As the old saying goes, "life is three and a half years for husband and wife, ten years for husband and wife, and nine years for nothing." What does this mean?

Marriage is a lifelong event, and husband and wife are people who love each other and share weal and woe. There is also a rural saying:? Couple for three and a half years, ten years and nine years? On the surface, it means that husband and wife spend less time together, but what is the meaning?

Rural proverb: Couple for three and a half years, ten years and nine years? What do you mean?

First, from the ancient level.

In ancient times, many men would go out to do business. Every time they go out, at least a few months, at most a year and a half, many couples do. Gather less and leave more? Ancient society was chaotic, and men were prone to accidents or illness outside and died in other places. Secondly, in ancient times, men were particular? Three wives and four concubines? It is conceivable that women's status is very low, so it is easy for men? Love the new and hate the old? Women usually have only a short time to spoil each other when they get married and go home. In ancient times, women really had a man for a short time. So, in ancient times, there were? Couple for three and a half years, ten years and nine years? Say it.

Second, from the modern level.

What does modern society pay attention to? Monogamy? So this sentence is exaggerated, but it also has some truth. Nowadays, many young couples may have just got married and separated within a few days. A three-month honeymoon? It may be difficult. Many men have to go out to work, and women have to take care of the elderly or children at home. Will it appear? Gather less and leave more? Situation.

Now this society? Divorce rate? Very high, which also shows that many couples are not harmonious. However, many women will not choose divorce for their children. Even if they don't get divorced, their relationship will be very weak, and they may not be able to say a few words a day.

Besides, many women in modern society do it? Extramarital affairs? Many men are looking for it? Little three? The relationship between husband and wife must be very weak. Modern social networks are very developed, and some people are addicted to playing mobile phones and games after marriage, which leads to the relationship between husband and wife becoming weaker and weaker.

Modern society? Women stay at home? It's no use. It's no use if you can't catch a man's heart. There is an old saying:? One-day husband and wife, a hundred-day grace? Husband and wife should be honest with each other.

Anyway? Couple for three and a half years, ten years and nine years? For? Migrant workers? That makes sense. Long-lost migrant workers? The relationship between husband and wife is very weak. Secondly, the outside world is full of temptations, and many people can't keep their original heart.