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Count the ten negative energies of An Lingrong: this is the root of tragedy.
Looking at the characters written by writer Wu, I think it is necessary to talk about An Lingrong. Why did you single her out? Because she is a typical model, even in modern society, her personality characteristics can be very close to our lives and can give people a life warning. Just share your experience with readers and discuss the top ten negative energies of An Lingrong. (Note: Please pay attention to communication improvement and consideration. This article is only related to the characters in the novel, please don't tick the actors)
1. Family conditions. An Lingrong entered the city gate at the latest, which almost affected the draft. Mammy asked, "Why did you come so late?" An Lingrong replied, "I live far away, but I can't catch the express train for a while." In fact, it is similar to the entrance examination for children in mountain villages. It costs money to come early, but it is too late to live near. Living near the hotel is expensive, but living far away is inconvenient. After the success of the draft, the innkeeper refused to let An Lingrong go because he didn't get a reward, and he was surrounded by Zhen Xuan maid Liu Zhu. So her reply is just a decent statement, and the family conditions behind it are hard to say.
2. Father's official position. In the draft waiting room, An Lingrong's hot tea met Xia Dongchun, a left-handed coat. Father's "Songyang County Cheng" official position has been delayed, and Xia Dongchun sarcastically said: "It is originally a small family in the hinterland, why should we lose face in the palace?" . Regional differences, family background and human relations are all concerned by modern society! If you are in trouble, first find out each other's background, so as not to be taunted. If you are in trouble, you will be firm. If she is not inferior, why doesn't she defend herself?
3. Lack of fatherly love. Ann's father was lucky to get rid of the unfavorable case of escorting rations, but An Lingrong thought of her mother most, but did not mention her father. His mother is hated at home, bullied by several aunts, and can't eat well or wear well. An Lingrong was bullied and left out from childhood. Father drinks Hua San regardless of her mother and daughter, and he is too nervous, so he has no confidence and inferiority.
1. Avoid responsibility and protect yourself. Huafei planted a fake pregnancy in Shenmeizhuang with a stratagem, and eyebrow zhuang was punished by the emperor and took the title of confinement. An Lingrong was scared out in a cold sweat. Tell Baojuan to throw away the embroidered bag for eyebrow zhuang's children, so as not to get into trouble. Because of her friendship with Mei Zhuang, Huafei instructed Songzhi to move the furnishings of the mausoleum. At this time, Bao Juan's words echoed in An Lingrong's heart: "Shen promised to approve of us, but now he promised everyone to step on one foot and say nothing, but he wanted to pull us in. What world? " It is selfish to protect yourself and avoid responsibility regardless of sisterhood.
2. jealousy. The queen agreed that Chun often left Anlingrong to live with him. An Lingrong said, "He was born in the same family, but his temper is more compatible.". I was bullied by rich and powerful people, and I was secretly jealous and helpless. Later, because Chun often talked about the emperor's bedding, he offended An Lingrong. Zhen Xuan asked Aunt Jinxi to send a gift to apologize. An Lingrong thought, "I've never seen anything so good, but she has everything." Jealousy is getting stronger and stronger, and personality determines fate, laying the groundwork for jealousy and desire that can never be concealed.
3. look for the potential to rely on the mountain. Anfu thanked the queen for her release under the escort of rations, and since then, she has buried an interest dispute with the queen. An Lingrong knows that only when he is in power can he live a better life. With a backer, he will not be bullied again. So, she silently planted the idea of relying on the Queen's Mountain. As everyone knows, this seed, like bean sprouts, is destined to be someone else's dish and will never be useful.
1. Easy to be complacent. When the draft was successful, she was ecstatic and eager to pay tribute to her ancestors. Immerse yourself in the present and forget your next plan. So when she learned that Xia Dongchun was bullying her under the same roof, she knew she was at a loss and her mood fluctuated greatly. In addition, going to the imperial garden attracted the emperor's favor because of the singing of nature, but he returned to the palace on foot the next day. Talking with Baojuan, on the one hand, we can see the degree of inferiority of An Lingrong, on the other hand, we can see her easy-to-satisfy heart again. I thought to myself that this time the emperor was lucky, perhaps it was the beginning of a successful career. But she forgot that she didn't read any books and wouldn't have much spiritual communication with the emperor. She also neglected that sleeping once is nothing, and turning over frequently is the sustainable development.
2. Emotional instability. When the emperor "turned the cards" for the first time, An Lingrong was so flattered that even the lid of the tea cup was turned over. Too excited and nervous, nervous and afraid, lose the opportunity to be loved and laughed at. Emotional instability is one of her main faults. If she can't control her emotions, she will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Therefore, no one in the whole drama boasted that An Lingrong was "steady".
3. grovelling gratitude. Thanks to the queen, An Lingrong's experience of saving his father was satisfied. "Being a cow and a horse" showed full servility to the idea of repaying kindness. She was too excited to rationally distinguish the status quo and trusted the wrong queen. Even if you return the favor in spring, you can't give all the money hastily. One wrong step will lose self-thinking, and it will also set the stage for losing self.
1. Timid. Being bullied by Xia Dongchun, even the handmaiden had to complain a few words, but Anlingrong didn't dare to tell anyone, so she put up with it. After witnessing Xia Dongchun being awarded the Red Medal by Hua Fei, he thought too much, was afraid of being implicated, and looked very scared. At this time, the maid-in-waiting exclaimed and found that the maid-in-waiting in the well was dead (the queen's blessing to Hua Fei), and An Lingrong was even weaker.
2. The location is uncertain. Knowing that Yu Shi (loved by Emperor Zhen Xuan on a snowy night in Meiyuan) cheated the monarch and poisoned his concubines with "perishable", he said that he was afraid, and eyebrow zhuang was also worried, but An Lingrong was even more afraid. Therefore, An Lingrong said that "holding a group" is the most important thing at this time, at least better than one person. Encouraging "Qi Xin" is what An Lingrong said, but after all, she was the first to quit her circle of friends.
3. Being used. Anfu imprisoned, AnLingRong has no definite view, eyebrow zhuang useless, said, and so on. The villain was caught by the queen and was grateful for her kindness. In the queen's mind, she took advantage of the emperor's bedclothes incident to forge a bad blood relationship with Zhen Xuan. Those who are angered, have no opinions, and trust her will eventually suffer big losses.
1. Feel sorry for yourself. An Lingrong was criticized by Lacrimosa for failing to accompany the emperor for the first time. Undoubtedly, he is sensitive and self-destructive, saying that he will have no chance to accompany him in the future.
2. Love sulking. Thanks to the floating brocade sent by Zhen Xuan, I saw the maid Huanbi wearing it. Lingrong is not allowed to talk nonsense, but his heart is always angry. If you hurt your self-esteem, negative energy will eventually take root.
3. Strong self-esteem. Hua Fei was trapped by Zhen Xuan, humiliated An Lingrong in front of the emperor and forced him to "perform". Zhen Xuan still held her breath, AnLingRong crying, complaining that she lost her master's temperament, which should not be true.
1. The fragrance of infatuation. Earlier, An Lingrong said that his father was a businessman who made spices, and he also knew the art of making incense (obviously it is very important to master a skill, after all, it has become an iron rice bowl in front of the queen). The emperor once said, "Who knows that you don't want to leave when you get to Anjin?" The reason is that An Lingrong used unscrupulous means to compete for favor.
2. Seize the opportunity to take the lead. Zhen Xuan was punished by Hua Fei for aborting a baby, and was angry that the emperor didn't punish Hua Fei. At this time, the emperor ignored Zhen Xuan and didn't see Hua Fei. An Lingrong knew that the opportunity had come (Qionghua Island held a banquet). An Lingrong is plotting in secret, but eyebrow zhuang and her sisters don't know it. Utilitarianism began to compete for favor, and Zhen Xuan began to doubt whether his nature was like this.
1. satisfy selfishness. Due to the sudden outbreak of the epidemic and the influence of Nian Gengyao, Zhen Xuan's father was demoted. LingRong surface comfort Zhen Xuan, back to the palace field sarcasm and relief. In addition, An Lingrong also deliberately revealed Zhen Xuan's suggestion to reset Hua Fei, which made Mei Zhuang very unhappy and made him at odds with Zhen Xuan. An Lingrong has no ability to let Hua Fei, who once humiliated her, succeed, but she knows that she can use her eyebrows to urge revenge.
2. sow discord. Zhen Xuan returned to the palace from Kanluoji, but she was not allowed to go near her daughter. An Lingrong sarcastically said that "his daughter has become someone else's child" and wanted to provoke the relationship with the princess. Both Mei Zhuang and Zhen Xuan helped An Lingrong, and finally killed Mei Zhuang, leaving Zhen Xuan heartbroken. Love is not allowed, and for those who are closest and most grateful, it becomes jealousy and hatred, and negative energy bursts.
3. Ungrateful. What An Lingrong said was really hard to listen to, and really denied Zhen Xuan's initial kindness. Perhaps it is the nature of An Lingrong, unwilling to face those once beautiful things and wanting to realize his unattainable ambitions. Those who gain the Tao help more, while those who lose the Tao help less. It takes everyone's efforts to finish one thing, so she won't succeed. In addition, if Liu Fan is caught, eyebrow zhuang's fake pregnancy can be cleared. However, fearing that the mastermind, Hua Fei, was at large, he leaked the news to Hua Fei and let Hua Fei know that Liu Fan had been arrested, which led to Zhen Xuan's plan not being implemented normally. At present, a set of QiuHuaFei, a set of hide from Zhen Xuan.
1. Not broad-minded. An Lingrong urged Yu's wife to die as soon as possible. That night, he overheard Mei Zhuang say that "Ling Rong would be so cruel and behave like a soft weak person", which made him feel very uncomfortable. Then eyebrow zhuang's father presided over the escort of the Northwest Commissary, and eyebrow zhuang didn't try his best to help, which turned into a feud. Then eyebrow zhuang died in childbirth because of An Lingrong's letter. Others are unable to help, so they hold grudges. Lingrong doesn't think from other people's point of view, but throws the problem to Shen Meizhuang and Zhen Xuan, which is really not open-minded.
2. Have a cruel heart. Being humiliated by Hua Fei many times, she secretly cursed Hua Fei by stealing small pictures and needles, which shows how much she hates a person. Coupled with her bad growth environment, such people will not easily forget hatred once they are hurt. Because of jealousy and grudges, she also suspected that Juqing was the informant for the informant, so after leaving the palace, she poisoned Juqing (Juqing was the handmaiden assigned to Ann). Sigh, once a weak woman.
3. Self-made. Tree hate gum is a sharp weapon to poison Zhen Xuan's children, and it is also the fuse to bury An Lingrong. First of all, guide Qi Fei to mix oleander pollen into cakes and send them to Zhen Xuan to eat, so as to use Qi Fei to accuse the fetus of being hurt and sad, and remind Zhen Xuan that there may be something wrong. Secondly, Hua Fei punished Zhen Xuan for kneeling in the scorching sun to read Gonggui, while An Lingrong knelt down sincerely for mercy, but he was secretly pleased. In front of Zhen Xuan, there is a person, and in front of the Queen, there is another person, not on the swing, but on both sides of the mask. Hatred because of jealousy and love, so-called self-inflicted, have no good end.
1. Slavery is indisputable. I know I have done many things wrong, but I don't want to repent. I am still stubborn. I think it may not be stubborn, but that she is too servile and timid. She always thought that she had no identity and background, so she could only be pushed around and did not dare to fight. From the big cat's crazy pine nuts provoked the abortion of Fu Cha nobles, Zhen Xuan was scratched, to the chess king nobles who escaped from the cold palace were killed, and then to the surprise that Zhen Xuan returned to the palace from Kanluoji, she felt that there was no turning back. No resistance, follow the route set by others, and rely on the queen to make decisions.
2. Lack of introspection. When he was still immersed in the joy of being turned over, Su Peisheng reported that the emperor went to Zhen Xuan and was ridiculed by the rich and noble, and suffered great harm. An Lingrong never thought about the difference with Zhen Xuan, nor why the emperor would spoil a person so much. It is better to try to add value to make up for the deficiency. Opportunities are for those who are prepared, not those who don't strive for or rely on others.
When waiting for the draft, Zhen Xuan gave him an earring. An Lingrong said, "I was born in a cold place, but I didn't expect to apply." . Being bullied by others, she swallowed her anger and complained that she was incompetent. After her voice was hoarse, she was anxious to say to Baojuan, "I don't want to be an abandoned child." Even the emperor and queen said that she was "a person who speaks lightly", so it is not difficult to understand how to belittle herself. Pay special attention to other people's opinions, think too much out of thin air and care too much about family background. After all, I lost my true self and lived in other people's discussions, but I didn't want to please or obey others because of being discussed by others. By the way, these psychological phenomena are not only found in concubines, but also have a very bad influence on the growth of teenagers.
I have introduced the top ten negative energies of An Lingrong in detail in graphic form. Now let's tidy it up again. Every article is a crime of human nature. Why is it called "crime"? Negative energy of personality will bury the bright spot, consume all potential, become fragile, make people feel bad, pessimistic, not enthusiastic about life, pay more attention to what they care about, and lead to a narrow life pattern. These negative energy clauses not only hurt An Lingrong himself, but also hurt many innocent characters in the play.
Connecting with modern real life also has a warning function, not a simple statement of gender. In addition, besides listing the top ten negative energies of An Lingrong, we still need to analyze some objections to her, and then we will discuss them.
1. Smart
She doesn't have Cao Guiren's composure and ability to handle things badly, nor does she have the advantages of princess Qi Fei's status and her mother's son's childhood advantages. But she doesn't have Cao Guiren's concerns, and she is more assertive and can protect herself than Qi Fei, so An Lingrong has unique intelligence. Many ideas, heavy ideas, but no lack of simplicity. A simple person can learn everything quickly, so she quickly learned palace rules, fame and fortune, and palace fights.
②. Bad guys
Is An Lingrong a bad person? If so, how to explain her innocence when she entered the palace at the age of 17; If not, how can it cause a strong eyebrow and dystocia, and be heartbroken by Zhen Xuan when she first entered the palace? Simple judgment is not a problem. People change with the environment. Is An Lingrong a villain? The answer is yes. An Lingrong basically conforms to the definition and personality characteristics of "villain". However, it should be noted that An Lingrong is not so broken and profound. She also has compassion, but she is as "cautious" as her character. This is also in line with its growth process.
Zhen Xuan to AnLingRong is punches, finally take care of a little mutual affection. Zhen Xuan and the emperor knew very well that An Lingrong was pure and kind at that time, and only because of his desire did he go to a bad place. An Lingrong knelt outside hall of mental cultivation, because the emperor imprisoned Abe Huai, and said "nothing" to the emperor. So it can also be confirmed here that An Lingrong is not an out-and-out villain. Is she bad? It's not so bad. Blame her? Actually, it shouldn't.
(3) Little people
Little people can't achieve great things, but little people can always stumble. The villain will be smooth when he is angry, otherwise he will hold a grudge and never forget it. You don't have to kill people at first, and you don't have the courage and ability. But if you provoke a villain, a trip may have serious consequences. An Lingrong is a villain, but not 100% villain. She used to be kind, simple and gentle, but she was misled by others, and her kindness was not completely extinguished.
1. Dream
Does An Lingrong have dreams and ambitions? Yes, she has dreams and ambitions. She wants to strive for a better life for herself, but she thinks more than she does and her ability is limited. Her family is poor, her mother and daughter are bullied, and her father doesn't care. Therefore, her success in the draft also realized the first step of her dream: to escape from her hometown in Songyang County. She has a second step, looking forward to living in Beijing, giving more care to her mother who suffered eye injuries in her hometown, making her life better with a job, and honoring her ancestors in the local area. Yes, she still has the dream of having children. Any woman who doesn't want to have children of her own can stand on her feet as long as her mother is expensive.
So, does she have a dream of promotion? From commitment, always, love, nobility, princess and so on. I don't think so. Born in poverty, negative energy will make her understand that "stability" is enough. She had desires, but she never got them. Her weakness, not daring to speak out, has turned into being unable to win and being trampled on.
(2) escape
An Lingrong himself said, tired! But she didn't escape from the cage. She knows that this is already a "cage" environment, but she still works for the Queen. "Don't escape" is not "can't escape", but in the end it all turns into despair and sadness. Learned helplessness is an important weapon that An Lingrong was firmly grasped by the Queen, and of course he can't escape from the palm of the Queen's hand. For the weak An Lingrong, there must have been struggle, resistance and escape, but the expectation of a better life in her heart prompted her to take risks step by step. When the good wishes were dashed and hopeless, and she realized that she was ruined and became a harmful pawn at the mercy of the queen, her heart was completely empty-the most feared thing was that there was no hope.
Therefore, in the later plot, Zhen Xuan returned to the palace from Kanluoji, and she clearly and frankly said that she was "sinful". Since life is boring, you can't escape, and you can't even see the simplest hope, you can only act as a walking corpse and continue to be at the mercy of the queen. It doesn't matter if you give up on yourself, whether you do something wrong or harm others. So it can also explain why she knows her mistake and doesn't change it, because she has lost herself.
3. Sincerely
Cao Guiren has bitten Hua Fei for a long time, not to mention An Lingrong, who is in a worse situation than Cao Guiren. An Lingrong's initial intention is not to help the queen drag Zhen Xuan into the water, but to realize her simple desire to live a stable life through the way of the queen. Unfortunately, she missed herself. The queen once told Qiu Jian that An Lingrong had his own ideas. How can the queen accommodate the concubines who can have children in the harem? She will try her best to control them. Why didn't the queen let Qi Guiren drink the soup after sleeping with him, but she wore a red agate string? The most fundamental reason is that An Lingrong does not have a good family background and a father in the DPRK. But for An Lingrong who has nothing, she is naturally reckless.
The queen neglected herself because of her family background, and An Lingrong felt more inferior and gave up on herself. An Lingrong hates the queen. Only the current situation, hatred passed to Zhen Xuan's jealousy. I feel equal when I see others unhappy. However, this hatred made An Lingrong feel a little pity, so although he mocked Zhen Xuan, it still made sense.
Due to the limited space, the author finally discusses the root cause-the culprit that caused Anling Rong's negative energy. Forget the feudal social background. These ten kinds of negative energy are just the expression of An Lingrong's personality. Now analyze the root of the problem-her family! All her negative energy comes from her family, especially the father who took several aunts and forgot his mother.
An Lingrong was knocked down, the emperor sentenced her to death, and Zhen Xuan went to see her off. Finally, she said, "Do you know who taught me embroidery? It's my mother. My mother used to be Suzhou's embroidered mother, and my father liked her very much. At that time, my father was still a small businessman selling spices. My mother sells embroidery and donated a sesame official to my father. My mom didn't like my dad, and he wasn't as beautiful as before, so my dad married several concubines. Although my mother is the first wife, she is old and has no plan, so she suffers everywhere. My father didn't even want to see her in the end. Even the ladies-in-waiting dared to bully me after I entered the palace, and I was afraid. Every night, I dream that I have become like my mother, blind and bullied, and my life is worse than death. "
Her father is her negative example. However, we can't ignore the stupid concept of "filial piety" in that era, and we can also imagine her ambivalence of wanting to escape from her hometown and feeling sorry for her mother.
An Lingrong once said that "Dad is cautious in everything and protects himself in everything" when his father escorted rations to prison. Associated with An Lingrong's character, it can be inferred that it is caused by his father's prudence and selfishness and his mother's cowardice and inferiority. In addition, you can also know that his father does not dare to be looked down upon outside, and he is careful not to offend others or claim his legitimate rights and interests. However, according to An Lingrong's account before his death, his father was arrogant at home, fond of the new and tired of the old, did not uphold justice for his first wife, and forgot her deep affection for himself.
Xin Guiren and the imperial concubine Zhen Xuan talk about Abe's imprisonment. From the conversation, we can know that Abe got the position of county magistrate but showed off his arrogance. Because of the greedy nature, the emperor also bluntly "humiliated me." Therefore, An Lingrong's father is also a villain. In such a family environment, An Lingrong was naturally instilled with the villain's character.
An Lingrong's home is in Songyang County, and his life is very "difficult". She always felt that her father looked down on herself, on the one hand because she was a daughter's family, and on the other hand, her mother was bullied. In this case, An Lingrong wanted to prove that she was recognized by her father and confident in front of her aunts. But the more so, the more I hate myself for not being good enough and never being good enough, so I can only swallow my pride and sulk to punish myself and get psychological comfort.
It's really sad, and of course it's hateful. But her pity and hatred were not caused by herself, but by her family. The family background has a profound influence on her life. Therefore, the chief culprit of An Lingrong's tragic ending is her lack of care and positive energy family.
An Lingrong has never seen any market, just seeking stability. When she arrived at the palace, she experienced all this. She came from a humble background and was looked down upon by everyone. She has no background, and others can bully her. Only death has the right to decide and be the master once. Into the big dye vat of the palace, and finally got muddy and had to be dyed, which ruined my life in vain. Although I have done so many bad things, I still believe that An Lingrong is still a simple and kind girl with a bright future for life.
There is a famous saying-"be careful with your thoughts, they will become your language;" Be careful of your words, they will become your actions; Be careful of your actions, they will become your habits; Be careful of your habits, they will become your character; Be careful of your character, it will become your destiny. "
Either there is a negative energy or there is only one. All personality characteristics are interrelated and will spread infection. So we should learn to be optimistic instead of sulking, express our feelings and show our excellent qualities instead of bringing negative thoughts to others. Be a person who can control himself, be a person who has positive energy and can illuminate people around him, instead of bringing gloom to society.
Can you walk into the emperor's heart? You should learn from Zhen Xuan and read more books, so that you can communicate spiritually and find it interesting. It is dangerous to think without learning, and it is useless to learn without thinking. Listen to Mr Jiang Yang's warning about "don't read more" and be an interesting person. Only when you are an interesting person, a person full of positive energy, a person with personality and wisdom, and a person who remains outstanding, will you attract more people with inexhaustible light and love others at the same time.
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