Do men have the same attitude towards women's "buy buy Buy" behavior when they are in love and after marriage?

In the eyes of men, it is a pleasure for a woman to "spend money on a bag" before marriage. But after marriage, women want to buy more expensive bags because of marriage. Moreover, they would rather give up their life circle and buy bags, hoping that their husbands can pamper themselves.

Can men tolerate "shopping in buy buy" after marriage? Many men simply don't understand why women buy bags, and some even think that "all diseases are cured." Men who say such things are better off staying away as soon as possible. This logic is very interesting. First of all, human beings "eliminated" their love for valuables many years ago. But in the composition of a big family, there are not only bride price, but also living expenses, children's education expenses and house loans. Therefore, every adult male and female will become a man's responsibility.

After marriage, it is actually a helpless move for the woman to buy a bag. Let's talk about bags again. I know a man whose own company has a large shopping center. He buys a lot of things on the website, which is very expensive and difficult to buy. Men don't buy in front of their wives. He thought everyone was married. Do you want to raise a husband? I know another colleague. He bought a bag worth hundreds of thousands. He thought it was expensive, so he discussed with his wife that the value of the bag was too high. My wife says this bag is not uncommon.

In the end, no one bought a bag, and some people went out to play or go sightseeing with their bags on their backs. When we set a high price for something, we will naturally realize that it is worth buying in marriage. The more expensive it is, the more valuable a woman is to men, and men will cherish women more. Our marriage is a combined family relationship. We should learn how to face the risks in marriage instead of taking risks blindly. Only by enduring risks can we persist. Marriage needs not only material conditions at the material level, but also emotional conditions.

Women buy luxury goods after marriage just to prove that men love themselves? In modern society, men marry women and have families, just like their parents. He should not only bear the responsibility of parents, but also take care of women's daily life. A woman is like a nanny in front of her husband. In fact, this is a difference in thinking patterns between men and women. Men think that family responsibilities should be borne by themselves. He doesn't want to take on family responsibilities, he just wants to find someone to take care of his life. On the other hand, women think that women are part of the family. If they have a career, they should have a family. Without a family, they will lose their ability to survive.

Although in today's society, more and more post-90 s and post-90 s girls are relatively independent, without ambition and too much expense. However, their emotional demands are getting less and less. Because they know how to be considerate, understand and respect.

It is difficult for men to understand women's thoughts. They always think that the purpose of marriage is to let people have a place to put their feelings, not to tie themselves to another family.