How do two men choose? This story is a bit long. Enter patiently. Excellent answers add 30 points.

There can be selfishness in love. Do what you want.

You and your current boyfriend have regrets, don't you? You are unhappy. That's because you don't love him. And your boyfriend feels happy because he loves you, and being with the person he loves is happiness.

That American boy, you love him, right? After so many years of waiting, your feelings have not changed, which shows your sincerity. Such true love will not weaken with the passage of time and distance, but will last for a lifetime. Instead of remembering this love when people are middle-aged or even old, it will still hurt their hearts and lungs. It's better to take a chance while there is still a chance. Even if you don't succeed, at least you won't regret it.

From a secular point of view, you should also choose American. You said that he is the best in character, knowledge, achievement and so on that you have ever seen. Even if feelings aside, what's wrong with a woman choosing a good man? Marriage itself is a woman's career. Of course, you should choose the one that has the most potential and is most suitable for your development. At this point, no one will blame you for choosing him.

Find a suitable opportunity and make it clear to your current boyfriend. Deception is not a long-term solution. Since he loves you, of course he wants you to be happy. As long as you can be frank and calm, I believe he will understand you, because he knows better than anyone what it is to love someone deeply!

I think since you can make such an excellent person fall in love with you and your boyfriend (I think he can study in England, at least the conditions will not be bad) and be so dead set on you, then your own conditions will not be bad. So on your terms, do you have to choose between these two people? Of course not. To say the least, even if you pursue it, you will not succeed. If you don't get what you want, don't be sad. Qian Qian is not the only good man worthy of your love. Since there is no fate, let's seal this beautiful first love in our hearts. A woman as affectionate as you will surely find a good man who is both excellent and cherishes you.

Finally, I sincerely wish you to grasp yourself, grasp the present and find the happiness you want.