining brightly.

Where will Yan Liang and Pupu go from here? Where is the cloud country and the morning star?

Although this is a suspense film, I can feel Zhong Yi's tenacious vitality. One is the tenacious growth of children in adversity. Yan Liang came to this city with Pupu just to see Yan Liang's father and then treat Pupu. Pupu lost his parents and insisted on burning some photos for his father every year; Moreover, she knows how to repay the kindness, and she can also feel the emotions of people around her: when Chaoyang is sad because his new shoes are trampled dirty, Pupu will secretly clean his shoes the next morning.

The other is friendship. The reason of Chaoyang's autism comes from the double pressure of family and classmates. The appearance of Yan Liang and Pupu helped him get out of autism-he also provided them with shelter and things, as well as long-lost happiness. The smiling faces of these three people really cured me of writing papers and losing my hair every day.

There is also a retiring policeman played by Wang Jingchun. He fell down at the beginning and shut up. There is a feeling that "Lian Po is old enough to eat"; When his wife asked him to adapt to retirement as soon as possible, his impatience and concern for Yan Liang were behind the sense of responsibility of a policeman. "Don't be a little policeman." The half sentence I didn't say was "I am the people's police." Always sincere, always enthusiastic, this is countless you and me, countless people in China.