Have you noticed that you are a 25-year-old aunt?

I don't know why, but in recent years,

more and more people have asked me the enigmatic question of "age"

It is obvious that 18 years old is the eternal age of us girls

What's the question

When I brushed my circle of friends, I saw a WeChat name

"97-year-old aunt"

97. Old auntie

The mood she saw at that time may be similar to your current mood

Quietly calculating her seniority in her mind

When I was in high school, I was not interested in those little fresh colors that were overflowing with girls' hearts

Ding Dianer couldn't like them

Whether wearing clothes or daily necessities, they were all black, white and gray

17 or 8 years old. In general, I am in a hurry to become mature.

I will never wear canvas shoes when I can wear high heels.

I will never wear baby clothes when I can wear makeup.

At the age of 25, I

have no resistance to those pink and blue things.

I have no style at home.

Pink mouthwash cups and pink storage boxes. Pink-white tissue boxes ......

all kinds of dolls piled up in the hills, dolls

what kind of royal sisters were before them, which were mature and far away early

How can they be comfortable?

There is no shadow of high heels in the shoe cabinet

I am very grateful to my company boss here, and I don't ask much about the image of employees

I just want to wear them happily

. Recently, it's too cold to be caught off guard.

I even put on velvet pants.

My mother didn't think I should wear long pants at all, so I put them on myself.

From the age of 18 to 25, there are worries besides age.

About feelings.

"You are 25 years old. Have your boyfriend talked about it? When will you bring it back?"

Civil servants ..... "

25, it's time to talk about marriage.

There was a colleague who went to work, a little girl in 1996.

Later, she learned that she was the mother of a three-year-old child.

She told us that it is important to have an independent consciousness and a complete personality, regardless of life, whether you are single or married. All roads lead to Rome. If you follow your heart, there will always be a broad road for you.

About work

25 years old

Some people choose to work hard in the hot first-tier cities, which may be busy and hard, and may be full of blood. But fortunately, struggle.

Some people choose to enter higher education institutions for further study, which may lead to anxiety and loneliness, and may lead to a quiet life. But fortunately, sublimation.

Perhaps those who pursue advanced studies envy the vitality and fragrance of the workplace, while those who pursue advanced studies envy the quiet years.

Give us: No matter where you are, persistence is very important, and goals are more important. Think about what I like, what I am suitable for and what I can do. Remain true to our original aspiration and keep our mission firmly in mind.

About money

I'm 25 years old

I don't have the courage to treat money like dirt anymore

Once, I felt that

talking about money with my partner hurt my feelings

talking about money with my friends hurt my friendship

talking about money with my boss hurt my future

Although I lived happily, freely and even during that time.

until I get close to my life and no one carries a heavy load for me. Only then did I realize that rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea is a necessity; The piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and hops are luxury goods; The distance is a dream.

Give it to us: Never pretend not to love money when you are young. Smart spending, brave parting.

"I've heard many kinds of sermons, but I still can't live a good life"

The voice of others is not important, what matters is Who are you?

Our life is just like learning from the Journey to the West.

The choices on the road to growth are just like the monsters on the road to learning from the West.

Love and hate are in an instant, and good and evil are in a moment.

Hope: I am who I am, which is a different fireworks.