How to describe a person who doesn't keep his mouth shut?

Good speech can bring good luck, and good luck can avoid detours and achieve more. Ugly words don't come out, harsh words don't leave your ears. This is what we should have, so that we can turn decay into magic and get lucky.

If you say it carelessly, it will be difficult to catch up with you, and you will hurt yourself, and your fortune will definitely get worse and worse. The following ten bad ways of speaking must be quit.

First, don't talk too much.

A close mouth catches no flies. Don't talk too much, you will lose if you talk too much.

In Mozi, it is recorded that Mozi's student bird asked Mozi, "How good are words?" Mozi replied, "Toads and frogs bark all day and all night, making them thirsty, but no one listens to them." I saw a rooster this morning and crowed at dawn on time, and the world shook. People get up early. What are the benefits of talking more? It is only useful to speak at the right time. "

Mozi told us that there are not many words, and people who can talk always say the right things at the right time.

Second, don't speak lightly.

Don't say it easily. If you change the word, you might as well not say it. Don't promise easily. If you promise to change, it is better not to promise. Don't speak out of turn, people who speak out of turn will attract blame and humiliation. Don't make a wish to others easily. Make a wish easily, and you will break your promise.

Third, stop talking nonsense.

Don't be careless, Hu Kan. Hu Kan talks nonsense and often regrets it. Mr. Yin Shan of the Qing Dynasty said, "Don't act wild, do whatever you want." Whether you are arrogant or modest is directly related to your personal fortune. People show others nothing but words and deeds, and words are the most direct, so don't talk nonsense. Madness is conspicuous, madness is hatred, and it is easy to cause disaster.

Fourth, don't call a spade a spade

Don't call a spade a spade regardless of the consequences, or you will get into trouble. Speak frankly, beat around the bush, if cold, speak enthusiastically, take care of others' self-esteem, and put others' self-esteem first.

Fifth, stop talking.

Speak tactfully and leave no room. Those who know people don't have to say everything, leave three points for others and some words for themselves. Don't be harsh on others, leave three points for others and some tolerance for yourself.

Sixth, avoid missing words.

Don't reveal the secret. Things are in the dark, and they are not sincere. For some things that are related to the secrets of others or organizations, it is forbidden to disclose them. This is a problem of ethics and personality, and it is easy to cause serious consequences. When things are uncertain, don't say anything definite, so as not to have a bad influence and make people feel frivolous or mean.

Seven, abstain from bad words

Don't say rude and slanderous words, and don't hurt people with ugly words. As the old saying goes, wounds are easy to disappear, but bad words are hard to disappear. Bad words do more psychological harm than physical harm to people.

Eight. Precautions and words

Pity is arrogance and self-righteousness. Laozi said, "Self-cutting is useless, and pride is not long." A boastful person cancels out the credit, and a conceited person will not make progress. A boaster is either proud or ignorant. Either way, it is not good for his own growth, and it will also attract others' disgust.

Shen Hanguang in the late Ming and early Qing Dynasties said, "Modesty makes people more convinced, boasting makes people suspicious." Speak, don't be conceited and self-righteous Conceit and boasting are manifestations of lack of self-restraint.

Nine, quit slanderers

Defamation is to speak ill of others behind their backs, sow discord or maliciously slander, belittle and insult others. All slanders are villains. Wang Chong, a philosopher in the Eastern Han Dynasty, said: "slanderers hurt the good, and blueflies pollute the white." Don't speak ill of others behind their backs. Speaking ill of others behind their backs will make the world restless.

Ten, quit angry words

Don't talk when you are angry, because what you say at this time hurts others and yourself. If you say it, you will splash water. Words, don't talk nonsense. When you are angry, you don't think through your brain, so look before you leap.

When you are angry, take out a blank sheet of paper, write and draw casually, and write all your thoughts and decisions on paper. Write whatever comes to mind and take it out every other day. If the thoughts and decisions have not changed at this time, then do it. If you feel angry, just fold it into a paper plane and let it go.

My uncle is an inarticulate person ... When he was in the senior high school entrance examination, he praised his daughter as soon as he saw me. I am not as good as his daughter, so what happened? As a result, his daughter was not admitted to high school (more than 200 points to find a relationship high school). When I was in college, I sarcastically said that I was not as good as her daughter every day, and as a result, her daughter didn't go to college ... This year, my daughter repeated her studies and learned that I didn't plan to go to graduate school, and his face was exposed again ... I didn't want to give her extra points at all.