What do you mean, "Dont Ask For Help is arrogant"?

Label: Inspiration from Fu Jia, Hu Xueyan and Ceng Shiqiang.

When I was on vacation at home, I finished reading Ceng Shiqiang's Revelation of Hu Xueyan in one breath, which was really memorable. Ceng Shiqiang's humorous language, incisive insights, strong patriotism and profound knowledge deeply infected me, which made me have a comprehensive understanding of Hu Xueyan and learned a lot about being a man and doing things.

Hu Xueyan was a legend in China in the late Qing Dynasty. He was born in poverty, but he made a fortune quickly in just over ten years and became the richest businessman in China at that time. Hu Xueyan lent money to foreign banks for the Qing government, and helped Zuo prepare his salary and recover Xinjiang. Empress Dowager Cixi dressed him in a yellow robe and mandarin jacket and was called a red-topped businessman. Hu Xueyan was ordered by his mother to build a rest hall for Hu Qing, which was really sky-high. When the plague was prevalent, he also distributed medicine and porridge to the people, and was called a good man in Hu Da. In his life, many tortuous stories happened, and one of them impressed me the most.

That year, Hu Xueyan was less than twenty years old and was an apprentice in Jinghua Ham. At this time, he found that a small silver ticket could circulate freely throughout the country in this way, and it must be very profitable, so he came up with the idea of working in a bank. What did Hu Xueyan do at this time? Did he volunteer or did he ask the boss for help? None of them. Once, a bank guy came to the store to do business. Hu Xueyan asked him, "Do you recruit apprentices? What do you need to be an apprentice in a bank? " The man said, "Confess. Our disciples should be good at mental arithmetic and calligraphy. " Hearing this, Hu Xueyan kept it in mind and practiced these two skills. After a period of time, when his skills improved day by day, he tried his best to show it whenever people from the bank came to buy things. In this way, the news spread from one mouth to another. Soon, the bank owner knew that a buddy of Jinghua Ham was good at mental arithmetic and calligraphy, so he came to the store and asked him, "Would you like to be an apprentice in my bank?" You see, how clever Hu Xueyan is. It is obvious that he wants to go, but let others speak first. This is "Dont Ask For Help's arrogance". Imagine, if he doesn't take this method, but just say it, will it be useful? In this way, he finally won the trust of the bank boss by virtue of his cleverness and improvisation. Since the boss had no children, he gave him the whole bank after his death, which gave him a valuable first bucket of gold.

This story has left us too much inspiration. It tells us that if you want to get a good job, you must make full preparations, seize the opportunity to let others know your abilities and take preventive measures.