When my son bought a house, I borrowed 65,438+million from my son-in-law. Now my son-in-law needs money badly, but he wants my son to pay back 200 thousand. What should I do?

My name is Liu Guihua, and I always say that every family has its own problems. Before the children get married, I hope my son can find a daughter-in-law quickly and my daughter can find a married family. But now that my daughter is married and my son is seeing someone, my heart is getting tighter and tighter.

The thing is, our family is a farmer and we don't have much money. My son talked about a girlfriend from other places. My wife and I were very happy when we took her home last year, but the woman made a request: marriage is ok, but we must buy a house first. The daughter-in-law made it clear that she did not live in the countryside. But we really didn't have much money at that time, so I had to turn to my son-in-law.

Speaking of son-in-law, I have some dissatisfaction. When my daughter wanted to marry him, I didn't quite agree. Because I always wanted my daughter to marry a local youth in a nearby village, but my daughter was headstrong and insisted on saying it herself. It's nice to find a son-in-law so far away, not only not from this city, but also it takes at least five hours to drive to our house every time. But there is no way. My daughter is in love. Can parents force her? So in this way, they got married after talking for less than two years.

My son-in-law is an interior decorator. I started doing it after graduation. Now he has been doing it for six years. He has successfully started a decoration company, and his business is ok. He works every day. At that time, I explained the situation to him, and he readily agreed to lend our family 654.38+10,000 yuan, but he didn't write an IOU at that time, nor did he say when it would be returned. In fact, my son-in-law can come up with this 654.38+ million, and I am still grateful.

But what I really didn't expect was that the son-in-law was so unkind. Now our family is short of money, and it still costs a lot of money for our son to get married. The son-in-law directly asked my son to pay back the money without going through my daughter and me, and directly asked him for 200 thousand! I was dumbfounded when I heard that. What do you mean, 200 thousand? Later, I learned that I borrowed 6,543,800 yuan three years ago and the interest increased by 20,000 yuan. I didn't let my daughter bring it back when the bride price was 80,000, and I did use this 80,000 to pay a down payment to my son. I didn't expect him to count the bride price money!

Now, he needs money badly, but he won't do it, will he? And I sent the card number to my son's mobile phone and asked him to type in the money within a week. Tell us, is my son-in-law authentic? Should I give him money?