My parents don’t agree with me being with him. Should I break up with him?

It’s time to break up and tell a story of my own. After four years together, my friends ask me every day when we will break up. Yes, no one sincerely wishes me well, and no one of my friends or family agrees that we can be together.

His life can be described as tragic. I remember my father asked me a question when I was in love. He said: "You need to think clearly whether you are in this relationship because of love or sympathy." You have been entangled in a relationship for a long time and are unwilling to let go?" This sentence has been lingering in my ears for a full year.

Later, he gradually began to neglect me. For the sake of his own life, he was unwilling to estimate my feelings. He insisted on walking his own path in life and forced me to be with him. Otherwise, he would not love him, which is very selfish. At that time, I suddenly understood that in fact, my efforts over the years had already become a habit in his eyes, and my struggle and resistance should not have appeared to him.

I finally admitted that my sympathy for him was greater than my love. And he has also become sensitive because of his background and experience, always acting like "Why don't you listen to me in everything when things are so miserable?" Letting go of this relationship was a relief for me.

I finally realized that when parents, family, and friends all objected, they must have seen some shortcomings in the other person that were not worthy of trust. I will take what my parents say into consideration, but I hope it is me who makes the final decision.

In fact, our parents are the ones who want us to be happy the most, so we must listen to their advice on marriage. If we really can’t reach an agreement, don’t rush into marriage in anger. Spend a few more years together and see how the relationship develops. You may be able to find the problem after it fades. To be honest, if you don’t even like your parents, it’s better not to marry someone.