How to let children talk to their parents when they have troubles?

Make friends with children, don't treat children with the attitude of elders. The so-called generation gap is recognition. You are the closest person besides this identity, because you can be together every day and have blood relationship. Tradition lets us know the responsibilities of parents, and children instinctively follow this, but if you can put down your posture and not get along with him as an elder, he will open his heart to you.

Because children have their own privacy, parents will object to many things. So they can't tell their parents, but if you know something about your child, you don't order him to stop or accuse him as a parent, but you change your identity and share the possible consequences with him as a friend. Even if he doesn't listen to you, you can't force him to change because a friend can't force another person to make a decision. After that, even if he finally tasted the consequences as before, he will remember what you said and learn a few lessons, so that he will understand the importance of your construction. And it won't create a generation gap for you, and I will naturally talk to you about anything in the future.

As an elder to educate a child, you can only tell him what to do, and you never know what he thinks inside. As a friend, you can understand his heart and show him the bright direction.