What if the child is tired of learning? My son got a good grade in the first grade. He doesn't like studying at all since he entered the second day of junior high school this semester. Refuse to study

What if the child is tired of learning? My son got a good grade in the first grade. He doesn't like studying at all since he entered the second day of junior high school this semester. Refuse to study every day and want to go out to work. Personally, I think it is necessary to communicate with him well and confirm the reason why he doesn't want to go to school. Mainly because I can't keep up with the course. You can tell him that you are too young now, and no one wants you to be divorced from society. And even if you don't study now, you should study outside the society. It's just a matter of time. In addition, tell him what jobs people who study have and what jobs people who don't study have. Let him seriously think about what his future life will be like.

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In non-key middle schools, junior high school students are more tired of learning. The growing weariness of learning will not only confuse parents and worry teachers, but also bring many social problems with serious consequences. There are many reasons why junior high school students are tired of learning.

First of all, from the students themselves, the huge ideological pressure and mental burden make them unbearable, and over time, they become tired of learning. Most parents of students have high expectations and strict requirements. It is not easy for children to complete heavy learning tasks at school, and parents will blame them for poor grades. This kind of atmosphere makes children breathless. Day after day, year after year, they will get tired of learning, and then form a rebellious mentality of "opposing" their parents and teachers.

Secondly, from the perspective of family factors, a bad family cultural environment often erodes junior high school students with strong plasticity. Some parents neglect their role as the "first tutor" for their children. On the issue of educating children, they are too ignorant, too biased, too simple and rude, and too laissez-faire. Some parents think that sending their children to school is a requirement of compulsory education, and learning well depends on the school; Some parents not only don't pay attention to their children's learning, but also often do propaganda of "getting rich by doing business" in front of their children, distracting their attention and distorting their values; Some students' parents often fight and even divorce hastily, which casts an indelible shadow on their children's minds and makes them unwilling to study. In the face of students' weariness of learning, it is useless to shake your head and sigh, and it is also useless to emphasize objective reasons blindly. Teachers and parents should treat students with a developmental perspective, often encourage them to make progress, help them correct their learning attitude, improve their learning methods, mobilize their initiative in learning, and get rid of their weariness of learning as soon as possible. In the family, parents should be strict with themselves, always set an example for their children, and strive to create a positive and enterprising family atmosphere, so that children can maintain their physical and mental health in an equal, democratic, caring and harmonious environment and devote themselves to their studies. To treat children with poor learning, we should avoid impatience, see the advantages of children and encourage them to step by step.