A rich girl met a poor boy and beat a vicious mother-in-law Did she really marry the wrong person?

Recently, in the name of the family has been frequently searched, and Li's selfless dedication and careful care for his three children have made many people cry.

Tu Yan Song, the actor who played this role, was praised by many audiences for his excellent acting skills and natural closeness to life.

Although the image of a good father is very touching, many viewers remember that this is Li Yaping in the double-sided tape more than ten years ago. Silly dutiful son who almost strangled his wife!

How hateful is Li Yaping, the Phoenix man who almost made so many people angry? Let's take a look.

Hu Lijuan, a Shanghai girl played by Christina, and Li Yaping, who was born in the northeast countryside, are lovers, but their parents and friends are not optimistic about their future.

Yaping's family is not very rich and can't afford any money at all, but Li Juan is the only daughter of a well-off family in Shanghai, and her life is very particular.

With Li Juan's painstaking efforts, Li Juan's parents agreed to get married. Their married life is also very good. Li Juan felt that she didn't marry the wrong person, and there was nothing wrong with her insistence.

But it didn't last long. After Yaping took her parents from her hometown in the northeast to live together, the "war" at home began.

Mother-in-law always influences Shanghai daughter-in-law Li Juan with her traditional ideas. The contradiction and friction between the two are escalating and gradually incompatible.

After Yaping's father was hospitalized, the two families broke up completely because of material things such as money and house. Even though Li Juan gave birth to a son, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not been eased. The child's "bad mother" is to let Li Juan know what Yaping's mother did when she was away.

Gradually, the warmth and happiness of this family no longer exist, and both families are exhausted by this marriage. ...

Let's take a look at Yaping's mother.

Seriously, the old joke bone is the old joke bone. Li Mingqi's tolerant mother is scary, and the evil mother-in-law in double-sided tape is another kind of scary.

? First of all, when my son and daughter-in-law went to pick up the old couple, Li Juan was rushing to pick them up and leave the workstation. As a result, the old couple didn't give any good looks as soon as they got off the bus. She felt that Li Juan should go to her hometown in the northeast to meet them, so as not to suffer so much by train.

However, even if your daughter-in-law accompanies you on the train, you are still tired ... you can really scold anything.

In daily life, if there was a barrage in the theater, it is estimated that the old lady would be scolded to death every day.

A family of four ate around the table. When her mother-in-law saw Li Juan eating braised pork, her face was very ugly. She reminded Li Juan not to eat only meat, but also to order more food. See Li Juan still no response, just said that the meat is too salty, eat more rice.

Li Juan understood her mother-in-law's meaning. Pretending not to understand, she retorted, "I don't think it's salty?"

Yaping wants to choose a piece of meat for her mother, hoping to ease the awkward atmosphere. As a result, the old lady added: "If mom doesn't eat, mom won't be greedy. If I eat less meat, my son will eat more. "

I have to say, the old lady really put her selfishness to the extreme, and she was speechless at the dinner table for a few pieces of meat.

The old couple are used to being poor, and they are afraid of being poor. They can't wait to break a dollar into two pieces.

When the family went to the park, Yaping's mother realized that it still costs money to buy tickets, and she would never go in. Shopping, seeing the price of eye skin care products, saying that I want to go home and resolutely don't buy clothes here; Don't throw away the finished melon seeds. Wash them and dry them before frying them. ...

It is a good thing to know how to save, but excessive saving may only have disadvantages.

In one of the most impressive scenes, Ma Yaping didn't even think it was a person. ...

When my son didn't come back for dinner, the remaining three people in the family ate leftovers from a few days ago, but in fact, Yaping's mother bought meat and vegetables, but put them in the refrigerator.

Because she thinks Yaping is the most important person in the family, and if he doesn't come back, it means no one will come back, so the whole family will just stew vermicelli.

In Ma Yaping's eyes, the sons, husbands and men at home are simply "gods".

Every time she saw Li Juan lying upstairs after supper and Yaping doing housework, she began to put on a smiling face. She was angry when she saw her son caring for his daughter-in-law and eating something that Li Juan couldn't eat.

Because in her hometown, in her world view, women are used to tell people what to do, have children and take care of their families.

So Yaping got up early, and could see the toothpaste squeezed on the toothbrush, the clean clothes folded by the bed, and the meat kept being scraped into the bowl when eating. ...

Even when Yaping's father was in hospital, she only asked Li Juan to accompany her, because her baby son had to go to work during the day, and poor rest would affect his work.

? This kind of mother-in-law should be scolded, but Li Yaping should be scolded more.

Yaping knows what his mother does, but as a husband, the most he said to Li Juan is: My mother is an old man, please forgive me.

Excuse me. With what? Because she always behaves strangely?

After her mother left, Yaping lost the treatment of "clothes reaching for food to open her mouth". Li Juan has just had a miscarriage and is still sitting in a small delivery room. Yaping always complains that she doesn't cook, burn bath water or prepare clothes. ...

? Dude, don't you have hands?

After marriage, with the arrival of her mother, Yaping couldn't help comparing her mother with her wife. She thinks that Li Juan is really not doing well enough, and she can compromise and change because her mother is a model.

Therefore, on the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he always sided with his mother. He remembered the function of double-sided tape, but the invisible eccentricity had already lost its adhesive function.

Li Juan told Yaping his feelings many times, but Yaping still ignored them, so he came up with this line:

I feel like a guest in this family. Between Yaping and the three of them, I feel separated by a layer of glass. Although I can see it clearly, I can't splash it in.

Just look at it from a distance, not far, not close, not close or sparse, not cold or hot.

Yaping's inaction has successfully pushed Li Juan further and further.

As mentioned in the article Away from love rat some time ago, violence is always twofold. Yaping always wants to use cold violence to save Li Juan's heart and achieve her goal.

Love rat is different, the routine is the same!

Whenever Li Juan rebelled against her mother-in-law, refused to accompany her in the hospital, refused to apologize, and refused to live in their way, Yaping chose to avoid her, chose to escape, and responded to all this with inaction.

? When Li Juan felt sad and painful, Yaping felt a little proud. He felt that his actions could touch Li Juan's heart, and he finally looked up at the home.

The most typical example is that Yaping's sister's unit engaged in fund-raising after marriage, which is still more than 200 thousand. Yaping's monthly salary is not much except mortgage and daily expenses.

So after discussion, the family decided to let Li Juan borrow money from her family.

Of course, Li Juan is 10,000 people who disagree. What should I do if the money goes back to Shui Piao? This is my parents' pension money.

Yaping saw that his daughter-in-law was unwilling, and began the cold war again, pretending to be unhappy and uncomfortable. Seeing her husband like this, Li Juan felt very upset, so she had to go home and borrow money from her parents.

Li Yaping is selfish and cunning, but he can't pretend to be successful. Even if he can face up to Hu Lijuan's thoughts once, he won't get the result that his family will be destroyed soon.

Finally, let's take a look at Hu Lijuan, who gave this little shanghai woman life.

She is kind and simple, and trusts Li Yaping's love for her too much. But it is true that Li Yaping is always gentle and considerate before her mother-in-law comes. No matter what she does, Li Yaping can coax her.

After all, Li Yaping has no other skills. Eloquence must be a basic skill.

In order to let his seriously ill father have a grandson before his death, Li Yaping sent flowers in different ways and invited Li Juan to dinner.

Li Yaping got the money and gave birth to a son. Hu Lijuan was successfully "kidnapped" by him both materially and emotionally. She also had dignity and face, but she endured the love promised by Li Yaping until it finally broke out.

If "In the Name of Family" lets us see the cruel story between husband and wife, parents and children, then "Double-sided tape" is a tragedy that may really happen between big families.

I want to make double-sided adhesive, but it can only be regarded as transparent adhesive. The steelyard in his heart is always biased towards his mother, and he is not responsible for himself, his children or even his family.

? Although marriage is a story of two people and two families, the tragedy presented in this play is rooted in the inappropriateness of these two people in various senses.

The gap between material and life concepts is too big, and her husband is incompetent and doesn't understand right and wrong. Li Juan's personality and habits can only be regarded as one of the shortcomings.

Double-sided tape is also adapted from a true story, but the actual ending is far more cruel than TV series. Interested friends can search on their own. Anyway, most people who read it add a layer of fear to marriage. ...