This gentleman's conversation

Our ancestors left many famous sayings about villains and gentlemen. What do we often see? An upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried. ? ,? Gentleman's week does not compare, villain's week does not compare? 、? A villain bears a grudge, but a gentleman aspires? Wait a minute. Today, we will focus on the last sentence. Why did our ancestors say that? A villain bears a grudge, but a gentleman aspires? ? To understand this problem, let's first look at what is a villain, what is a gentleman, and why?

First of all, we can all see that villains and gentlemen are two different people. So what kind of person is called a villain, and what is the difference between a gentleman and him? Villains usually refer to those who are dishonest and dishonest, and usually do whatever it takes to achieve their goals. Such people usually hide that others are better than themselves and narrow-minded; Seeing that there is no power, it is easy to accept temptation; It is easy to hold a grudge against small things, and so on; So what kind of person do we call a gentleman? From the magnanimity of an upright person, we can see that people like gentlemen are usually magnanimous, informal, and have a clear distinction between love and hate. No matter from the perspective, mind or behavior, it is essentially different from the villain.

Facing the same thing, no matter whether the result is good or bad, the attitude of villain and gentleman is completely different. For example, in a certain job, it is not suitable to deal with a specific event. At this time, some colleagues helped to make suggestions and take corresponding measures to make up for the inappropriate places in time. In the face of this matter, if it is a villain's attitude, he will feel that his colleagues are deliberately embarrassing themselves, and even have the suspicion of taking credit in front of the leaders. In the face of this matter, he is not only ungrateful, but bears a grudge and waits for revenge in the future; If it is a gentleman's attitude, he will be grateful to his colleagues for coming forward in time to make up for the shortcomings and avoid the loss of everyone, so he is grateful and has learned the corresponding lessons. So-called? Learn from mistakes? It's a gentleman's behavior.

However, in life, it is sometimes difficult for us to distinguish between villains and gentlemen. We can only make friends with gentlemen and stay away from villains. Because the villain is hard to prevent, no one knows when it will be a trick behind it. We should also study the mind of a gentleman, cultivate a gentleman's vision, and strive to be frank and natural.