What's the worst thing that happened to you as a baby mother? Why?

As a treasure mother, everyone inevitably encounters all kinds of bad troubles, and some even come to the brink of collapse.

For example, I work all day and go home at night to have a good rest, but because I have children, it becomes an extravagant hope; Understandably, they haven't seen their mother all day and want me to play with them. It's finally time to go to bed and put them to sleep. I was too sleepy to sleep, and I couldn't wake up the next day, day after day. I believe many treasure moms feel this way.

There is also that they are not big and do not understand hygiene. They crawl on the ground to eat, which not only makes them dirty, but also makes their home messy. You can't be angry. They are also unconscious and can only drag their tired bodies to clean up.

The other is to take the children out to play. I believe that every treasure mother has a lot to say. Once outside, two people are like runaway wild horses, one is left and the other is right, which makes you collapse in minutes. Then, carry what you need and feel that your arm is not your own.

For both of us, this is not the worst thing. The worst thing is that two people are sick at the same time. They eat and sleep together, and it is easy to cross infection. It's okay to take medicine at home. You can imagine that picture. I don't want to go through it anymore anyway. Watching them suffer is worse than my own illness 100 times, not at all. The feeling at that time was: put the disease on me, let the children get better, and I will replace them. This feeling can only be truly realized when you are a mother.

As a treasure mother, I have to go to work every day, but I don't have to worry about the trivial matters of the unit. I have to go home or do housework and help with my homework. At least for now, I think the worst thing is worrying about my studies.

Has reached the junior high school stage. Think about three years of senior high school entrance examination. Just around the corner, the proportion of the senior high school entrance examination is only 50%. Everything depends on achievements, and how to achieve achievements is the need of current efforts. But sometimes it is difficult for children to understand what adults say.

The child's grades can't reach our expected scores. Adults are actually worried and anxious, but children think these scores are enough. Learning attitude and study habits are not self-disciplined. It is very worrying for parents.

Perhaps in the pre-primary stage, parents just need to control their mentality and eat, drink and sleep. Once they enter primary school, this is not a problem. His grades and studies have a great influence on his future. Your efforts may backfire, and he can't be what you want. Parents have butterflies in their stomach and let nature take its course, but only they know their inner anxiety and discomfort.

Taking care of children every day is a bad thing, but the family still doesn't understand, especially their own objects. They are dissatisfied with you, and those who are dissatisfied, the house is not clean, the children are not taken care of, and you don't dress up. It's enough to take care of the children, and listening to him every day is going to explode.

As a full-time nanny, the older a child is, the more she will have her own ideas and feel that she is fighting with her children every day. Worst of all, whenever I cook, she always makes trouble in the kitchen. If you don't pay attention, all kinds of rice, oil and salt are spilled all over the floor, and then you throw her out, and she cries loudly and doesn't listen. This is an idea. Just irritating and ridiculous, helpless and speechless. When I am angry, I meditate to myself, and then think about how we grew up when we were young. My solution is to convince myself.

At present, the worst thing is that Dabao always has no concept of time in the second grade, and he is always urged to do things. For example, he doesn't know how to wash his face in the morning, and he needs to be urged to eat and dress. Every morning, his mood is easily destroyed by him and he can't help getting angry with him.

And he has become more and more immune, turned a deaf ear to my words, and refused to listen to a word many times, which can instantly ignite my angry little flame.

Being a mother is not easy. I worry about everything. Sometimes I feel that the anger towards Dabao comes more from my own emotions, such as the mood of work, the relationship between husband and wife, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will all affect the change of mood. When emotions accumulate for a long time, they will be triggered by a small matter.

Children have become the outlet of that kind of emotional catharsis, but it has a great influence on children. In his eyes, mother always roars, which makes children feel insecure and their attention will be affected.

Therefore, yelling at children is definitely not a wise solution. It's not based on anger. I believe that children have the ability to love themselves at all times. Why can't they be more tolerant and love their children?

The worst part is asking him for some money when the living expenses are gone. He told you with a murderous look and tone, didn't I just give it to you a few days ago? The point is how much did you give? Shall I use it for half a month? When eating, there is only one meat and one vegetable, right? Are you going to spend money to buy Caicai? Housewives have nothing of their own. In buy buy, they are all used for home use, and they earn as much money as you spend.

It is really tiring to take care of the children at home. Busy all day, my family still doesn't understand. Isn't it just taking a baby at home? A few days ago, my child caught a cold and had a fever, and I didn't sleep for several nights in a row. I'm the one who wants to get sick. My husband slept like a dead pig,

I didn't get married before, but when I got married, I urged to have children. When I have children, I have no one to help me, so I have to take care of them myself. Or caesarean section, giving birth to two children in three years. I have to take care of the children until the wound heals. Ask the doctor how long it will take to hold Dabao after delivery. After all, Dabao is only over one year old. He has to sleep, eat and change diapers, so he will hug her invisibly. The baby needs someone to take care of, so the doctor asked me who will take care of you. Being a mother didn't take myself into account. It's just as a mother. Life can only move forward, and everything we are experiencing will become yesterday and usher in a new tomorrow. The worst thing at this stage is that a complete night's sleep has become a luxury. Come on, it'll pass.

There is no worst, only worse.

The worst thing is that you don't have your own time.