What do you mean, separation in bed and wife crying?

Feelings are like a normal distribution. There is almost no feeling at first contact. With the deepening of contact, feelings are getting stronger and stronger until they step into marriage and reach the peak. Then in the plain life of rice, oil, salt, ginger and vinegar tea, the feelings are slowly erased until they disappear.

When feelings no longer exist, if there are feelings between two couples, then marriage is still unbreakable. If there is not even a trace of goodwill, then the marriage will collapse instantly.

After touching countless cases of marriage breakdown, I found a theorem that marriage breakdown is irreversible: once two couples put forward to sleep in separate beds and put it into practice, it is difficult to go back to the same bed, and the relationship between husband and wife dies very quickly.

No matter what reason you put forward to sleep in separate beds at the beginning, it will eventually become a marital relationship problem, and the gap between husband and wife will become bigger and bigger.

Those people put it forward? Sleep in separate beds? Dear husband and wife, how are things? How was the marriage? Let's hear the truth about these three post-80s women.

1.1Beauty Zhang, born in 1986, has been in bed for half a year.

My husband and I have been married for three years and never quarrel in front of outsiders. After all, it doesn't mean that my husband and I never quarrel. Sometimes our teeth bite our tongues.

In the eyes of outsiders, we are all decent people with jobs and model couples who never quarrel, but this is not the case. My husband and I have been separated for half a year, and our relationship exists in name only.

In my heart, I really can't find anything worth loving my husband. He loves smoking and smells like smoke. I feel uncomfortable as soon as I get near him. I have told him to quit smoking several times, and he said quitting smoking was his life.

Nowadays, we hardly talk. We are under the same roof, like two strangers. Only when others are present will we sing along, show our love to others and take part in accidental amusement.

I don't think I will share a bed with my husband. Even those things between husband and wife, I don't want to do. I wonder if I'm cold or something.

Second, Wang Meimei, born in 1989, was separated from her bed for one year.

At first, my husband and I slept in separate beds because the baby was just born and it was winter. My husband wrapped the quilt badly. I'm worried that my child won't sleep well, so I suggest my husband sleep in another bed alone.

Now that a year has passed, the weather is getting hotter and hotter, and the children are getting older, I offered to let my husband come back and sleep with us, but he didn't want to. He said that it is no problem to sleep alone. You can sleep as you like, and you don't have to worry about affecting others' sleepiness.

No matter how angry and demanding I am, my husband doesn't want to go back to my bed. Although I feel that the feelings between our husband and wife are still the same as before, I love her and she loves me, but I have an unspeakable feeling in my heart. I always feel that if I sleep in separate beds with my husband for a long time, sooner or later our relationship will go wrong.

It is because of such doubts in my heart that I began to become anxious, and sometimes I was deliberately angry with my husband. My husband seems to have noticed my abnormality and started to ignore me. Is it because my suspicions are coming true?

I'm worried that our marriage will break up. If I had known this, I shouldn't have proposed sleeping in separate beds with my husband.

Third, Zhou, 38, has been separated from the bed for 6 years.

My husband and I have been separated for six years and we are used to each other. Even if we have the chance, we don't want to sleep in the same bed with each other. I occasionally reflect that he didn't provoke me or make any mistakes. Why can't I love him?

But no matter how I reflect, I can't love him as much as I did when I first got married. Maybe it's because I'm too hard. I have to be busy with my work and take care of my family's food and drink. I really don't have much time to cultivate feelings with my husband.

After six years apart, we gradually got used to this life, and no one expected the other party to solve the problem for themselves. After a long time, I even think there is nothing wrong with separating beds. At least I can guarantee the quality of sleep, even couples don't want to do that. Sometimes they only come once a month, hoping to finish early and finish the task every time.

So in my opinion, the couple didn't kill their love because they were separated from each other, but chose to separate their beds after their feelings were weak. Anyway, if I really can't go on, I will divorce. No one will starve to death these days.

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Let's talk about the benefits of sleeping in separate beds: ensuring the quality of sleep, not affecting the children's sleep, and leaving private space for each other.

Then it analyzes the disadvantages of sleeping in separate beds: couples sleeping in separate beds for a long time will lead to less communication, weaker feelings and eventually become strangers under the same roof.

Women are emotional animals. Once you sleep apart from your husband for a long time, you will think about it and even ask yourself: What is the purpose of a woman marrying a man? You can't live without getting married?

Once a woman has such a heart, her marriage will break down sooner or later, and the reason why a woman has this kind of psychology is precisely because of the long-term sleeping in separate beds and the indifference and lack of communication between the two.