Uncle said with a photo of his wife.

When people get old, they are most afraid of living a lonely life alone and suffering in loneliness. They all want to find a companion to accompany them through their old age. This is a day full of hope.

It is not so easy to find a suitable wife in life. Everyone has their own ideas about finding another wife, and sometimes it is difficult to reach an agreement. Even if two people will be together, it is difficult to go further.

The original intention of finding a wife in real life is to find someone who can accompany you. The purpose is not to be lonely in old age, but eventually contradictions and differences are increasing day by day. I have long forgotten the original intention of my companions, and it is difficult to last long.

Then why can't the old people stay with them for a long time? The 66-year-old uncle Wen experienced two companionships and lamented: After my companionship, I finally understood what the reality was like.

Narrator:

Text; 66 years old

My name is Wen. I am 66 years old. I am young and energetic. Living a boring and lonely life now. I also need a wife to spend the rest of my life with me.

My wife has been dead for five years, and my only daughter has been married. Now I live a miserable and happy life alone. Looking at my carefree days, no one knows the pain in my heart, and there is no need to publicize it. I have made two companions, both of whom failed, and I won't know until I have experienced them. Living with this companion is simple. In real life, everything is unsatisfactory, each is different, humbled and annoying.

At the age of 62, a person's life is too hard, so I want to find a partner to spend it with. Under the introduction of friends, he met Wang Li, 58. After his wife died, she worked as a cleaner in a hotel, earning more than 2,000 yuan a month. It is inconvenient for such an adult to live in a dormitory. After a while, we all felt very satisfied and left together.

Our place is still very good. I have a monthly pension of more than 4,800 yuan, and there is a small window for rent at home, so I am not very short of money, so I take out my salary and let people buy clothes for myself. I don't settle accounts anyway.

She still goes on with her class. After having a wife, I also have hope every day. Wang Li also cooked a good dish, and I was responsible for helping, and my life was very happy.

This life lasted for two years. His son called her to send his grandson to school, but the couple were too busy. Wang Li had to agree to her son's request and reluctantly broke up with me. I also said to ask her to take my grandson and take him with me. After Wang Li discussed with her daughter-in-law, people disagreed, saying that it was too far for children to stand every day.

In this way, our company ended in just two years, and now it is still a little sad to recall.

The second companion is Xiao Liu, one year younger than me. In front of our companions, we speak very well. We take good care of each other together. Our children are adults with their own families. We are not involved in their children's family affairs, especially in money. Xiao Liu promised well.

As usual, my salary is used to pay for our living expenses. Unexpectedly, just 20 days after we boarded the ship, Xiao Liu told me that the money had been spent and asked me for it. Although I don't usually ask about money, I spent 4800 in 20 days and didn't buy anything big for my family. How can it be used up?

Under my repeated questioning, Liu Cai Jr. said hesitantly that he gave his son 3000 yuan, which made me very unhappy. Your salary card was given to your son. That's not enough. You have to pay it back with our partner's living expenses. It doesn't make sense. Moreover, the partners agreed from the beginning to take care of each other regardless of the children. It's only been 20 days, and the days after that are definitely not good.

I was angry and sent her home.

What I want is to be together and enjoy my old age together. Although I don't care much about money, I certainly can't accept and tolerate this kind of violation of the rules. I can look after you alone, but I can't look after your son.

Boarding failed again. After these two boarding, I deeply understand that this boarding day is for my children. On the surface, I am boarding with you, but I can't let go of my children in my heart. This is not my companion in my old age. This is obviously looking for a master who is willing to spend money at will.

I take out all the salary of 4800 per month. I think what I can do is enough. I sincerely live with others. But it always ends like this. I can't give all my pension funds in exchange for living with them. Besides, even this won't last long.

I can't live on money, and I don't want my partner to be the object of money transactions, so I won't be happy in my later years.

I have also seen the reality of these two companions. When this person is old, it is too difficult to find a true partner to live with you. Everyone has his own plan.

When people look at you, all they can think about is their own children and talk about being your partner. In fact, they are trying to reduce the burden on their children and find a place where they can eat and live for free without spending a penny, so they have no peace of mind to be your partner.

Now I've thought it through. Living with your partner is not something you can meet but can't ask for. With the right partner, I can live comfortably without the right one.

When I am old and can't walk, there are so many ways to provide for the aged, and I need money in my hand, so I don't panic.