I have a bad father. As I grow up, I hate him more and more. Am I right?

I think my father is the same. Savages don't listen to him, don't obey him, just hit people. My mother and I have both experienced domestic violence and are very sensitive to him. My mother hates him. They will never say another word in their lives. I'm afraid of him, too. He is the father who raised me. Although I am very chilling to him, all I can do is chat with him. I will take care of him when I am old. It can't be too close, as warm as other families.

I envy children who have a warm family. When our family of three met, the room was calm and full of fear. I think my dad was right to hit people. No one will put up with being alone for a while. Growing up, I decided to stay away from him as long as I can remember. Sometimes I feel that most of my life is provided by him, and sometimes I feel soft-hearted, and fear is indispensable.

Sometimes I am disappointed in this family. There are only shadows in my memory. I was born in this family, and I have no choice. Some of my psychological problems are sometimes really hard to please and chilling. All children can do is talk to their parents. My father and I can feel the difficulty and loneliness of doing manual labor even in different places. I will still answer the phone when he sends me a video, and I can tolerate it when I go home to see me for a few days. Under the same roof, I just stay away from him.

Although your father hates his bad behavior, he is still a family. A person's character can't be changed in his life. When your father talks to you, you must respond. At the very least, you have to be filial. If your experience is similar to mine, I think it is right to stay away from him. At least you can protect yourself.