How can ordinary people rise?

Several skills that ordinary people have to master in order to accelerate their rise.

In this era, ordinary people also have the opportunity to rise rapidly. If you want to rise quickly, you must master several skills, otherwise it will be difficult to rise.

These skills are reading, writing and communication.

Let's start with reading. We have been emphasizing the importance of reading, but there are still many people who don't realize that they want to read, or don't know how to read. Reading can be divided into intensive reading and speed reading. The so-called fast reading is to master the main points of a book in a very short time.

First of all, if you want to grasp the key points of a book quickly, you can't miss the table of contents. In general, the table of contents will tell us what this book is about, which chapters are the focus of this book, which knowledge we already know and which knowledge is new, so that there are probably a few in our hearts, so that we can start reading better.

Before you start reading, you should also know that not all books are suitable for fast reading. For example, some novels or history books are not recommended to read quickly. When reading, don't love war. After mastering the main points, do it quickly and then change to the next book. If you stretch the front too long, you will gradually lose interest in this book. Usually I can't read a book for a week.

When reading, it is best to have a fixed time, form the habit of reading, prepare our thinking and physical state in advance, and let us enter the best state before starting reading. Finally, when reading fast, you must remember to take notes, because this reading time is relatively short. If we don't write it down, we can easily forget what we have read, and taking notes can avoid this. You can write down the main points of the book and the author's ideas, as well as the stories in the book. On the one hand, these can become the material for later writing or speech, on the other hand, they can familiarize the brain again for later viewing.

After reading quickly, let's talk about how to understand a book thoroughly. Here are some common techniques. The first is to make an outline, and we can also make a mind map, so that we can take notes while reading, so that we can read the whole book and have a good understanding of the book.

The second kind is abstracting, that is, when we see some golden sentences and good stories in the process of reading, we can extract them and store them in our material library for direct use in the future. After extracting it, we can recite it or read it carefully when we have nothing to do, which is also good for us.

The third skill is to write down your thoughts. After reading a book, you should contact your own life and write down your feelings. When writing ideas, generally speaking, you should add your own cases, or see how you use these contents in your daily life and connect them with your own life, so it is easier to produce * * *.

After reading it, let's talk about writing. Now, we all have a lot of writing materials. How can we turn them into articles? The first is epitaxy. When we see this material, we should try our best to extend a sentence into a paragraph and a paragraph into an article.

When you see a sentence, you should first think about it to see what kind of scene it is suitable for, and then think about whether there are any examples around you that match this sentence. At this time, basically an article was formed.

The second method is to find * * *, see a pile of materials, classify them first, share the same themes and stories together, and then you can find the characteristics according to these materials, and finally you can draw up a theme according to these characteristics, and then form an article.

Generally speaking, both methods can turn the material into a complete article.

After reading and writing, there is one last skill, which is communication, that is, chatting. This is also an art. If you are not good at talking, you will easily be left out in the cold. How can you talk to anyone?

First of all, don't be self-centered when communicating. I met some people in my life. I have been talking about myself when chatting, and I have been talking about my own affairs. This will give people a bad feeling. When interacting with people, we should know how to control our desire for expression and pay more attention to each other's interests and needs, so as to win each other's goodwill.

One more thing, it is very important to know how to listen when chatting, because in this era, fewer and fewer people can calm down and listen to others, and many people have become impetuous. If we know how to listen, we will gain the recognition and goodwill of others more easily. Listen to each other carefully and don't interrupt each other halfway, so that we can communicate better.

Finally, you should know how to ask questions when chatting. By asking questions, you can better let the other party tell their own experiences and stories, and also let the other party better express their views. It's easy for the other party to think that we are listening to him carefully and that the other party cares.

These are the skills we need to master in order to rise rapidly. With these skills, we can better build our personal brand when wandering the rivers and lakes.

A heartbroken post-90s generation who helped college students grow up.