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How should parents deal with their children's naughtiness?

It is important to deal with your child's naughtiness in a calm and objective manner. The child should see his behavior acknowledged in a way that he can identify with to avoid unnecessary guilt. When a child truly understands the consequences of his intentional or unintentional actions, he will sincerely admit his mistakes. The following steps are for reference:

1. Try to get your child to tell you the truth about what happened.

2. Describe the consequences of his behavior objectively, for example, ask the injured person to talk about what it was like to be pushed down or laughed at. You can tell him that when he didn't come home on time, the whole family was worried about him, and the original plans had to be canceled, etc.

3. Help your child recognize his behavior and the feelings of others involved.

4. Finally, it is very important to ask the child to think of any remedies to avoid it happening again.

5. If you punish your child, be sure to explain why beforehand.

On the premise of strengthening children's judgment, it is necessary to cultivate children's self-control ability. If self-control is not developed properly, children will become indecisive. I still remember one thing from my childhood, that is, the terrible consequences of losing control: I wanted to go to the toilet during class, but it was inconvenient. I wet my pants, and the ridicule I received made me extremely ashamed. Looking back on what happened, I'm sure I could have held it in, but the way people spoke to me made me lose control. I think the teacher's embarrassment may be the same as mine.