62 family education rules, teach self-disciplined good children! (Recommended collection)

I have heard a classic saying: parents are a very professional job, but many of our parents are not professional.

I can't help but marvel at the summary of German mothers in educating their children! The rigor of the Germans is obvious to all. Where does a powerful nation come from?

The answer is: education.

Parents can combine your understanding, study and reference of family education.

For German mothers, it is better to put on a show than to shout it out.

Rules are more important than love, and example is more important than precept.

Main Problems and Countermeasures of Motherhood in Germany

Q 1: What if the children stay behind?

→ German mother's three "no" songs: no reminder, no help, no matter him!

Q2: Do children spend money like water?

→ Gifts for children-check the account book. Spend more money to get it back! Teach children that every penny they spend belongs to their parents.

Q3: What if the child can't eat well?

→ Hunger education for German mothers: If you don't eat well, you will starve to death!

Q4: What about children grabbing toys?

First come, first served, or no play! Educating children, there is no absolute fairness in society, only rules and order.

Q5: Does the child procrastinate or just stay awake?

→ Set a time and never compromise! Children will despise their parents when they break the rules.

Question 6: Is my child in love?

→ German mothers respect their children's love, because learning to love and be loved is a valuable ability.

Ten Codes of Conduct for German Mothers

1. Don't help children do more, let them do more.

Children have ten shortcomings, and parents are responsible for five of them.

Parents must set an example in raising their children.

4. Tell your child: If you fall, stand up by yourself.

5. Don't plant the seeds of violence in children's hearts.

6. Learning how to argue is the first step of growth.

7. Learning to love and be loved is a valuable ability.

8. Let children grow up in collision, not in care.

9. Don't substitute your own experience for your child's feelings.

10. Educate children: There is no absolute fairness in society, only rules and order.

Eight tasks, tasks and detailed rules of German mothers

1. One of the post tasks: the ability is greater than the achievement.

Let children become independent and complete individuals.

Children are not parents' accessories, nor are they relays of parents' unfulfilled dreams.

If you want to educate your child well, you must first treat your child as an independent individual and a complete person.

Rule 1: Children are like flowers and trees. They need care and experience! Dead knowledge and living ability are both learning.

Rule 2: A pet is the best teacher, who not only studies well, but also has strong ability-teaching children to love life, love animals and get along with animals is a kind of learning.

Rule 3: You can get along with animals when you are young, and you can get along with others when you grow up. You are soft-hearted and care about the weak. Kindness is more precious than gold! Take care of people who are weaker than themselves.

Rule 4: Design different endings for the story, train your logical thinking ability and use your head, and you can overcome difficulties and solve difficult problems.

Rule 5: Learn manners from the dining table, educate at any time and place, and cultivate children's manners.

Rule 6: Letting go is the first lesson of learning independence! If you can do it yourself, you won't accept help from others.

Rule 7: Don't help children do more, let them do more.

Rule 8: environmental protection is not just a slogan! Starting from life, let children know how to care for the environment and protect nature from childhood, starting from daily life.

Rule 9: trust your child's feelings and judgments, and don't replace your child's feelings with your own experiences.

2. Task 2: Setting an example is more important than language teaching.

There is a very good saying about parenting education:

It's better to put on a show than shout it out.

Children must do what their parents ask them to do first, otherwise they have no right to ask them to do so.

Rule 10: No matter how rich you are, you should avoid unnecessary waste. Teach your children that unnecessary spending is a waste! A few dollars is also a waste!

Rule 1 1: Reading is the basis for children to form an independent personality.

Rule 12: stand up if you fall! The first step of responsibility-tell the child: this is your responsibility! If something goes wrong with the child, you are responsible for it yourself.

Rule 13: set an example and abide by the rules. Is it a trivial matter to cross the street and run a red light? No matter how small things are, we should set an example! Only when parents sit up straight can children walk straight.

Rule 14: one minute and one second late. This is how German mothers teach punctuality! Apologize to the child if you are one minute late! Parents must learn to be punctual to their children.

Rule 15: keep your promise! Keeping promises to children is not just talk, mom, you don't keep promises ... only when parents keep promises can children keep promises.

Rule 16: become a frequent visitor to the library-reading is the most romantic education, which opens the door to knowledge for children.

Rule 17: The best way to make children like music is to have wonderful music at home. Parents like it, and children will like it.

Rule 18: Only when the family atmosphere is harmonious can we teach a child with a peaceful personality, and don't plant the seeds of violence in the child's heart.

3. Task 3: Respect is higher than authority.

Don't belittle, don't condone, let children grow naturally.

It is the common wish of all parents to wish their children success. However, many parents impose their ideas on their children and teach them a lesson regardless of the occasion and whether their self-esteem is hurt.

Rule 19: Love is invincible! If you love your child, let him know that I didn't pick it up ... Does mom love me? Love should be spoken out loud and let the children know.

Rule 20: Being condescending, reprimanding loudly and lacking patience will only make children full of pressure, treat them as individuals, treat them equally and respect each other.

Rule 2 1: Don't interfere, encourage more, and let children learn independently.

Rule 22: Even if a child makes a mistake, he should not be reprimanded casually. Children also have dignity. It's not that children don't deserve it, but that there is something wrong with education.

Rule 23: Encourage children to argue with adults.

Rule 24: Respect the child's right to speak, understand the child's thoughts, and when talking to the child, squat and look at each other.

Rule 25: Children should be loved, not hurt. To love and be loved is the most valuable ability.

Rule 26: Respect children's love.

Rule 27: Education is incomplete without corporal punishment.

4. Task 4: Bitter is better than eating.

Moderate suffering is the best exercise for children. Compared with children in other countries, German children are notoriously strong in their ability to resist setbacks.

How do German parents cultivate their children's ability to resist setbacks? Suffering camp is one of their magic weapons-let children participate in some almost cruel training activities. Maybe you think it's cruel, but German parents think it's love for their children. Because, if you love children, let them know how to be strong.

Rule 28: Let children grow up in collision, not in care, and hone extraordinary courage and courage to protect themselves.

Article 29: Not letting children do housework is harm, not love! Let children realize that there is nothing in the world for nothing.

Rule 30: Let children know the dark side of society and learn to protect themselves.

Rule 3 1: Hunger education: If you don't eat well, you will starve to death!

Rule 32: Gifts from adults to children: Try to travel alone.

Rule 33: Children have ten shortcomings. Parents should be responsible for five of them, affirm their children's advantages, and don't forget to review their own shortcomings.

Rule 34: Let children suffer more, and when they grow up, they will not suffer.

Rule 35: A small amount of clothes can keep you warm, but a large amount of clothes is a burden.

5. Task 5: Rules are greater than human feelings.

Tolerance without connivance, setting rules is more effective than preaching.

How can we educate children effectively?

The practice of many parents is to preach constantly, but smart German parents will set rules for their children and let them establish a sense of rules from an early age.

They will negotiate with their children and make some rules that they are required to abide by.

Rule 36: When a rule is made, it is necessary to stick to it and let the children act according to the agreement. This is the key!

Rule 37: Parents should not help their own children.

Rule 38: Children will obey the rules only if their parents keep their promises. There are two principles to treat children: make three rules in advance and never compromise afterwards.

Rule 39: Establish the concepts of "can and can't, can and can't".

Rule 40: There is no absolute fairness in society, only rules and order.

Rule 4 1: If parents break the rules, children will despise them.

Rule 42: Politeness is not born, but acquired. No one will make mistakes because of politeness.

6. Task 6: Stocking is better than keeping in captivity.

If this doesn't work and that doesn't work, how can we teach good children?

In the eyes of parents, every child is a seed, destined to become a big tree.

In the process of growing into a big tree, gardeners must make great efforts, such as cultivating children's self-care ability, cultivating children's good personality and habits, encouraging children, cultivating children's self and actively striving for the spirit of expression.

Rule 43: Teach children to be independent.

Rule 44: If you cultivate good habits, you can cultivate good character. Start small, start small.

Rule 45: Tell children not to haggle over every ounce, but to get to the bottom of it. Teach children to forgive and tolerate others, who is right and who is wrong? Forgiveness is the answer.

Rule 46: Ten points is progress, one point is progress, son. You're not stupid, you just haven't learned it yet.

Rule 47: Encourage and affirm the rain and sunshine necessary for growth, cultivate self-awareness and teach children to be their own masters!

Article 48: If the child says "no" loudly, be happy for him, encourage the child, dare to express his ideas and dare to refuse the demands of adults.

Rule 49: Don't confuse modesty with self-expression. Let children learn to express themselves, convey enthusiasm, and teach them to stand up, sing and speak out loud.

7. Task 7: Freedom is greater than restriction.

Give children independent space, and development will be unlimited.

In the eyes of German parents, every child is an independent individual.

They are neither attached nor dependent on their parents.

They have their own independent space and independent thinking.

Therefore, most German children aim at independent development. As parents, as long as they give their children free space.

Rule 50: See the characteristics of your own children and others' children, remember! Every child is unique. Comparing the advantages and disadvantages of two children will make them lose themselves.

Rule 5 1: Don't compare your child's shortcomings with other children's strengths. Despising your child will make your child's self-confidence zero! Don't belittle children, but encourage them to learn from others.

Rule 52: Avoid parent-led education methods and comparative education methods. Children should be taught in accordance with their aptitude, and different children need different educational programs.

Rule 53: Give children more free space and learn to be responsible for themselves. Parents peeking at their children's diaries are tantamount to infringing on their children's freedom! Children who are close to nature and free range have a broader vision!

Rule 54: Children should be released, not imprisoned.

Rule 55: Think before making a decision, be responsible after making a decision, let the children make their own decisions, be responsible for themselves, let the children make their own decisions and cultivate their own opinions.

Task 8: Self-control is better than control.

Establish the concept of financial management from an early age and teach children to save the first bucket of gold.

Germans are rich, but they are definitely not extravagant, so the average annual consumption in Germany will not be very high, which is mainly due to the financial education of German parents to their children since childhood.

Under such education, German children have developed very good financial habits since childhood: they don't spend pocket money indiscriminately, go to the bank to save money at any time, and even save money when playing games.

Rule 56: It is better to learn how to use money than to give more money.

Rule 57: Second-hand market experience, let children learn the common sense of trading, hold a second-hand goods market for children, and let children experience the buying and selling process.

Rule 58: Waste in games will also be wasted in real life. "Do you know the price of missiles?" Play games and seize the opportunity to educate!

Rule 59: Have your own account, save your own pocket money, open a bank account for your children, learn to manage money from an early age, distribute red envelopes, and manage accounts: educate your children to keep accounts, awesome!

Rule 60: Let the children know that the extra money belongs to their parents.

Rule 6 1: think carefully before you buy something, and you can't take it after you spend it. Take your children to the bank to save money, feel the atmosphere of saving money, learn to control their desires, and tell them that every penny you spend should be considered! Tell children: spending money indiscriminately is the indulgence of desire!

Sixty-two: when you are young, you spend money indiscriminately, but when you grow up, you don't know how to be frugal. The key to taking children to the bank is not how much money to save, but to have a sense of saving.