In the workplace, please stay away from people who love to spit.

My colleague, Ms. M, just returned from a trip to Turkey yesterday and took a two-week vacation. At the end of the quarter, when everyone was rushing for performance, she was able to take a half-month holiday calmly, and we all secretly admired her courage.

However, she has always been very efficient, no matter how busy she is, she will take time to travel, go to Nepal on May Day, go to Azerbaijan on Dragon Boat Festival and go skiing in Russia during Spring Festival. ......

On the one hand, she can live so chic because her family is well-off. She has two suites in Shenzhen, two children go to school in Hong Kong, and her parents are intellectuals. On the other hand, there are many holidays in the first few years of work.

Time is gentle to her like a breeze, leaving no trace. He is 1.78 meters tall and is in his forties this year. She has a slim and elegant figure, a fair and shiny face, thick black hair and bangs wrapped in air. The older children have almost graduated from high school. I can't believe she is the mother of two children. ......

In her work, she has meticulous logic, strong negotiation and communication skills, infectious speeches, fluent oral English and no obstacles in communicating with foreign colleagues. ......

Ms. G, 30+, unmarried, communicating with her is often maddening. Logical confusion, poor understanding, unfocused speech and big temper; Tell others the same thing, and two or three colleagues will explain it to her several times before they understand; Take a regular lunch break and chat with others on weekends after work. The colleagues who docked with her were speechless.

This time they went on a trip together, which surprised everyone. When other colleagues asked about the itinerary, Ms. M began to vomit: G walked too slowly, and everyone had to wait for her. Then other colleagues began to echo: Don't you see that she is usually very slow in doing things? Although she doesn't like G's way of doing things, she doesn't like a group of people gathering around to eat melons and spit.

When you spit on others, you are also being spit on by others. No matter how good a person is, the pictogram will be discounted.

It's not the first time I've heard them look at it and spit. None of the people present were present. At different times and occasions, they are both spitters and spitters. No one around them was spared.

For example, Ms. M vomited three times in a row:

Spit at her three bosses. Because of the company's job transfer, she changed three direct and separate supervisors before and after. The first one is unprofessional, the second one is too clumsy, and the third one has a long meeting time, is too verbose and has a strong desire for control, and does not give subordinates a chance to speak. ......

Spitting at her two assistants. She recruited the first assistant and worked together for three years. She has a strong sense of responsibility, very careful and comprehensive. Many things that she should have done were done by her assistant. She once told other colleagues that she was just too slow and inefficient. Later, after changing to a new assistant, he complained that the new assistant was efficient, but careless and always made mistakes, and others had to check what he had done. Not as careful as my former assistant.

Spit at her partner. She and her partner are in charge of the same department, but their business contents are different. They want to cooperate with each other and have their own interests. On the surface, she is very harmonious, but she also complains that her partner likes to importune, be too picky and behave badly.

Although some of her vomit is true, she vomits a lot, which makes people feel very close.

No one is perfect and the work is not perfect, but if you always compare the shortcomings of others with the advantages of others, you will never see the advantages of others.

If you can't change it, you can try to accept it instead of endless spit.

No matter how good a person is, just spitting will only make others' impression of you discounted. After a long time, you will also be labeled as "groove essence"

There are also those behaviors of whispering to others during work hours. After work, a group of people get together to gossip about other people's private lives and work, which is really unpleasant.

The spitter is quick, the listener is cold, and it is not good for anyone to disperse in a hubbub after spitting. It is better to drink tea quietly, do your own thing and get off work early.

Spitting everywhere will only alienate others from you, not empathize with you.

A colleague who joined me before began to vomit every day, from the elevator to the restaurant to the office. The content of tucao is either work or trivial. She has said these words n times.

Many times someone reminded her that walls have ears, but she never paid attention. Suppose the person who was spit out, or the person who knew that she was spit out, heard what she said, wouldn't she have an idea?

Send an hour's voice call after work and spit with me. If I don't answer her, I will call again persistently. The content of tucao is nothing more than those during the day, and you have never been given a chance to speak. I have a thin skin and didn't hang up directly, but I'm really speechless. So that in the end, everything she said went in one ear and out the other. Later, when she left her job, she didn't want to take the initiative to contact, because she was really afraid of her endless spit.

Spitting at work is resistance, not motivation. There is no benefit except transmitting negative energy.

When I just graduated, I was inexperienced and had a strong self-esteem and returned to blx. When you encounter unhappy things at work, you either complain to your friends or spit on your colleagues.

Several colleagues who joined the company at that time shared a room together. Whether in the company or at home, eating, sleeping and going out to play are basically a series of work-related gossip and spit, such as unsatisfactory work, unfriendly colleagues, low salary and poor treatment. Some words that everyone said in private somehow reached the people who were spit out, and they were embarrassed for several times. I have a long memory since then.

In the face of spitting, I advise you not to "fit in"

Spitting and listening to others will make you often think of bad jobs and fail to see the value it can bring you.

When you are in trouble, you always look for problems in others, but don't reflect on your own problems, so it is difficult to grow up.

Those who know that the company has many shortcomings, but seldom complain, but quietly work hard to improve their working ability, finally get a promotion and a raise, and then jump ship are the winners.

Looking back on the year when I just graduated, it was the time when I talked the most, and it was also the most difficult time to settle down and study, and I missed many opportunities for growth.

Now, when I meet colleagues who spit out work, I try to open the topic or choose to stay away; If I can't get rid of it, I'll just listen and not express my opinion. I don't want into the pit, and I don't want those negative energies to affect me.

Actually, life is the same. Life is not easy, and proper spitting can relieve stress, but instead of complaining about spitting every day and bursting with negative energy, it is better to read, cook and exercise to make life better.