What if I am isolated by my colleagues?

What if I am isolated by my colleagues?

1. Don't worry about being isolated by colleagues. If you want to survive in the workplace, you must understand that you can work together because you have the same interests. But the interests here are always changing, which may cause conflicts between you at any time. By then, they will be competitors, and if they don't like each other, they will inevitably take action. When there is a conflict of interest between the two parties, one of them will fail or give up voluntarily, thus avoiding disputes. But who can be so generous in the face of interests and power? Therefore, learning to keep a distance from colleagues can avoid some unnecessary troubles or emotional fetters. Don't trade your secret for friendship, because the friendship you get is likely to be fragile, but it will eventually leave something behind, which can only be used and driven by people everywhere.

2. The workplace itself is a vanity fair, especially in line with the words of former British Foreign Secretary Palmer Mase, "There are no eternal friends and enemies, only eternal interests". Because of this, maybe one moment you communicate peacefully with your colleagues, and the next moment they will cater to each other and make concessions to each other in order to hold a group or survive in the workplace, as if they could become a group with others, intimate and powerful. Therefore, if you don't do anything bad or anything sorry to others, but you are inexplicably treated coldly, marginalized or even looked down upon, this is the phenomenon of being rejected and isolated by others.

In the workplace, I think the best way to avoid being isolated and bullied is to make yourself stronger. What if you are a strong person, even if you are isolated? For example, you can achieve the top performance of the company every year, and the company is afraid that you will resign. Does anyone dare to isolate a backbone talent like you? For another example, you can leave your job at any time, which is difficult to be replaced in the company. If someone isolates you, I dare say that the leader will be the first to stand up and help you solve it! To say the least, being a strong person is lonely, because you have enjoyed a sense of success, so others isolate you, and maybe you don't care anymore. So, now you are still worried about being isolated, which only shows that you are not strong enough. What you have to do is not to guard against villains every day, but to find ways to make yourself stronger and be needed by the company. This is a game relationship. Bo Huang said that when you are weak, there are the worst people. I think when you are strong, there will be more and more good people.