How to resolve conflicts between classmates in the class

Friend, let me first introduce myself and my experience. I think I am fully capable of solving your problem.

I am 24 years old this year and have been working as a doctor since I was 18. Social adventure. I studied very well when I was in school, but I stopped studying hard when I entered the third grade of junior high school. I followed a few good friends in the class and skipped classes all day long. I didn’t even bring my schoolbag home. At that time, I thought that after I graduated from the third grade of junior high school, I would I left school completely. I felt so stupid at that time. Now I think about it and I regret it!!!

Really, I really miss that good time in school. If I had continued to do well at that time, If I study, if nothing else, I will enrich myself and become a more capable person.

No matter who you are, every time you join the workforce after graduation, you will miss your school days and your friends in the class. There is no doubt about this. It is the same for everyone.

Now our classmates come to get together from time to time. (To put it bluntly, it’s the AA system of going out to drink and chop mountains. To exaggerate, it’s a bit like not letting them leave until they drink too much. Because when old classmates meet old classmates, it’s called a kiss. !)

I have worked in various professions, including waiters in restaurants, dishwashers, workers in hairdressers, cleaners at car washes, cleaners in shopping malls, and security guards in factories. , and a salesperson in a NIKE store.

Having worked in different jobs for a long time has made me understand a lot of truths, especially the practices and ways of dealing with others.

Haha, my friend , your problem can be easily solved. Listen to me tell you:

Although I did not enter high school, I know that those years in high school were quite difficult, because I faced the major challenges in life. The turning point is the question of getting into college. Which university you get into means the future changes in your life. You need to study hard at this time. I am not putting pressure on you. But having said that, studying is study, and in fact, getting into college is not. No matter how difficult it is, as long as you put in the effort, there will definitely be rewards. Getting into college is not just something you say with your mouth. Come on, my friend. I feel that studying is not the main problem for you. I just want to tell you that you should correct your mental state. Just have a study look when you study, and a play look when you play.

Now let me tell you about the root causes of your problems and the solutions:

To put it bluntly Well, you actually just don’t know how to get along with others. Not to mention you, even many college students nowadays are not good at social communication. Once they enter the society, they are confused and don’t know how to get along with others. This will delay their own future.

So here I use my point of view to teach you how to get along with others.

First of all, you must have a correct attitude. Don’t regard yourself as some capable person, or genius, or You are the future leader.

You are just an ordinary high school student. Staying humble will only benefit you and not harm you.

It is not necessary when you are with everyone. Thinking too much.

''A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less''

As far as society is concerned, school problems are really It’s not a big problem, and compared with people in society, my classmates are really easy to get along with. I feel that maybe you encounter a little less trouble. What would you do if you encounter a bigger problem or thing?

''If you don't experience anything, you won't gain wisdom. Wisdom is honed from people and things. If you escape reality and leave people and things, there will be no wisdom''

Smart people never argue with themselves.

When it comes to getting along with others, I remember that when I was a cleaning lady, I once had a fight with a colleague, and my face was covered with blood. We both took action that time. It's very serious. Our boss said this to me, and I will never forget it.

''Everyone comes out with respect, and there is no one who is afraid of coming out''

It means Say, if you respect others, others will also respect you. If you bully others, others will not treat you well.

Everyone gets along with each other. How you treat others will also be treated by others. How about it.

One more thing, you should be optimistic. Quoting a famous saying:

''Look at things with an open mind and be a person with your feet firmly on your feet''

A gentleman is magnanimous. You have a clear conscience, there are not that many difficult things. It’s just you who says it’s difficult.

I’ll tell you a little way. That is, when you are unhappy or unhappy, think about the sadness. People who are injured, people who are seriously ill, they are much more miserable than you, but you who are not sick and have no disaster, are here worrying and thinking randomly. It is wrong.

My current situation The mental state is just like a movie title ---------''It's okay to have fun secretly''

Haha, let me tell you one last thing, you are already in high school, the boss is not young anymore, There should be more

Pay attention to your own image, because it has a lot to do with your popularity among your classmates.

Your hair, clothes, and pants should be washed regularly. I don’t know what you are. Male or female, but clean people are more popular. There is no reason for this, it is just my personal opinion. I pay great attention to my appearance, and I also love cleanliness. If nothing else, just Just a question: Who do you like to be with, a good person or a clean person?

In terms of romantic partners, even more so, haha. Maybe someone will have a crush on you...,,, - -! It seems a bit off topic. Ha. Sorry.

Anyway, the most important thing is to have a good attitude. I think "attitude determines everything!"

When nothing happens, you should think more about the good things. When I think about it, in fact, everyone has advantages. There are also things that they are proud of and things that they think they are more successful. You also have it. At least you have been admitted to high school. I did not. You are better than me in this regard. There are so many, haha! ^_^

Furthermore, everyone has a goal in life. With a goal, there is motivation to live! You will live a fulfilling life!

My goal is to buy a villa for my parents, buy a brand-name car, and have a bunch of servants to serve them. Then marry a good wife, it doesn’t have to be beautiful, just a good character! Huhu~ Although I have nothing now-_ -!

What is your goal?

I think this is your best goal right now to get admitted to a university. Only you know the other goals best. , haha...

Finally, I give you ten perfect rules for life today:

Be sweeter with your mouth and livelier with your brain;

Act quickly A little more, a little more efficiency;

Do a little more, have a little reason;

Be a little bigger, have a little temper;

Speak softly, smile a little ;

If you can do these ten points, then you will be awesome!!! Huhu! Just kidding, I can’t do the above anyway, I can only make a little improvement, haha. Little by little, little by little, little by little, work hard!!!

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, no one can make mistakes without being a sage. Just ask your own conscience and you can live well, haha

I’ll give you another sentence, ''Let yourself change a little bit every day'' and don’t stay stagnant.

Your tomorrow is bright! Brilliant!

Let me give you this. I give you a ''blessing for a bright spring'',

I hope you can ''have fun and be happy every day!'' ^_^

My QQ number is 8458777 If you have time, you can also chat on QQ and communicate more. But you have to make it clear who you are, otherwise I won’t respond to the general QQ netizens. I usually only talk to my friends, relatives, and friends on QQ. )Chat in the group