Have dinner with parents.

There is a kind of warmth, called eating with parents. When I got home in the evening, I saw ordinary food on the dining table, a plate of stewed tofu with cabbage, a plate of peanuts and a plate of turnip stewed chicken. My parents chatted with me while eating. Parents eat well. These dishes are all fried by mom. My father ate all his life, but he still ate with relish and sweated. Although I have my own space and friends, I try my best to find topics and narrow the distance with my parents. Stay with your parents for about half an hour and watch them eat.

I used to be a person who cared nothing about my parents. At that time, no matter how big my parents were, it was none of my business to argue so much. Because I know that whether they quarrel or my parents, I am still their child. But one day I suddenly feared that I would lose them one day. Afraid that one day I will never knock again. Although I have been listening to their quarrels all my life, I am very satisfied now when I open the door and see their white sideburns, muddy eyes, wrinkled corners of my eyes and full of dining tables.

I still remember the trial of Zhang Shuguang, former director and deputy chief engineer of the Transportation Bureau of the Ministry of Railways, who was suspected of taking bribes. At the final stage of the court statement, Zhang Shuguang said that he was most sorry for his 80-year-old parents, who had not had a meal with him for 10 years. Please forgive him.

Zhang Shuguang, a corrupt official, will make a fair ruling on how much he took bribes and how he should be sentenced. The public is concerned that Zhang Shuguang has 10 not eaten with his parents. Are such officials human? Is Zhang Shuguang busy at work? It's possible. As the first batch of college students who resumed the college entrance examination after the "Cultural Revolution", Zhang Shuguang should be capable; When he became the director of the Transportation Bureau of the Ministry of Railways, China High-speed Railway was 7 years old and 3 steps, and Zhang Shuguang was awarded the title of "the first person in China High-speed Railway". However, these are not the reasons why Zhang Shuguang doesn't eat with his parents. Which official is not busy at work? It is true that officials spend little time with their parents, but like Zhang Shuguang, they haven't eaten with their parents for 10 years. Such officials are really rare.

Zhang Shuguang really doesn't have time? Definitely not. Lu Xun said that time is like water in a sponge. As long as you are willing to squeeze, there is always something. The book of songs says: mourn your parents and give birth to me; Meng Ziyun: Filial son is the most important. But how much love there is an inch of grass, reported three Chunhui; Crows have the meaning of feeding back, sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing ... In Zhang Shuguang's heart, parents have no status, and even are dispensable. 10 years, even parents have no chance to have dinner together. Is such a person still human? Are such officials qualified to be officials? The friend of the Italian court said: "If a person makes his mother sad, no matter how prominent his position is, no matter how famous he is, he is a despicable person." Amicus this sentence used in Zhang Shuguang, really appropriate!

Laffargue, a Frenchman, said that being old and respected is the first privilege of human society; Another Frenchman, Stendhal, also said that it is the best privilege of human spirit for the elderly to be respected. But Zhang Shuguang's parents not only didn't enjoy any privileges of the elderly, they didn't even have the minimum filial piety. Old people are most afraid of loneliness. They don't want their children to go home and make much contribution, but they want their families to enjoy family happiness together.

It's high time to be filial. This is a common sense and a truth, no matter whether you are an official or a man. If an official doesn't even show filial piety to his parents, even if he has made great contributions to the country and society, it is not worth emulating and respecting in the eyes of the world. Don't deceive the world with "loyalty and filial piety can't be satisfactory". At the moment of "people-oriented", we can give consideration to loyalty and filial piety. I hope everyone, especially officials, can learn from Zhang Shuguang and carry forward the traditional virtues of respecting and loving the elderly. ?

When eating with them, talk to them with your heart and have a drink with them. I won't use gorgeous and impetuous words, I will only remind you with sincere and simple words. You may delay, but time will not. Sit down and have a meal with your parents.