How people wake up.

I wonder if there is such a person around you. I think there are some small phenomena. For example, when you were in junior high school, a classmate used to be a school scum. People who do everything except study suddenly start to work hard and can improve quickly. For example, someone in the class who is rich and beautiful, can lie down and sit or stand, suddenly starts to sweat, and insists day after day. Unconsciously, he is no longer the silly companion in everyone's eyes. For example, the one who has always been a nice guy suddenly becomes decisive and walks with the wind. I don't know if there are such people around you. I haven't been in contact with them for a long time. What do I call this phenomenon? For me, it's awakening. I'm also curious why some people suddenly become another person in a short time. What motivates them to change and do things they don't want to do? When I observed their lives and reviewed their life experiences, I realized that the key to awakening is pain, yes, it is pain, without exception. At least I have read many people's biographies and others' and my own experiences, without exception. Our life is not a so-called martial arts novel. It's not that you fell off the cliff and got the peerless secret book. Even if it is almost the same, you should be lucky. It's not that you can jump from the dragon gate to the dragon with an epiphany. At least this is a novel. The disaster has not developed to a certain extent. In fact, the awakening in our life is not to spend our own disasters and the resurrection of our souls. So when I saw someone suddenly change, I stopped denying and laughing, but felt very sad. You need to know what it means to shut a fat man up and take his legs. For a student, what does it mean at the beginning to face the exercises that have made him very headache, not to mention the ridicule and disapproval of others. Our sudden change is actually saying goodbye to ourselves in the past. Today, I mainly tell my own story about awakening, which may be very simple and ordinary. In this colorful world, things and experiences that may not even ripple are really the unforgettable souls of the parties and the stubborn souls in the process of change.

Bad student's little A.

I met Xiao in the second year of high school. At that time, we were divided into classes, and he was assigned to our class with good grades from the ordinary class. To be clear, our school is just an ordinary school. When I first met him, he had an ordinary appearance and an ordinary figure. Because we are in the same dormitory, we know him well. His past was like this. In other high schools, he was expelled from school because he jumped over the wall and surfed the Internet, fighting disobediently. If not, I'm fired. Is what we call a bad student. Then, like most teenagers who give up studying. I was taken to work in the electric light factory by my parents. Then I worked for a year, and then I went back to school. I came to our school and was assigned to our class after half a year. Let's talk about his performance in our class first! You can say that you worked hard there. Of course, it may be just normal compared with the top classes in other schools. But here, it is one of the hardest working people in the world. Although our school is average, the best students in the first session are also in the top few junior high schools. It's just that in order to make money, the school has a poor foundation, which leads to a bad overall atmosphere. He is a foreigner in that place. While others are playing, he is studying. He relies on strength when others cheat in exams. When others don't know what the college entrance examination means, he already knows what it means to study hard. It is not easy to be different anywhere, even if what you do is meaningful. There is no lack of ridicule and disapproval. This is the loneliest. It took me two years to understand what that feeling was. His grades are among the best among nearly 300 comprehensive students. Later, the college entrance examination was also one of the best in our session. I haven't talked to him since I graduated from high school, but I think his life now is definitely much more exciting than burning electric lights in a lamp factory. I don't know what makes a person from a bad student to a good student. What has changed from the idea of going over the wall in other high schools to the idea of being expelled from school? I don't know what made her persist in those circumstances, such as pointing at others, facing their contempt and ridicule. I think these processes should be very painful! Yes, it is pain. It's the kind of pain and happiness that you have an epiphany. Later, I learned that most of our changes actually started with pain, just like the common scenes in martial arts novels. A dude of a noble family escaped because his family was ruined, and the owner who wanted to change pointed out or found a secret book to go to power, which was a revenge. Since then, it has become a legend in rivers and lakes. Our life may not be so legendary. Our changes may come from ordinary things. For example, being looked down upon by others, for example, people you like don't like yourself. We don't have a legendary life, but each of us has the key to change.

Finally.

After more than 20 years, you will still meet people who have changed. When you come into contact with them, you can obviously feel different from others. There is a calm that ordinary people can't understand, but there is also a feeling that they can't rely on it. I think this is the unique temperament of people who have experienced painful baptism! In fact, what can change people is pain.