My parents always ask me to help my brother. How can I express my dissatisfaction?

Brother and sister are brothers. I think it is understandable to help my brother and help him in his later years within his financial ability. Tell me about myself. The most terrible result is that you have helped countless times and got a brother who always asks for it and has no gratitude. There is a saying: raise rice to raise kindness, and fight rice to raise hatred. I'm used to support. When you can't pay, my brother will complain about you in turn. You have the ability to help, but also have a measure. It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. To make my brother have the ability to gain a foothold in society, we must help him gain a foothold in society and have the ability to earn more money and do greater things. The end result is that my brother grows up and helps your sister who once helped him.

Brother and sister are brothers. I think it is understandable to help my brother and help him in his later years within his own financial ability. Tell me about myself.

I think you should help your brother when your mother is 20 years old. I think your mother's idea is just your own. Besides, my mother took the hint away and didn't say it directly, which means that my mother also considered your feelings. That's why I said I wouldn't tell the truth if I saw it. As for my brother, he did meet with something difficult to recruit. Of course, it is ok to help him as an elder sister, and you can also share your worries for your parents, but don't develop your younger brother.

Everything depends on your bad habits. In this case, you will spoil your brother and you will be under great pressure. You will really regret it then. First, in the eighties and nineties, all five children in the family were girls, and it was better to learn one than the other, which was also an ordinary family in rural areas. What should I do if they can all afford to go to college? Parents decided to share, one child, the eldest brother is responsible for providing the second child, the second child for the third child, the third child for the fourth child and the fourth child for the fifth child after graduation. As a result, they all finished their tasks one after another, and everyone's burden was not heavy, only for a few years. This is called the golden mean. Secondly, the former next-door neighbor and daughter-in-law came from the countryside. Her mother's brother is divorced and may be afraid of hardship and healthy. He is in his fifties.