Said my mother-in-law didn't help with the children.

My mother-in-law said that she had no obligation to take care of the children. What will happen to you? My mother-in-law told a big truth.

Of course, a mother-in-law has no obligation to take care of her daughter-in-law. After all, the daughter-in-law is not related to her. If she happens to marry her mother-in-law's son, who will know? From this perspective, the mother-in-law certainly has no obligation to help the daughter-in-law take care of the children.

My friend has two children, both brought up by her mother-in-law, and my friend works. She often tells me about her mother-in-law's hygiene habits, the way she takes care of her children, and the "gratitude" education that her husband gives her every day.

She is wronged every day because she can't give any advice at home and can't have free time. Whenever she is at home, or when she wants to make any suggestions, her husband will say, "Mom gave up a comfortable life in her later years to help you take care of the children. You should be grateful. How can you be picky? "

She also felt that she was wrong, because it was really hard for her mother-in-law to help with the children. How can she think that her mother-in-law is not doing well and want to give advice?

Later I told her that you should tell your husband that his mother gave up her comfortable old age for him, not for you. You should thank your mother-in-law for her help, but you should thank herself, not beg you.

It's unnatural for a mother-in-law to take care of her grandson. We appreciate her willingness to help us, but this is not a debt. We are equal. She came to help her son and take care of her grandson. Why do you have to be a wife?

I especially don't like this kind of kidnapping. No matter what the daughter-in-law asks her mother-in-law to do, or what the mother-in-law asks her daughter-in-law to do, it is meaningless. Legally speaking, no one has an obligation to anyone. Emotional kidnapping will only make you expect too much from each other. The higher your expectations, the more serious your failure will be.

Mother-in-law can think clearly that she has no obligation to take care of the children, and she should also think clearly that her wife has no obligation to bring tea and water to take care of you every day. Lower your expectations, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. This will be a harmonious world.