A talk about emotional healing: As long as you take me seriously, your business is my business

The sky will get dark, people will change, and people nowadays are all cheating. Love, marriage, emotions... there are always so many entanglements, separations and combinations, what should I do?

If I can’t get you any favors in exchange for my kindness to you, then why should I give it to you? You should also stop engaging in all those hypocritical things with me, and stop talking to me about things that have nothing to do with me. I know who is good to me. When I am unhappy, who comforts me and makes me laugh?

When I was most frustrated, who stayed with me every day, fearing that something might happen to me, was it you, friend? If you take me seriously, you don’t need to say anything if something happens, I will definitely take care of it. If you play tricks with me, I'll help you if you have something to do. That's my kindness. If I don't help you, don't yell at me.

Stop talking about me behind my back and shut your flat mouth. I don’t have that many stories for you to tell. It's hard for everyone to agree. I can't make everyone like me. After all, not everyone is human. I'm not forcing you to be friends with me. If you can't be friends with me, just stay away from me.

I am not a member of society, and I can’t deal with your social problems. Friends, find your place and take your seat accordingly. The scariest thing is that she obviously hates you, but she still pretends to be nice to you. The scariest thing is that she is very nice to you, but she says bad things about you in front of others.

The scariest thing is that you think you can talk to her about everything, but she hides many things from you. The scariest thing is when your best friend betrays you. It's really ridiculous that you can't even give sincerity in friendship.

Stop saying you are bothering me behind my back, because I am bothering you too. Stop calling me hypocritical behind my back, because you are more hypocritical than me. Stop talking about me behind my back, because you are not qualified. Don't point at me behind my back, it's not my turn to give pointers.

Stop trying to win over people behind your back. Just let me know and I will give it to you. Don't say I'm faking behind my back. If you explain to me first what faking is, then you can argue with me. Stop telling others that this is not good or that is not good behind your back. Think about yourself first.

I am just a human being, and I will be nice to anyone who is nice to me. As long as you take me seriously, your business is my business. If you handle things clearly, I won't be able to send you any trouble. If you want to make friends, be sincere and sincere, not just playing tricks on yourself. Talk about people who don’t take me seriously

1. If I treat you sincerely, I will also treat others sincerely. If people don’t take me seriously, why should we care about other people’s opinions. If I don’t care about you anyway, why should you care about others. But when will it feel like home? I hope the baby will not be affected

2. Those who don’t take me seriously. I want to tell you that I have a good temper, but I will never let anyone bully me. I am willing to do things but never mindlessly. I will accept the evil deeds you have played and let them go. I really don’t agree with the way you do things. I also hope that you will not be able to achieve your so-called wishes because you are not qualified.

3. I used to think that people are so selfish when doing certain things, but later I discovered that no one can put their own interests behind them. People put interests first. Having said that, I have to figure out some things. If you don’t take yourself seriously, how can others take you seriously? So I hope I can warn those who don’t take me seriously, don’t try to take advantage of me. Me, you are not qualified yet, please pay attention to your attitude!

4. I have never been a person who comes and goes when he calls. If you don’t take me seriously, don’t expect me to take you seriously.

5. I don’t know what’s going on in my mind. There are obviously so many better people who treat me better than him, but I just think about this person who doesn’t take me seriously. He’s really a bitch. Leather.

6. Ever since I was a child, I have seldom expressed myself deliberately. Of course, it is also because I am very ordinary, so I have nothing to show off, except in front of the people I like. I don’t like to force myself into a certain circle, or try my best to squeeze into someone’s eyes. Because my self-esteem does not allow others to not take me seriously.

7. I feel so tired. Don’t think that I am afraid of you. I am not afraid of anyone. I respect you. Don't be so nice to you that you don't take me seriously. Show your face to someone every day. How old are you?

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8. My sister said, maybe it’s because I care about this person but this person doesn’t take me seriously, so I can be hurt but this person doesn’t realize it. I’m scared and I don’t want to. I can't afford to be hurt again, so why not hide?

9. I don’t know why I think so important of those people who don’t take me seriously at all. I even want to be jealous. It’s really uncomfortable, but really people really don’t care. doesn't care about you.

10. Everything has two sides. As a human being, please understand how to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Before, maybe I was too respectful of others and others didn’t take me seriously, let alone take me seriously. I understand a truth. We are all children, why do you have to ask me to accommodate you every time? I am twice as kind to some people, but those people let me down again and again. From now on, I will only be kind to those who compare my heart with mine, and everyone is the same. There is a bottom line that cannot be touched. I don’t know when I will explode. Human patience is also limited! Please respect.

11. I finally met a handsome guy. He was so obsessed with me that I felt like I was about to lose myself. I found that I really can’t do it. I am too helpless in love. I like a guy. When people show their sincerity, the other person will think that I am easy and don't take me seriously. Who knows that I am not the kind of easy person at all. I am polite, polite, sincere, and put my heart After I took it out, he felt that I was worthless and didn't cherish it. I learned a lot after learning it, and I finally woke up and discovered the problem! Yes, dignity is more important than love, and I think love is mutual respect. No one should pay more and no one should pay less. Since I am so sincere, I can't get your response. I'm sorry, I won't play anymore! Why should I give up the whole forest for you? You're not that good.

12. I was wrong. After I regarded the fandom as mentally retarded, I should not have any communication with the people in it because of the fandom. Otherwise, if others don’t take me seriously, I will be angry to death. It is xfs that I have exceeded the rules of Liao, and I have broken the rice circle and gathered together in Liao.

13. Kindness is not cowardice. My kindness is regarded as due by others. Why? Except for my parents, I don’t show any favor to others, so no one has the right to give me favor. I am kind but From now on, I'm sorry and it's impossible to deal with anyone who doesn't care about me. A good person can be bullied by others, and a good horse can be ridden by others. Others don't take me seriously, but I have to take myself seriously.

14. Some people are not worthy of you doing that for them. The more you care about him and the more you do for him, the more you don't care about you. Moreover, what I hate the most is people who only come to you and contact you proactively when they need you and when you are useful. What the hell do you think I am? So, I decided to save myself from those people who don’t take me seriously and leave my energy and feelings to those who care about me.

15. I dreamed of someone I’ve liked for a long time and didn’t take me seriously. Although I liked the person very much in the dream, I still felt tired and wanted to let go and was sulking. This kind of dreaming is only possible. Some feelings are really amazing. Alas, I have become very social and cannot tolerate being wronged.

16. I understand some people’s sensationalism, but I forget how ugly they are. I trust people who don’t take me seriously at all, but I forget that they only know the front side of others. Behind the scenes. So, brothers and sisters, everything is mutual. You look down on me so much. Sorry, I look down on you so much. Not only that, but there is also a saying, keep your virtue on your lips and keep the soles on your shoes. Ha ha ha ha.

17. Another sleepless night. I thought too much this night. I really want to go back to 15 years ago. I will never choose you again. You never take me seriously. The person who has never given me a holiday since I got married, the person who doesn’t know how to cherish me, the person who lied to me, the person who doesn’t hold me in the palm of his hand, if I had a choice, I would give up 5 years of my life to exchange for it. In the past and now, I have been too tired.

18. Oh, what you lost is a person who is really good to you, but what I lost is a person who doesn’t take me seriously.

19. Ever since I was a child, I have been prone to falling in love with boys who don’t take me seriously. My only ex-boyfriend, I thought about it, he really didn’t take me seriously before he got together with me. There are too many girls around him, and I am just one of them. I never thought he would like me. He and I always bickered. He amused me and everyone else. So when he told me he liked me, I felt like my whole world exploded. I still feel that I will definitely be with the person I like forever. Because the people I like will indeed like me. In relationships, there are not so many twists and turns of right and wrong, and there is nothing about him being good and not worthy of me. If I like him, I just like him. Being together means being together forever. Next time, I really won't let go easily.

20. People who I thought were lifelong friends have deleted my WeChat account a long time ago. People who thought they could help me didn’t take me seriously at all. How many times did I work hard and all I got was in the market? All the hustle and bustle is for profit. It’s so naive to be so naive and pathetic after a lot of years.

21. I am not a self-centered person, but I also don’t like people who don’t take me seriously.

22. I have a standard for being a human being. If someone doesn’t take me seriously, I won’t take him seriously. No matter who he is, the king of heaven and I are not easy to use. Haha, chess piece. , You are overthinking. I have read so many books to be used as a pawn for some people. Some people really underestimate me. Some people should not be happy too early. Isn’t it just playing chess? Let's play chess slowly. It's not certain who will win. We'll see. There's still a long way to go. I advise you not to be too crazy. What you owe me must be repaid in the end. Those who rob my resources and rob my value are the best. Get out of here! ! ! ! I could have gotten everything I wanted, but I had been holding back and giving in to someone.

23. I will not be so kind to everyone in the future. People who don’t take me seriously should not expect me to be kind to you wholeheartedly. I can just deal with it if something happens.

24. I came back from my hometown today. From now on, I will abandon everyone who has negative energy in my life. I am almost thirty, and I know that many problems in real life cannot be changed. I need myself Find your inner belonging, read and learn what the meaning of life is. People need to find their own circle in life, so that life will be meaningful. Abandon those who don't take me seriously, and pursue my own life persistently. When writing, reading, and listening to Himalayas, I need to calm down. If you don’t take me seriously, then so do I.

1. In the face of love, a woman must not put her airs too low.

2. Everyone will be tired, and no one can bear all the sorrow for you.

3. Maybe it’s not you that I can’t let go, but my love. Maybe it's not you that I can't forget, but my love.

4. People say that I am in love with Chang'an, but in fact I only love someone in Chang'an.

5. The reason why scars always hurt is because you always show them to others.

6. Is love swallowing or spitting back? Sometimes, I want to swallow you in my stomach and never be separated. Sometimes, I want to spit you out and give you my freedom and my freedom.

7. For those who like to stir up trouble, the only thing we can do is: stay away from them.

8. Miracles will happen to those who believe in miracles. This sentence is absolutely true. real.

9. Most opportunities belong to those who are prepared, and happiness always belongs to those who take the initiative.

10. Extreme wisdom will be hurt, deep love will not last long.

11. Hating someone is the same as loving someone. You would rather block all news about her than see another person standing next to her, and forget that the best way is to keep working hard and find A better person makes her regret it.

12. Loving a song is often because of a certain lyric, but what is truly moving is not that lyric, but the stories that touch you in your life.

13. The difference between giving up and letting go: Giving up is sacrificing what originally belonged to you, letting go is letting go of what has never been yours.

14. When a person grows up, he dares to face the true self brutally: before choosing, he has a sincere and firm face; after choosing, he has a heart that will not abandon or give up.

15. How far can a person go? In fact, I don’t know, who knows? The heart knows, the feet know.

16. The best way to occupy other people’s memories is to live better.

17. We all love wrongly and miss love, but we still have to believe that the love we long for must exist.

18. People who are unforgiving usually have a tofu heart.

19. Life is an exile and wandering; paranoia can bring us closer to happiness or freedom.

20. If you don’t take me seriously, then neither do I. Editor: Time without laughter is wasted time. Editor: The scars are healed and the pain is forgotten. Isn’t that a kind of happiness. Editor: Don’t throw candies to passers-by, point your gun at your family. It’s your business to leave. , staying is my business

True friendship is an eternal concept, "beautiful and pure as ice sculptures". There is no narrow mutual use here, no worldly interest calculations, only sincere care and selfless dedication. Wang Guozhen said: "Friendship is knowing each other. When you need it, my friends have come to you silently before I tell you.

Help others when you are doing well; be content when you are living normally. Always be happy; learn to enjoy yourself when you are in adversity. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, because it's not worth it; don't punish others with your own mistakes, because when you hurt others, you will be hurt again; don't use it to punish others. You can punish yourself for your own mistakes. It doesn’t matter if you make a mistake, as long as you carefully find out the reason, learn the lesson, and change it!

Ten years ago, you loved me, but I couldn’t run away from you. Ten years later, I love you, but you are not here. This is how a moment is lost in life, and regret is also a memorial. In the journey of spiritual cultivation, speculation will never be allowed, the mask will be torn down, and the lies will be exposed. You are not immune.

From now on, be a simple person, be down-to-earth and pragmatic. Don’t indulge in fantasy, be happy, be cheerful, be tenacious, and be sincere to others. Be sincere, be generous, be tolerant, and have a normal mind. Always be hopeful about life, face difficulties and hardships with a smile, read more books, eat well, and have dreams. Far away...

Strive to be a person with a strong heart. 1. Whatever you do, remember to do it for yourself, then there will be no complaints. 2. Don’t be pessimistic about life. There is no absolute fairness, but it is relatively fair. On a scale, the more you get, you must bear more than others. 4. Don’t be afraid of starting over at any time in life, even if the starting point seems to be low. , are the only way to reach a higher peak

After experiencing it, we all understand a lot. Even if we meet by chance at a certain intersection one day, we will still have such indifferent greetings and thoughts. It is always unspeakable. Because we have loved, we are compassionate, and because we understand, we are tolerant.

We cannot change others, but we can do three things: 1) Change ourselves; 2) Do something to make the other person happy. Generate the feeling of wanting to change; 3) Make arrangements for yourself so that whether the other person changes or not, it will not affect your success and happiness. Many people think that "arrangement" means breaking up, resigning, and giving up. These are the last choices, and there are many other options. It's just that you don't or don't want to look for it.

Once love is broken, the scars will remain forever. Love is like an addictive poison, you know it is poisonous, but you can't refuse it.

If I had never met you in this life, maybe I would just be walking alone on a corner of the roadside, complaining about the past misses, quietly burying my head and crying.

The meeting was based on fate, an arrangement from God, and destiny. From now on, I have you in my life, and I will spend the days with you by my side.

Worry about gains and losses, but the more you worry about losing, the easier it is to lose. The protectiveness and possessiveness derived from love finally become the enemy of love. Under pressure step by step, this kind of love is finally composed. It became a tragedy.

Don't let deep love turn into pain ------ If you don't love someone, please let go so that others can have a chance to love them. If the person you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself so that you can have the opportunity to love someone else. ------ You don’t have to own someone to love someone, but you must love someone well if you own someone.

It is very happy to fall in love with smart people because they are humorous and good at talking, but there are always dangers because such people can easily change their minds. Falling in love with an honest person is very reassuring, but life is also very boring.

You never persuaded me to leave. I never advised you to stay. You have your persistence, and I have my persistence. You have your face and I have my dignity. You have your story, I have mine. In this way, you have your direction and I have mine. You, it's your business to leave. Me, staying is my business.

No matter how strong a person is, there must be some weaknesses in his heart that will break and hurt when touched. Because we don’t want to get hurt, we put on masks and armor and try to hide our vulnerable sides. However, the more we hide, the more we expose when we are discovered. The less we dare to face pain, the more painful it will be when we are stabbed. The person who is least vulnerable to injury is not the strongest person, but the person who faces himself most honestly.

When I was a child, I hoped that I would grow up quickly, but when I grew up, I found that I had lost my childhood; when I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover; when I was in love, I missed the freedom of being single. ——In fact, many things always feel good when they are not obtained. After getting them, we begin to understand that when we get them, we are also losing them.

There will always be countless passing by each other in life. Not every encounter can be condensed into staying together, and not every invitation can be transformed into acquaintance. Life is so long and there are so many variables in life. Sometimes the person you think will accompany you forever can only accompany you for a part of the journey. Fortunately, we always retain a little extravagant hope for eternity, so as not to miss the next time love comes.

If I can drive you out of my heart, I will wave to you goodbye without hesitation; if there is no place for you in my heart, I think I will live happily, It won't be as boring as now! If I could stop thinking about you, I think I would have more dreams of my own in my mind.

The shadows on the wall are separated by three lives. Why are we so close to each other that we have to retreat thousands of miles away and just stare across the river. Tears on this shore, flowers on the other shore. The tears had already fallen down uncontrollably, and mixed with the rain and slipped away in the palm of my hand. I tried hard to capture the temperature that slipped across my face at that moment, but I could no longer tell whether it was the body temperature of the rain or the tears. What was left between my fingers was It's just the slightest hint of coolness.

There is only one word for love, but two words for like. It seems that love is more concise and clear than like. There is no room for any impurities in the world of love. It is an irreplaceable emotion. If you like you, you don't necessarily love you. If you love you, you must like you very much. Liking is just an intuition and a good impression of the other person. Loving someone requires you to devote yourself to the person you love without regrets. Love what they love and hurt what they love. Pain, like is a light love, love is a deep like!