Men lack opinions.

The five major manifestations of a man who has no opinion are: complaining frequently, relying too much on others, being easily disturbed by external comments, having self-denying thoughts, and not sure about his own thoughts.

They will rely too much on others, tell others their needs and let others advise them. This other person can be his brother, his colleague, or his most trusted parents since childhood. People who don't have their own opinions are often easily influenced by outside comments, which often comes from our lack of confidence. In fact, as long as you look back on your growth process, you will find that your thoughts are often interfered and influenced by the outside world.

Improve recognition ability

People who don't have their own opinions often have the idea of self-denial, but in fact, the world is always surrounded by all kinds of negation. If you want to be independent, you must first increase your knowledge in all aspects and enrich your mind. Only with rich knowledge and profound connotation can we have our own views and know what to do when we encounter something.

Don't echo other people's voices when you meet something. You should objectively analyze the problem, distinguish right from wrong, and be clear-headed, so that you can know how to convince others with strong factual basis. Different people have different views on one thing. If you think you are right, you should dare to refute other people's views, put facts and truth together, and in important matters, don't care about face, but convince people with reason.