Xu's emotional history: conquering seven men by talent, but finally being surrendered by him.

Writer Wang Shuo intervened in this marriage. After the divorce, Wang Shuo put down the words for him. "All the money will go to her after I die."

In the blog era, Han Han's blog is the only link for an insider.

Robbed the boyfriend of Gao Yuanyuan, a recognized beauty in the circle, and revealed that there was no shortage of boyfriends at the age of 19;

I am good friends with every predecessor, and my mood has been very stable since I was with Huang Lixing. ..

What is the ability of Xu, the "first talented woman in Beijing"?

0 1, a talented girl in the family just grew up.

1April 1994 16, Xu was born in an ordinary worker's family in Beijing.

Family conditions are average. However, parents have paid more attention to cultivating Xu since childhood.

She began to recite ancient poems and learn calligraphy at an early age.

/kloc-When she was 0/7 years old, she had the idea of learning to draw. Father readily promised.

In his view, only knowledge can change fate. As long as his daughter is willing to learn, he will fully support it.

So 17-year-old Xu began to learn painting across half of Beijing, day after day, going through hardships.

Fully aware of the influence of art, she decided to apply for a major related to this. So she applied for the Department of Dance Art and the College of Arts and Crafts of the Central Academy of Drama.

But unfortunately, I failed the list. Later, she was admitted to the performance department of Nortel.

After all, it is inevitable that you will be admitted because of your fresh appearance and brilliant talent.

02. Wang Shuo, who can't get around, talks about Xu Jinglei.

1993, Xu entered the film academy. Ever since she was a child, she felt bound at home. As soon as she entered the university, she began to let go of herself: playing rock, drinking and falling in love!

For her, college is a very free, relaxed and carefree environment.

When she was a sophomore, she met the writer Wang Shuo, a man 16 years older than her. She already had a family, but they fell in love without hesitation.

In Wang Shuo's view, this little girl with a bit of literary youth likes to play rock music. This contrast fascinated him.

In this love, Xu is very presumptuous and crazy. I sent a message to Shen, Wang Shuo's former partner, late at night.

"Your home is the same as mine now, so don't go."

And Shen also calmly replied, "Wang Shuo won't talk to you. Because he is my son, he can't do anything without me. "

But unfortunately, Shen suffered a fiasco this time.

Soon, she divorced Wang Shuo, and Shen took their only daughter to America.

Just when the people who ate melons thought that Wang Shuo and Xu Jinglei were getting married, they didn't expect them to break up.

Although we broke up, Xu won more than the title of mistress in this relationship.

She made full use of Wang Shuo's contacts and helped her show her strength in the circle.

1964, she starred in her first TV series "Love Affairs".

Pu Cunxin, Wujiang and Ding Zhicheng are her co-actors, and she is the only actress among the actors.

And she lived up to expectations, relying on the success of the play.

1999 The most popular actress in Beijing Times voted. At that time, Xu Fan was the first, and Xu was the second, but the votes of the second and the first were very close.

What does this mean?

You know, only seven years after Xu Fan's debut, she has had one classic after another, which is not only popular, but also Feng Dao's new wife.

It took Xu Fan seven years to build this country and two years to build this country.

After that, I collaborated with Li on "Carry Love to the End".

In this play, 24-year-old Xu plays the heroine Wen Hui.

Because the character and experience are in line with the characters in the play, and the script is very powerful, this play has caused a very good response.

Next, she made several plays in succession, and the response was good. She won the Hundred Flowers Award and Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress.

But gradually, Xu found that acting alone could not show her talent. So she wants to be a director and make her own movies.

But when it comes to making movies, she doesn't have any experience or connections.

At a loss, she thought of her ex-boyfriend Wang Shuo. Although she and Wang Shuo have broken up, from all indications, they are still good friends after breaking up.

This is the greatness of Xu. She would never betray her predecessor.

Finally, Xu directed and starred in the first film "Me and Dad" in her life.

This work is also based on her ex-boyfriend's novel of the same name.

This film won Xu the Golden Rooster Award for Best First Novel, which is a great award for a novice director and also means recognition.

That is, this film, Xu has the reputation of "talented woman director" in the entertainment circle.

Later, she filmed a letter from a strange woman. He performed well in the film, and he was able to take on Jiang Wen's play, with a good response and a box office of over 100 million yuan.

She is also the first female directors in China to break the box office. Only famous.

Next, Xu opened her real road of "the first talented woman in Beijing".

In June, 2006, 5438+ 10 served as the "Love Image Ambassador" of the National Lions Club of China.

In 2007, her handsome calligraphy was simplified by Founder Jing Lei.

Later, he continued to shoot movies and TV series, attended major conferences and devoted himself to public welfare undertakings.

From the beginning of Wang Shuo's help to her personal stage, Wang Shuo was like a key, which brought opportunities to Xu.

What really makes her seize the opportunity is her own talent and ability.

03. Make a scandal.

In addition to talent, what makes the audience relish is an anecdote told by Xu when he was filming a drama.

19 years old, never short of boyfriends, never broken. This is not just talk, the fact is as she said.

He has liked Wang Shuo since his sophomore year. Then I had an affair with a famous musician.

Sambo is the creator of the theme song "Dimfragrance" of the Golden Powder Family. From his works, we can see that he is very talented.

But there was no splash in the end.

Until later. When Xu was filming A Letter from a Stranger, he had a spark with the hero Huang Jue.

The scandal spread in high profile. Journalists can often photograph her dating Huang Jue hand in hand and even traveling to the United States together.

Just as the audience was waiting for an open romance.

The matter came to an abrupt end. She was having an affair with a musician, Zhang Yadong.

Perhaps artists are more favored by talented women.

However, Zhang Yadong already has a girlfriend at this time.

This Zhang Yadong is not simple. He is known as the producer of royal music in Faye Wong.

At that time, his girlfriend was Gao Yuanyuan, a big beauty in the circle. Not only that, Zhang Yadong also had an affair with Jinsuo at this time.

I can win the love of two recognized beauties in the circle. I have to say that Xu's charm is really great!

Xu not only charmed the male artists he worked with, but also appreciated the talented Han Han and Gao.

In the new blog era, the only friend in Han Han's blog is Xu.

Han Han has publicly stated that Xu is very frank and talented.

He added, "The most important thing is that she doesn't wear makeup. I don't like girls who wear heavy makeup. "

The reporter also photographed Xu and Han Han having dinner late at night.

In this regard, Xu also generously said, is there any problem when two adults meet? Do I need to notify everyone? It's really quiet

Gao also generously praised Xu.

"Do you know that Beijing scatters honey? Maybe, and it's unique. You can't call it good-looking. Good-looking is one of them. It must have a very special style. Only Xu can be worthy. "

And Gao also wrote a song for her-"Lei", which is like a confession from the title to the lyrics.

But whether they are together is still a mystery. After all, Gao and Wang Shuo are friends of Beijing. When he was infatuated with Xu, Xú Zhēng and Wang Shuo became close friends.

Although Xu had an affair with many big names in Beijing, literary and art circles and entertainment circles, no relationship came to the end.

She has always been "among the flowers, not touching a leaf"!

Until 2009, she met Huang Lixing.

In 2009, at the release conference of the movie "Du Lala's Promotion", she interacted closely with the movie hero Huang Lixing.

Soon after, Xu made this relationship public. Later, she showed her love on the public platform many times, which Xu had never done before.

But this time, she was serious, as if she had met true love.

Facts have proved that they have been together for so many years, and their feelings are still very good. Really true love!

Huang Lixing is different from her ex-boyfriend.

Growing up in the United States, he has the humor and enthusiasm of American teenagers and can give Xu enough tolerance and care.

Xu's family background cultivated her talent and her character.

Although she is an all-round talented woman, in her feelings, every woman wants to be a little woman, not a so-called bosom lover, translator and talented woman.

Only when she fell in love with Huang Lixing did she finally become a little woman.

One year on Tanabata, she sent a message to Weibo saying, "I am sick, he is my medicine."

This sentence is a bit unconventional for other little girls, but it is really shocking to say it from Xu, who is already in her forties!

She was cured by him.

Together 12 years, they live together, exercise together, sweat together and exercise together.

We did a lot of things together.

"We have been together for five years and have never quarreled. Only when you meet the right person in your feelings can you find a better self. "

Now Xu is 46 years old. She is not married, but her feelings are stronger than marriage. She said: "I am very casual about getting married, and I can get married whenever I want."

Xu conquered seven men with her talent, so it is natural for her to mention that her predecessors are bosses.

"I think we can still be friends and become good friends after breaking up. I have a boyfriend who has been calling almost every day for twenty years. "

This is Xu, who is brilliant, but manages love better than his career.

Gossip continues, not falling into the spell of love.

Hidden under countless scandals is not only her way of doing things, but also her "honey" character. She lived the best of herself.