The more promising, the easier it is to go downhill. What kind of man do you mean?

When dealing with people, be kind, honest, cautious and modest.

A good personality can bring a person the longest and most profound blessing. Your honesty may not bring great benefits in the short term, but it will make others establish full and long-term trust in you; Your caution will avoid many traps and make yourself safe.

This is an inexhaustible advantage and wealth for individuals.

The following kinds of men, the more promising they are now, the easier they will go downhill in the future. As for the reason, it is related to the principle of being a man and doing things mentioned above.

Speak without hesitation

I mentioned a famous person who had to say during the Three Kingdoms period, and that was Yang Xiu.

This man-machine intelligence is as clever as ghosts and gods, but in the end, because of too much intelligence exposure, there is no taboo to speak, and he suffered and lost his life.

Cao Cao built a garden, and the craftsmen drew drawings for Cao Cao to see. Cao Cao didn't say a word after reading it, but wrote a movable type on the door of the painting academy. The craftsmen didn't understand, so they asked Yang Xiu. Yang Xiu said? The Prime Minister thinks the garden door is too big. ?

The craftsmen revised the plan and then asked Cao Cao, who was really happy.

However, after learning that everyone was reminded by Yang Xiu, Cao Cao praised him, but he was wary and dissatisfied with him.

Later, when Cao Cao was in Hanzhong, he was unwilling to join the army because of successive defeats, but he was afraid of losing to Ma Chao. The other party wants to retire, but they are afraid of being laughed at by everyone. When they hesitated, they changed the password of the barracks at night to? Chicken ribs? .

When Yang Xiu learned of this, he ordered the accompanying sergeant to pack up and prepare for his return trip. The soldier asked why, and he said? Chicken ribs are tasteless, but it's a pity to discard them. You can't win this battle, just for fear of being laughed at. Wang Wei is sure to return to the DPRK in the next few days. Everyone should make preparations to pack his bags early so as not to panic when he leaves. ?

When Cao Cao saw that he had not issued a decree, Yang Xiu publicly exposed his inner hesitation and embarrassment. In a rage, he was punished for the great crime of disturbing the morale of the army and cut off from the account. Yang Xiu died at the age of 44.

If you speak recklessly, don't know the importance, and don't know the difference between seniority and inferiority, then no matter how splendid the scenery is now, you will one day encounter unexpected troubles because of your weakness and destroy all the foundations accumulated before.

There is no bottom line in doing things.

During Wu Zetian's reign, in order to suppress those who opposed her, she appointed a group of cruel officials who acted without a bottom line.

Two of them are the most vicious, one is Zhou Xing and the other is Lai Junchen. They are best at using framing and inhuman torture to extract confessions, and a large number of civil and military officials died at their hands.

After a while, the two men soared, just like sitting in a helicopter. However, this way of calling a deer a horse, which leads to human life like dirt, ultimately hurts yourself.

At that time, telling stories was a fashion. Just when Zhou Xing was in full swing, a tip-off letter was sent to Wu Zetian, saying that Zhou Xing was plotting a rebellion with others.

Wu Zetian was furious and ordered Lai Junchen to judge Zhou Xing as the presiding judge. Lai Junchen took Zhou Xingzhi to his house for a drink and pretended to ask him about his pro-torture moves. Zhou Xing proudly taught him to find a big urn, bake it around with charcoal fire, and then lead the prisoner into the urn. This taste of immortality is not afraid of the prisoner's refusal.

Lai Junchen burned a big urn according to his statement and said to Zhou Xing: Someone accused you of rebellion, and the emperor ordered me to investigate. I'm sorry. Now, why don't you put yourself in the urn? ? so this is it？ Would you please enter the urn? The origin of this idiom.

There are countless cruel people, and in the end these people are not rewarded. How fast success comes, how miserable failure comes. Don't accumulate virtue for yourself, leave a way out, there are too many grievances, and everyone has seen the end.

Without gratitude

During the Tang Suzong period, Li Mian, the son of Li Zeyan, the secretariat of qi zhou, served as county magistrate in Kaifeng. For various reasons, he once let a prisoner go secretly. A few years later, after Li Mian was dismissed from office, he went to Hebei to play and met the prisoner of that year by chance.

This man is already a rich silk merchant at this time. When I saw the rescuer of that year, I naturally went home and gave him a warm reception, saying that I would repay him for saving his life. However, when discussing with his wife how to repay them, they had differences.

The more he discussed it, the more he felt that saving his life was unrequited. As soon as he discussed it, his wife got bored and said, in that case, let's kill him! Only when he dies can your heart be at peace, so you don't owe him. ? Hearing this, the man thought this method was feasible and decided to start work.

Fortunately, a loyal servant of his family overheard the conversation and thought the master and his wife were too bored. He quietly informed Li Mian that Li Mian fled overnight to avoid death.

When he became a big official again, it is conceivable how he treated the man who once bite the hand that feeds him and tried to take his life.

Such a person's character is so bad that others feel ashamed. If you are not careful, disaster will come. Even if you are lucky enough to develop in a short time, you will ruin everything one day, perhaps including your own life.

Conclusion:

People can't just think about the moment, but look to the long term.

If you have considerable personality or personality defects, these things will not bring you good news, but will only become a major hidden danger that will eventually ruin your future and life.

Men should be ambitious, open-minded, open-minded, aboveboard, cautious and modest, practical and sincere.

Although these qualities and styles may not make you reap huge profits, they will definitely not bring you potential harm, and then one day they will become a rope that stumbles on your way forward and make you unprepared.