Why do I suggest children eat snacks?

Why don't I forbid children to eat snacks

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Before I was one year old, I kept my daughter strictly according to the books. No matter what others say, I have never given her salt and sugar, not to mention those snacks that are all additives.

as my daughter grows up, I don't feed her so carefully. Every time I take her out to play and see other children eating, she will ask for it with her mouth open. Usually other adults will give her some, and she will take it and eat it happily. I think it's not good to ask for other people's things all the time, so I will prepare some snacks and put them in my bag when I go out. When my daughter wants to eat, I will give it to her and let her share it with other children.

When I was older, my daughter saw many advertisements about food on her mobile phone and TV, and words such as "funny eggs" and "starball cups" began to pop up in her mouth. When she went to the supermarket, she always lingered in the snack area and kept saying, "Mom, I want to eat this."

My daughter has never eaten many snacks, so she is full of curiosity. Once she was very interested in a colorful chocolate bean, so I bought her a bag. As a result, my daughter opened one and tasted it. She found it was not delicious, so she gave me all the rest and never said anything about eating it again. But if I don't buy it for her, she will always miss it.

of course, I know that snacks are junk food, but even if I don't let my daughter touch them, she may get them somewhere else. It is better to let her get used to it, but she will not always think about it. She tasted many things once and found that it was just like that, and soon lost interest.

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There is a child in our community. Her parents never let her eat snacks at home. However, her parents have to go to work, so they can't stay with her 24 hours a day. During the day, grandma usually takes her out to play. In order to reduce her crying, grandma will secretly buy snacks for her in the shop at the door.

The child exaggerates when eating snacks, and everything is stuffed into his mouth. She is one year younger than my daughter, but she eats snacks much faster. Her grandmother explained that because she couldn't eat it at home, she ate it desperately if she had it.

Almost every child has the desire to open colorful snacks. If children's desires are not satisfied for a long time, they will be very depressed. Once they have the opportunity to release their desires, they will often do something unexpected.

I read a story once, in which a mother forbade her son to eat chocolate, and she refused to give it to him no matter how he begged. Later, my son went to school in other places, and his mother could no longer control him, so he began to buy chocolate crazily, and even three meals a day were not delicious.

when she came home in the winter vacation, the mother found that her son had gained a lot of weight and his health was not as good as before. The mother was very sorry to learn that her son had spent all his money on eating chocolate. If my son was allowed to taste chocolate from time to time when he wanted to eat it as a child, he would not be as crazy as he was later.

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If you restrict your child so much that he can't get something when he wants it, he is likely to get it by unfair means where you can't see it.

I always think that the right decision is to satisfy children's desires properly.

My friend Beibei told me about a child, and I was deeply impressed. The child lives across the street from her house, and her parents are intellectuals, with a good income. But there is no TV at home because her parents won't let her watch it.

Beibei's daughter is the same age as this child, so this child's grandmother will take her to Beibei's house to play from time to time. Beibei's family has a TV, and it is often tuned to the children's channel. Every time the child went to Beibei's house, he stared at the TV. Adults never answered when talking to her, preferring to pee in their pants rather than move. On the contrary, because Beibei's daughter can often watch TV, it is not surprising. Most of the time the TV is on, but she is playing with all kinds of toys.

sometimes this happens to me when I take my daughter out to play. My daughter ate her snacks with relish, and suddenly a child jumped out next to her and snatched her snacks with one hand. My daughter would never do such a thing. When she is a little older, she will refuse to be given snacks by others, saying that she has them at home.

Of course, I don't forbid my daughter to eat snacks, which doesn't mean that I will let her eat without restraint. Every time I go to the supermarket, I only allow her to buy one kind of snack. At such times, my daughter suffers from difficulty in choosing, and often changes her mind before taking two steps, so she puts it back and takes another one.

I never rush her and give her enough time to make a decision. In the end, my daughter will choose her favorite and wait for me to pay happily.

Snacks are not a scourge; they are too severely restricted and go to the other extreme. Therefore, I suggest that parents should satisfy their children when they want to eat snacks.