When you retire at the age of 60, will you take your wife to travel regardless of your children?

No, I will travel, but I will also take care of my daughter and grandson, because they are my favorite, and it will be more important to separate from each other in the future. Love life begins with loving children and grandchildren. Only when the family atmosphere is harmonious can travel be happier.

Answer: If I get my social security salary one day, the first thing I will do is to share some housework for my two daughters. Practically speaking, I am an ordinary person. At this age, living is for the survival of children. As long as their families can be happy, that is also my greatest wish.

In other words, traveling with my wife is fun, and going out to play is more fun. However, people have never been to many places in their lives and have never seen many things. If there is such an opportunity, I would rather let my children see it more, that is, sacrifice my own vital interests. It's also for their daughters and grandchildren, who are old, can see and walk.

For example, an expensive brand dress worn on an old man like me can't add much brightness. If you wear it on young people, the effect will be very different. However, I can only represent my own views on these ideas, which are different from those of other colleagues.

First, see if your child needs the help of the elderly. If so, they will definitely not leave their children to travel. That's what incompetent parents do. However, children can take care of their own homes. In fact, I am looking forward to the sunset trip, which will be a more perfect journey in life. The most worthwhile trip is to go to places you want to go but haven't been to and experience days you haven't experienced. Because a person's life is not long, short is really short. It's not easy for two people to get married. People only have this life, so give it to yourself in the next life.

I said that an old couple I met on the train before was very interesting. First of all, both husband and wife are very young. This man has black hair, active speech and quick thinking. The woman smiles all day and doesn't talk much, which is a bit like singing with her. When asked, there are more than 60 men and more than 60 women. I wanted to call them uncles and aunts, but they looked really young, so I changed my mind to call them uncles and aunts.

They have an only daughter, who works in other places and is married. According to this uncle, they travel four or five times a year, twice in the first half and twice in the second half. Every time I go out, it's about half a month. My daughter is very supportive.

They have been to many provinces in China and plan to go to Tibet in the second half of that year. Because of the cheap air tickets, they once embarked on a journey on New Year's Eve. What surprised me most was that they didn't even attend their daughter's wedding in other places because of their travel.

What happened? Daughter got married, held a wedding in their city, invited local relatives and friends, and then held a second wedding in the city where her daughter lived. Because of the conflict between the wedding and their departure time, they resolutely chose to leave and give up attending their daughter's wedding.

I was so surprised that I asked curiously, is your daughter's son-in-law okay? They smiled and said: no problem, my daughter and son-in-law are very supportive! We don't interfere in their lives, they want to be dinks, we respect their choices, and they won't interfere in our lives!

It's really different for the elderly that the only daughter doesn't interfere with Dink! Get over it!

Looking at their young state, they are always smiling. I believe this is absolutely correct. You have worked hard all your life, and when you retire, you finally have a lot of free time. At this time, your body function is not completely aging. It's time to go out and have a look, and the child is old. They each have their own lives and do not interfere with each other. Is the best way to get along.

To tell the truth, I envy the situation of the old man. At the age of 60, I don't know if I can be as free and easy as them!

When you retire at the age of 60, will you travel without your children? This question is very interesting and worth thinking about.

This is a very realistic problem based on the traditional concept of China people.

My wife and I have retired for several years, and the life after retirement is arranged like this: my son's family can basically arrange their own lives independently, and we live alone and usually don't interfere in their family affairs; Their children are all responsible for school transportation. If the couple need to travel, we will pick them up. When we come back to our place for dinner on weekends, we can usually cook some delicious dishes and hand them to them.

Why don't we get completely involved in their family affairs? I think our outlook on life is very different from theirs, especially in lifestyle and children's education. They apply a modern lifestyle: they sleep late on rest days, sometimes take their children shopping, eat snacks and eat in better restaurants, which is normal for them. We retired people go to bed early and get up early, eat simply and live frugally. Living together for a long time, there will definitely be contradictions. So living separately is the best choice.

However, you can't completely let go of your child's life. You can't just watch them encounter difficulties in life and work and ignore them. If we do this, it is not in line with the traditional concept of China people, and it is also a sign of weak family ties. Neighborhood help each other, not to mention your children.

My wife and I both like traveling. After retirement, we will go out to road trip several times a year. But we will communicate with our children before going out to prepare them psychologically, and they will arrange their lives reasonably in our itinerary; Sometimes, I will travel with my family during holidays and enjoy the beautiful scenery in other places.

In short, children should gradually have the ability to live independently after marriage; Old people should also try their best to support their work, help them do some housework and solve some difficulties. In this way, we can achieve a win-win situation: we can not only achieve the goal of traveling after retirement, but also take care of children's emotions, because this is China.

Yes, I retired last year. My idea is simple. My daughter has successfully graduated from college, worked, got married and had two children of her own. I am responsible for my children, and my children's children are responsible. As grandparents, we can't say whether to bring grandchildren, but whether to bring them.

First of all, it is natural and reasonable to take responsibility for children. Grandparents should not replace them, let alone seize the learning opportunities in the process of children's growth. They also need to learn to be the parents of their grandchildren and do a good job in educating their children. Secondly, there will be a generation gap in the next generation, which no one can change. If there is a generation gap, there will be contradictions and estrangements that cannot be reconciled. Only if one or both sides constantly compromise can it be a peaceful and stable way of life. It is the same torture and unfairness to each other's body and mind, and it is even more unfavorable to the education of grandchildren. The formation of the three views will also be vague, one-sided and messy.

My point is that we don't care about children's affairs, including work, life, study and grandchildren's educational ideas. But when we need help, we will do it without hesitation and try our best to finish it.

Usually arrange your life well, do something beneficial to your physical and mental health, and your favorite lifestyle. Arranging our lives well is the greatest help and love for children.

Our generation can be said to have suffered for most of their lives, and even if you tell them today, they won't believe you, thinking that you have made up a story. Now that you are retired, you have to take your wife out for a walk regardless of your pension, and you can't control your children, but the topic ahead is within your power. When you are old, you must have your own nest and be financially independent. It is best not to reach out to your children, so that you can live a wonderful life.

I am a travel enthusiast, and I think I will definitely travel when I retire at the age of 60!

Travel as soon as you have time recently! I have been to many places, taken many photos and videos, and recorded the bits and pieces of my travel life! Now, my spare time life is very colorful, and I feel younger than before 10 years old. Travel has brought me many different experiences! Before, I was either working or staying at home, and the outside world seemed to be isolated from me, although I saw some pictures and videos of scenic spots on TV or on the Internet. However, these pictures and videos will not leave a deep impression on me!

In the past six months, I have been to many museums, parks, places of interest and so on! I have been to Beiling Park, which has a history of more than 300 years, and I have seen the underground palace of Huang Taiji. I have also been to the dinosaur museum, which children especially like, and I have seen many large dinosaur fossils and gained a deeper understanding of paleontology. I've been to Shenyang Middle Street, the first commercial pedestrian street in China, which is very long, and the traffic is very large every day! There are many local snacks here, such as Zhongjie cauldron, baked bean skin, mala Tang, mutton kebabs and so on! I have also been to Bayi Park, and many people come here for a walk and leisure! There are many models, tank models and shell models in Bayi Park, which opened my eyes! I feel that the world is diverse and colorful! After seeing so many different scenery, I regret that there were too few previous trips!

So, I think, if you and your wife retire at 60, you'd better go out for a walk! Go to places you haven't been before, just look around and travel! In fact, your children also want you to be happy! Children also have their own lives. Too much interference in their lives sometimes backfires! The best state is that parents have their parents' lives and children have their children's lives, so a happy life is a beautiful life!