When people reach middle age, the real wisdom is to learn to be silent.

Walking, the appearance of youthful publicity has finally become a thing of the past.

Half my life, I have seen many people clearly and understood many things. The first half of my life focuses on experience, and the second half focuses on precipitation. On the way to getting old, we gradually learned to be alone, learned to be silent, enjoyed the loneliness of being alone, and had the calmness of not being happy with things and not being sad for ourselves.

Everyone has a hard life, and no one has extra energy to care about other people's joys and sorrows, so many times they don't want to mention it again, and they don't want to do it deliberately. Learning to bear alone is a kind of helplessness and a kind of growth.

Silence is a person's practice, a person's world, quiet, zero troubles, distinguish between right and wrong, simplify the complex, and understand where to go.

When people reach middle age, they will finally understand that true wisdom is not endless arguments, but silence.

1 taciturn, this is a person's simplicity.

Romain rolland once said: "Some things can't be told to others, some things don't need to be told to others, and some things can't be told to others at all. Even if you tell others, you will regret it immediately."

A person's real maturity is to become more and more reticent.

When a person is quiet, it is easier to think clearly, and silence is to stick to the self-balance guarded by this quiet time, not to be tired of complicated communication, to really know how to bear the burden of humiliation, and to watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, go or not, and follow the clouds.

Life, most of the time is not your own. Only when you are alone is your time. Keep your inner freedom, communicate with yourself wholeheartedly and enjoy your true feelings.

Quiet in your own world, unrelated to others, quiet and simple; Don't look at things, don't think about things, don't live as others think.

Silence is a person's loneliness.

Real growth is a person's walk alone.

Walking alone is to stick to one's own heart, and at the same time, to gain an inner transparency after filtering the turbidity of the world, not to be empty and hypocritical, not to go with the flow, while walking alone, to think about the future, to sort out one's thoughts and to find an outlet for life.

In the face of a troubled world, the more people with stories, the more silent they are; The shallower a person is, the more irritable he is. People always have to learn to walk, do things, work hard, and have a clear conscience without explanation. Being a man is not a person, the pure are self-clear, the turbid are self-turbid, and their hearts are peaceful. The noise of the outside world has nothing to do with their own hearts.

Silence is not having nothing to say, but learning to talk to yourself and your soul. In a solo, he jumped out of the complicated and noisy interpersonal relationship. He doesn't have to change his role in the secular world and soul, nor does he have to be busy thinking about how to express himself and how to do things. He just wants to be himself as he pleases and doesn't care about others.

Walking alone is a person's happiness, and it is the silence before a person changes.

Silence is an unbreakable wisdom.

Zhu Ziqing said in the article Silence: "Your words should be like stars in the dark, not like firecrackers on New Year's Eve-who wants firecrackers all night?" Words are few, but words of hope are expensive.

In reality, there is a kind of person who lives the most miserable life, that is, the person who haggles over every ounce and talks endlessly. It's easy to offend people and ask for trouble, but he doesn't know it yet, because his words have made many mistakes, and because his lips have caused trouble, he thinks twice before you act, so he is very cautious before speaking, not offending people, but also showing his self-cultivation.

A taciturn person must be a wise man, knowing when to shut up, not arguing with rotten people and not causing trouble; Don't entangle with bad things, reduce unnecessary contradictions and conflicts, avoid trouble and protect yourself.

Letting go of others also means letting go of yourself and any form of entanglement, because in the face of facts, all worrying words are just dumb crying.

Since ancient times, knowing people without judging them, seeing through them without breaking them, and knowing the world without knowing it, are the smartest people.

It's easy to say, but hard to bear it. This requires brains and reason. Not telling your inner feelings is actually a kind of wisdom and maturity.

When people reach middle age, it is best to be a "silent" person as much as possible.

People who know you don't have to say much; People who don't understand you, no matter how you say it, are nonsense. Learn to bear, learn to settle, learn to accept, suffer less, worry less, and live a relaxed life. Why not?