If a relative has cancer, do you choose to stick to treatment or give up treatment?

Thank you for your invitation. Let me answer this question. I have two generations of cancer and have gone through different times. I have a deep understanding. My father has cancer, and I am the patient's family. Today, 36 years later, I have cancer, and my son is worried about treating me. To be precise, cancer directly ruined my brothers' future. My cancer has affected my son's future. Who can understand that life is so hard that you almost have to go far away to eat?

First, as the patient's family, go all out to borrow money and choose to continue treatment. In the 1970s, my 40-year-old father was suffering from cancer and was in his prime. In order to cure the disease, we borrowed money from all our relatives, and even hooked up all four of our brothers. After all the good words, we raised several thousand yuan for the operation. At that time, the two brothers were still young, and the mother said to her relatives, "The father of the child has cancer, and now he has no money to treat it. I can't watch him die. My relatives will pity us if they have the heart, although they can't pay back the money now. Please. In this way, more than 40 relatives raised more than 3,000 yuan to operate on their father who had been away for six years. In the past six years, my family has not earned work points and has no food. My relatives gave me something to eat and almost went out to beg. Finally, my father's cancer spread and he was going to the hospital. He has no money in his hand, and he can't borrow any more. What should I do with my father? My father said, "I don't want to die so young." There's nothing I can do. I don't know whether Na Yue can pay my debts after I die. "? I decided to die. What are you going to do with this family after I die? I said without hesitation, "After you left, I took my family to create the Northeast. I can't starve to death in the village." My father agreed to my arrangement. From then on, I stopped all treatment, went up the mountain to collect medicine and came back to recuperate. My father's cancer dragged down my brother and me from giving up the chance to go to college.

Twenty-six years later, I was admitted to the hospital because of cancer. In order to treat the disease, my son gave up the opportunity to study abroad. Two hospitalizations cost me more than 300,000 savings. Although there is medical insurance, the local medical insurance has regulations, and it is not reimbursed when going out. I paid all the expenses at my own expense. Now for more than three years, I can't afford expensive anticancer drugs, so I went to the mountains with crutches to collect medicinal materials and treat them with compatibility. My son said that if I borrow money, I have to take anticancer drugs. I said you don't understand my difficulty. I don't want to leave debts to my children. As long as your career goes well, it doesn't matter if I live one more day or one less.

To sum up, once such a patient appears at home, it is a great misfortune.

My point of view is clear: even if I am 60% sure, I will not hesitate to give up. Headline private letter, WeChat and I contacted more than 300 patients. I have finished their work. Under what circumstances can I continue my treatment and give up immediately? Don't ruin your family.

A few days ago, two cancer patients asked me what to do next. I read the diagnosis and told them that millions of dollars can't change your life. Adjust your mentality, face the reality bravely, give up treatment, live one day at a time with dignity and let nature take its course. Medically it has nothing to do with cancer. All in experiments. Don't give yourself to the doctor as an experiment. Don't give up any hope. The percentage of hospitals is that urinals are inlaid with gold, and advertisements are given to doctors. For treating diseases,% is more meaningless than for you personally. Everything depends on yourself to adjust your mentality and live a good day!