My colleague ordered takeout but didn't share me. What can I do to avoid embarrassment?

When you encounter such a thing, you must be isolated and unaware of it. At this time, don't embarrass yourself. You must embarrass him, because what he wants is your embarrassment, and maybe he is still secretly happy.

You should have seen this and walked over and asked who ordered the takeaway. People will definitely look at that person, and then you joke that you will eat anything you lack. You can help if necessary. You must never leave. If you leave, you will laugh at you behind your back and wait for your takeaway. At this time, you must believe that it is not you who are embarrassed, it is definitely that person. But then you won't leave any traces of self-reflection. Why don't you fit in? Why do people deliberately isolate you? There must be something wrong. Since you are in the workplace, you should learn to be tactful and follow the rules in everything. Be careful in the future to avoid being isolated.

At noon that day, my boss asked me to work overtime, and our party didn't go out for dinner. A girl in the group suggested ordering takeout. At this time, Xiao Wang said, I'll invite you to dinner today. Don't be embarrassed. I was ill in hospital some time ago. Thank you very much for visiting the hospital. Let's just say, I order takeout, and everyone sends what they want to eat to WeChat.

There are six people in our group, four men and two girls. Some time ago, Xiao Wang was hospitalized with a high fever, and five other people in our group collectively went to the hospital to visit him.

At that time, when I went to the hospital, everyone gave Wang Mai a small gift. When I arrived at the hospital, my stomach was a little uncomfortable. I want to go to the toilet, so I asked one of my colleagues, Xiao Zhang, to lift my fruit basket and let them go to the ward first. I went to the bathroom and will be there in a minute.

The misunderstanding happened like this. They went in to visit Xiao Wang, put the gift down directly and chatted with Xiao Wang for a while. After a while, I went in empty-handed I went in to say hello to Xiao Wang and asked him about his physical condition with concern. Xiao Wang gave me a perfunctory response. I went to chat with other colleagues.

After chatting for a while, we left. Before leaving, I said to Xiao Wang: I wish you a speedy recovery! Xiao Wang also ignored me!

There is a WeChat group between our groups. Xiao Wang told everyone: Send all the things you want to eat to the group, and he will treat you to order takeout! Thank you for visiting him when he was in hospital with a high fever.

So I sent the lunch I wanted to eat to the group, and a 12 yuan Yangzhou fried rice with a bottle of drink. I also ordered this kind of takeout when I was too lazy to eat. 16 yuan. I think everyone in the group is about 20 yuan, and I thought I didn't intentionally cheat Xiao Wang.

At the end of the lunch break, another colleague in the group, Xiao Zhang, went out to help everyone get takeout. Xiao Zhang went out for a while and brought back five takeaways. Xiao Zhang put the takeaway on the table and said that everyone should take the takeaway themselves. Still wondering Xiao Wang: You didn't order takeout for yourself!

Xiao Wang said: I ordered it.

In the past, everyone ordered their own takeout, and I stood up to get it, but none of the five takeout orders had Yangzhou fried rice. I was so embarrassed that I looked up at Xiao Wang. Xiao Wang smiled thoughtfully at me and said, Zhao Dage, you are also in the group. Sorry, I didn't see it. Or I can book it for you.

In the group, I am not the first or the last one. Can I see other people's posts instead of mine? I was angry, but I didn't show it.

I said to Xiao Wang: mine may be on the way!

After returning to my seat, I immediately ordered a new braised chicken rice for myself, which cost me 28 yuan.

All five people have finished eating, and my takeaway has arrived. I went down to get it myself, went back to the office and said to Xiao Wang, Xiao Wang, it's still very kind of you. I want Yangzhou fried rice and you ordered braised chicken rice for me. Don't waste my last visit to the hospital! I brought you a big fruit basket, which is very helpful!

After that, without looking at Xiao Wang, he returned to his seat and began to cook.

Afterwards, I listened to Xiao Zhang and said: At that time, Xiao Wang's face was black and he was particularly embarrassed. Everyone knows that he didn't order me takeout, but I told everyone that he ordered me a braised chicken rice. You praise his benevolence and righteousness in the open, but you satirize his haggling over every ounce in the dark. This is a very high move!

After this incident, everyone in the group knows that Xiao Wang is very polite to him on the surface, but in fact he is shameless behind his back. His original intention was to gang up and isolate me, but I turned him into an army. Isolate yourself.

In fact, in the workplace, we often encounter misunderstandings from colleagues, mainly because you can't explain clearly.

For example, in this case, I turned against Xiao Wang face to face, which will make my colleagues think that I am stingy, grumpy and difficult to get along with. In the face of Xiao Wang's difficulties, if I don't respond, my colleagues will think that I am a bully and it will be difficult for me to gain a foothold in the workplace in the future. So I chose to remind my colleagues in such a euphemistic way to let everyone know Xiao Wang's true face, which led him to invite everyone to take out food for nothing, but did not leave a good image for everyone. Although I don't have a good relationship with Xiao Wang, I am more popular than Xiao Wang.

Maybe someone will pretend to be a saint and say that I shouldn't do this and think that I have gone too far. But I want to tell you this, the workplace is like a battlefield, you can't survive, you are nothing.

It is true that we should all have love and tolerance for our colleagues, but in the face of a malicious colleague, you must not let him think that you are good at bullying. Otherwise, you will be bullied all the time, and it will be difficult for you to gain a foothold in the workplace.

Eat out by yourself, or order takeout by yourself. Just ignore each other. No one will turn a blind eye to anyone.

Don't worry about him, he will blame himself later. I have experienced it. My colleague is like this. I didn't even look at her. Then she asked me something, and I ignored her. What is embarrassing is herself.

There's nothing to be embarrassed about. What he ordered may not be to your taste. You can take it lightly, laugh it off and eat whatever you want.

You can also go and see what they ordered. If it is Chinese food, you can say that the food is not bad, and you can also say that you are going to order a KFC chicken leg burger. Those who like to eat Ollie chicken wings can help with some (see how atmospheric you are).

Afterwards, you can secretly find out why you were left alone, because you were not there when you booked the ticket, or deliberately isolated you. This is more important than ordering food.

If it is an occasional negligence, it is nothing, don't worry. If it is deliberately isolated, it is necessary to analyze the reasons. Do you have any problems in your work communication with your colleagues or in your daily life, which cause strong resentment from others? If so, then find an opportunity to explain it publicly.

After all, colleagues are partners in the team, and harmonious classmates are the best.

To tell the truth, it is a lie to say that you are not embarrassed. When I really meet someone, I will directly say, why didn't I? Why are you such a bully? I can't help it I am very straightforward. I don't want to beat around the bush. I don't turn when I'm embarrassed.

I happened to meet this thing. The other day, I came to the office and found that there was an orange on everyone's desk except my desk. There are only four people in our office. I saw a teacher with a lot more in her bag, which was obviously given to everyone by her. I was a little upset at first, but then I thought, what's wrong? It's just an orange. This is a big deal. Maybe people won't let me go because I'm not here, and I'm afraid I'll break down if I don't come on leave. I'm happy to think so, and I should do what I have to do. I think you are the same, don't worry, it's not cost-effective to affect your mood, just find yourself a step down!

Not embarrassed! Ignore it! Eat your own lunch! Habit becomes nature! Don't worry! It is better to improve yourself than to have that luxury! Read a book or learn something you like!

There is no need to be embarrassed. It is childish, bad and hierarchical to isolate people in this way. Such people don't need to pay attention at all, just save trouble. Otherwise, you will be eliminated when you are well developed. You are going to make money and develop your career, not to make friends. You can directly ask loudly (with normal expressions and expressions), "Who ordered the meal? Why not bring me one? " Then take-out or canteen.

Just a simple question, is there anything suitable for me? Or forget me.

If you say such a thing directly, you are not the only one who is embarrassed, and there are some takeaway colleagues.

It's better to be embarrassed by two people than by one person. "Death" also needs to pull the quilt.

Such things are better than psychological quality. Don't isolate you, let others become a habit.

If you don't ask, it may be over, next time, next time.

It may not be appropriate, just like the first time, you didn't speak, didn't resist, and endured. There will be a second time, each time more serious.

When you resist for the first time, maybe you can avoid campus violence in the future.

Forget an embarrassment, you should let yourself not face such embarrassment again in the future and solve this problem.