My mother-in-law said I was picky, so I decided to be a "easy to serve" daughter-in-law, but my mother-in-law looked ugly.

"My daughter-in-law, don't look at her coming from the countryside. She is really picky and difficult to take care of. She doesn't eat this and doesn't use that. As a mother-in-law, I lick my face and serve others. , I can’t settle well yet.” My mother-in-law was talking to someone in the living room, her tone full of complaints. I listened to her words and decided to be a "easy to serve" daughter-in-law, but my mother-in-law's face always looked ugly.

My husband Wang Rui and I are college classmates. We went to a normal school. After graduation, I took the exam for a job within the system, and Wang Rui wanted to open his own training class.

I think this is also good. The jobs within my system are stable and poor. It is a good thing that Wang Rui is ambitious.

I got married to Wang Rui after working for three years.

In order to support Wang Rui's career, we did not buy a house when we got married. The school had teachers' dormitories. Wang Rui and I lived in the teachers' dormitories instead of living with my parents-in-law.

I got pregnant one year after we got married. When I gave birth, Wang Rui and I originally agreed to live in a confinement center. But my mother-in-law wouldn't let her, saying that she would make relatives and friends laugh at her if she didn't live at home after giving birth.

I wanted to refuse, but my mother-in-law held my hand and said, "You haven't bought a house yet. How expensive is this confinement center? Wang Rui's training center has also been suffering from poor income due to the epidemic." "Now that I have children, I will have more places to spend money in the future, so I can save a little."

My mother-in-law considers us so much, and it would be very unkind of me not to accept it.

Before I spoke, my mother-in-law continued: "Don't worry, you are a new mother. Wang Rui has his own things to be busy with. I will definitely be able to take good care of you, mother and son, when I get home." I have enough experience with children and mothers."

Wang Rui looked at me. Although I was still a little reluctant, I still agreed to go back to my husband's house for confinement.

On the first day after returning to my mother-in-law’s house, my mother-in-law cooked three eggs in sugar water for dinner, saying that she had to eat this during the confinement period, as it was good for the body.

I thought it was a pre-dinner dessert, and my mother-in-law would be cooking soon. Unexpectedly, it was eight or nine o'clock in the evening, and my mother-in-law didn't even mention dinner. I'm hungry, but I don't want to bother my mother-in-law, so I can only consider ordering takeout.

But it’s not good to order takeout without asking my mother-in-law whether she wants to eat, so I said to her: “Mom, are you hungry? Is there anything you want to eat? I’ll order it for you. I’m a little hungry. I want to order takeout."

Not only did my mother-in-law not feel that she had not taken good care of me, she just tried to persuade me not to order takeout. On the one hand, it was unhygienic, and on the other hand, takeout was more expensive than eating in a store. many. He also said that I shouldn’t eat too much at night, otherwise I would gain weight.

I am really convinced. Did I eat too much tonight? I didn't have dinner.

Okay, I gave up ordering takeout and saw plums and peaches on the table. I thought it would be good to eat some fruit. My mother-in-law said again: "How can I eat plums and peaches during the confinement period? "This will make you have diarrhea."

That's enough. I'll go back to the house and sleep, and wait until my husband comes back.

Wang Rui didn’t come home until after ten o’clock. I said I was hungry. Wang Rui went to the kitchen to cook noodles and heard his mother-in-law talking in the living room: "Your wife is really good at tormenting people. You I asked you to cook as soon as I came back. I really treat myself like a queen. It’s so charming.”

The next morning, my mother-in-law didn’t make breakfast. She went out to buy some steamed buns and came back. I ate two of them. indivual. My mother-in-law was going to the market to buy vegetables and asked me what I wanted to eat.

Before I spoke, my mother-in-law said: "You should eat less chicken. Today's chickens are all fed with feed, which is unhealthy."

I told my mother-in-law Said: "Buy some beef, I love beef, and it's not troublesome to make it."

"How can that be done? The child needs to breastfeed, and the skin will turn black easily after eating beef," the mother-in-law exclaimed.

I really haven’t heard of it, so why are you asking me?

I resisted being angry and said to my mother-in-law: "Mom, you can buy it if you want."

On this day, there was nothing but a little pork, which made me even more angry. The only thing is that the pork is actually fried pork with chili pepper.

I really regret it. I should have insisted on staying at the confinement center.

My mother knew that I had returned to my husband’s house for confinement, so she killed several native chickens from the village and sent them to my husband’s house, saying that they would make soup for me to replenish my health. I also bought some wild fish from the village, and the fish were still alive when they were delivered.

I thought my mother-in-law would always do it for me, right?

Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law still didn’t cook chicken for me. The reason was that the chicken my mother sent me was too old. We didn’t have soup-making tools at home, and we didn’t prepare any fish. She said it would be troublesome to cook.

I really admire it, but I don’t want to conflict with my mother-in-law. I want to wait for Wang Rui to come back and let him talk to her.

Wang Rui’s aunt came to the house in the afternoon. When she saw the wild fish, she said that the fish was good for pregnant women. Why hasn’t it been processed yet?

"My daughter-in-law, don't look at her coming from the countryside. She is really picky and difficult to take care of. She doesn't eat this and doesn't use that. As a mother-in-law, I lick my face and serve others. "It's still not settled well." My mother-in-law spoke in the living room with complaints in her tone.

When Wang Rui's aunt heard this, she said: "This woman has a bad temper after giving birth. Wait until I talk to her."

My mother-in-law said again: "I want When making chicken soup, people don’t like the chickens bought outside as feed chickens, so they won’t let her mother deliver them in person. The fish is so small and it’s so troublesome to handle. As a result, I don’t think people will appreciate it.”

“ Maybe it’s because I’m not good at cooking, but they were clamoring for takeout last night.” My mother-in-law said that was really aggrieved, as if I had really become a picky and ignorant person.

I listened to her words and decided to be a "easy to serve" daughter-in-law. < /p>

"I won't buy chicken, saying it's feed chicken. I won't eat beef, saying it will turn black after eating beef. This fish was sent by my mother, but it was sent without processing. You are really ignorant, this fish is so troublesome."

My mother-in-law's face was a bit ugly, but I didn't care, and continued: "My mother sent me the chicken, but this stewed chicken is really troublesome. I don't have any stew at home. The chicken tools are probably waiting for the manufacturer to produce them. Auntie, you don’t know, the chili fried pork made by my mother is so delicious, it goes well with rice."

My mother-in-law looked ugly, and my aunt became anxious: "This How can you eat chili peppers during confinement?"

"Auntie, don't worry, my mother probably thinks that eating chili peppers can increase appetite. My mother has raised two children, so she has experience. "It's really my fault for taking out food. I didn't have dinner at night. I was really hungry. Didn't I order it when my mother said it was unhygienic?"

My mother-in-law looked ugly, so I told my aunt. Said: "Auntie, you can stay and eat. You have also heard what my mother said. I am picky about eating. It is my fault. I will definitely change in the future. I will eat whatever my mother does and be a good servant." Wife, can you stay and supervise me? "

My aunt was in a dilemma. Although she lived not far away, she would probably make my mother-in-law angry if she came to eat at home, so she said she would have a good talk with her.

The dinner at night was rich, including chicken and fish. It's just that my mother-in-law's face has always been ugly, but it doesn't matter. As long as I can eat enough, I won't look at my mother-in-law's ugly face.

@小xie Talk about Emotions

I want Xiaoxie to say that your mother-in-law really has no intention of taking good care of your confinement, otherwise she would not do such a thing.

There should be very few people like your mother-in-law. Even if it is not for the sake of their daughter-in-law, but for the sake of their own grandchildren, they should still want to let you eat better.

When encountering such a thing, Xiao Xie thinks that you can record what your mother-in-law said and send it to your husband, or you can take photos of what you eat every day and send them to your husband. I believe he will see it. I will definitely communicate with my mother later.

Based on your situation, Xiao Xie thinks that if conditions permit, women should choose a confinement center, which can make their stay comfortable and reduce conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

I’m @小xie Talk about emotions, looking forward to meeting you in the world of words.