Stepmothers are difficult to be foster mothers, and mothers who are not related by blood need Mother's Day blessings more.

There is an idiom called "Spring Xuan Prosperous Age". Chuntang is a child's honorific title to his father, while Xuantang is a child's honorific title to his mother. The spring porch is lush, which means that children are eager for their parents' prosperity. Unfortunately for Wang, when he babbled, Xuantang died. After his mother died, Chuntang's adult remarried. I was only three years old at that time. My stepmother has no children in my house and has always raised me as her own son. When I was a child, I was stubborn and often made mischief. When my stepmother is angry, she will hit me. When I am beaten, I will think my stepmother is vicious. If I were my real mother, I wouldn't hit me. With this idea, my relationship with my stepmother is getting more and more distant. When the author grew up, my stepmother entrusted my uncle to introduce me to a girl from her family as a girlfriend. Since my stepmother and I are not related by blood, this kind of marriage between relatives is logical. Both the bride price and the banquet were given by my parents, and I didn't spend a penny myself. The wife gives birth to the child, and the stepmother is confined to the moon. My stepmother takes care of my two children, which is closer than my own grandson. In 2008, house prices were cheap. I covet a free life and don't want to buy a house in debt. My father and stepmother paid a third of the money and forced me to buy a house in debt. With the help of my parents and parents-in-law, I crustily skin of head and bought a house. I left my children at home and asked my stepmother to take care of them for me. My wife and I went to work, and after several years of hard work, we paid off the debts we owed for buying a house. Later, I went back to my hometown as a freelance writer, wrote a few sour words, earned a little money to support my family, engaged in my favorite career and lived a stable life. Looking back now, if my father and stepmother hadn't forced me to buy a house, I certainly couldn't afford the current house price. There is a simple reason. My apartment has more than tripled now. If I hadn't bought a house at that time, I would definitely be burdened with a heavy mortgage, and I would definitely work hard for the mortgage, so I couldn't engage in my favorite freelance job. My son is as naughty as I was when I was a child. When my wife gets angry, she will hit her son. Now that I think about it, the so-called idea that biological mothers don't beat their children is completely incorrect. My wife beat her son, no matter what. After the child has cried, he will still think that there is only a mother in the world. When I was a child, I was beaten by my stepmother. This is a typical stepmother's difficulty. Stepmothers are hard to do, and foster mothers are hard to do. A mother who is not related by blood is greater than her biological mother if she is kind to her stepson, stepdaughter, adopted son and adopted daughter. The writer is a history student. Writing here, I thought of several loving stepmother and foster mother in history, and a sister-in-law. Today, I will tell all the officials their stories. In the Qing Dynasty, there was a scholar named Li Yu. Li Yu's wife Liu Sheng gave birth to her son Li Minghe Li Quan. After Liu died, Li Yu married Chen again. Shortly after Chen married Li Yu, Li Yu died of illness. As the stepmother of Li Minghe Li Quan, Chen couldn't bear to leave her two stepsons to remarry, so she took on the heavy responsibility of raising Li Minghe Li Quan. The picture shows the portrait of Daoguang. Chen Yisheng, a widow, trained his stepsons, Li Ming and Li Quan, who were not related by blood, as scholars. When Daoguang learned about Chen's deeds, he personally wrote a letter to erect a memorial archway for him. As a model of martyr and stepmother, Chen was praised by the court. In my opinion, although Chen Paifang is brilliant, it bears too many hardships. Shi, the holy queen of Wen Deshun in Tang Dynasty, was a very loving foster mother in history. Li Shimin's concubines died unfortunately after giving birth to Princess Zhang Yu, and the eldest grandson of the Queen resolutely assumed the responsibility of raising Princess Zhang Yu. As we all know, the eldest grandson gave birth to seven children for Li Shimin, including three sons and four daughters. The eldest grandson of the queen is kind to the concubines of Li Shimin even though she has seven children, which can be said to be quite kind. (This story is quoted from The Book of the New Tang Dynasty: "Xia Qi gave birth to Princess Zhang Yu and died. Later, she looked as if she had been born. Paternally speaking, the eldest grandson is the first mother of Princess Zhang Yu. The eldest grandson queen can designate a concubine or imperial secretary to raise the concubine Princess Zhang Yu. Instead of doing this, the eldest grandson raised Princess Zhang Yu as his own daughter. The eldest grandson queen is so kind, it can be said that her biological mother is better than her biological mother. As we all know, there are three mothers, namely Li, Liu and Yang. Monogamy was practiced in ancient times. Father and wife are first mothers, and father and concubine are common mothers. A concubine whose father has no children is a loving mother if she raises herself. According to the patriarchal clan system, the first mother is greater than the biological mother, and the biological mother is greater than the loving mother. There are three mothers, but only Yang, the loving mother with the lowest status, is the closest. Yang is a concubine. Because she had no children, she took the responsibility of raising Song Renzong. The History of Song Dynasty records that Yang devoted all his love. When he was still in infancy, Yang's "every daily life and diet should be accompanied by it, so he was kind to support and prepare." After becoming emperor, in order to repay the kindness of his loving mother Yang, he was very kind to the queen mother Yang. The foster mother is good to the child, and the child has the most say. Song Renzong can be so kind to his adoptive mother Baoqing, which is enough to prove that Baoqing is so kind to Xiao Renzong. When parents are away, eldest brother is like father and eldest sister-in-law is like mother. There was a famous "eldest sister-in-law" Cui Shi in history. Cui Shi's father-in-law is the famous Bao Qingtian. Cui Shi's deeds can be found in the History of Song Dynasty at the national level. Bao Qingtian, as a representative of an upright official in history, has a biography in the history of Song Dynasty. As a representative of "Sister-in-law" in history, Cui Shi also has biographies in the history of Song Dynasty. Father-in-law and daughter-in-law have biographies in the official history of the country, which has become a story in history. Bao Zheng had only one son, Bao Mao. He married Cui Shi and gave birth to his son Bao Wenfu. Bao Mao died early, so did Bao Wenfu. Cui Shi could not bear the death of the Bao family, so he persuaded Bao Zheng to marry a concubine and gave birth to a son Wanbao for Bao Zheng. When Bao Zheng gave birth to Wanbao, it was almost the end of his life. The picture shows that after the death of Bao Zheng, the film image of Bao Qingtian, Sister-in-law Cui Shi assumed the responsibility of raising her five-year-old brother-in-law, Wan Bao. Cui Shi was a widow all her life, and she worked hard to bring up Wanbao. After Wanbao, it was renamed Wanbao, and the official worshiped the Governor of Tan Song. When Song Gaozong learned about Cui Shi's deeds, he felt that Cui Shi "helped me to protect famous officials" and ordered Su Dongpo to write an article to praise Cui Shi. Biography of Song History and Su Dongpo's writings made Cui Shi a famous "eldest sister-in-law". At the end of this post, I want to say to stepsons, stepdaughters, adopted sons and adopted daughters all over the world: "Stepmothers are hard to be, and adoptive mothers are hard to be." We should know more about stepmother or foster mother. They can raise us who are not related by blood. This is kindness. This is not easy for everyone. Long live understanding. Today is Mother's Day. Mothers who are not related by blood need understanding and blessing more than biological mothers. I wish all good stepmothers and foster mothers in the world happiness and well-being. "This article was originally written by Wang Fuxing. 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