My sister picked up my brother after school, but he left with him. Sister: I don't want to face so many people.

Today's question: How should parents of a second-child family handle the relationship between their two children

With the opening of the second-child policy, many young parents have joined the second-child "army". Some of them are post-7s and 8s. At this time, their boss and penis are much different. Asked about the reason, parents often say that it is to give the boss one more relative in this world, so that after his parents die, the children will not live alone in this world. < P > My sister picked up my brother after school and was carried away by him. Sister: I don't want to face so many people. I saw such a Weibo on the Internet, which was a video sent by a second-born treasure mother. It was my mother who took my sister to pick up my brother from school. Because the two children are quite different in age, Erbao is only 2 years old and stumbles when he walks. And my brother is already a high school student, and he is very tall, almost catching up with Yao Ming.

My sister walked slowly after school, until she saw her brother's figure and ran like a gallop, because he and she were young and couldn't walk steadily, and the way they ran was very cute.

but unexpectedly, when my sister ran to my brother's side, she was picked up by my brother and carried on her shoulder. It's like carrying a bag of rice Seeing such a scene, many netizens expressed their opinions.

User A: I'm so happy to have such a brother. I don't need to walk when I go out. I just need to be carried by my brother.

Netizen B: My sister's heart may have collapsed. I'm thinking, don't I have to lose face with so many people? What it looks like to carry me like this. My sister went to pick up my brother after school, and he left with it. Netizen: Ask my brother for a "link".

Sister and brother are quite different, but they seem to have a very good relationship. So what should parents do to make their two children feel good in a second-child family?

1. Have more contact between children

Many families have neglected Dabao after having Erbao. There are even some parents who worry that Dabao will hurt Erbao because of his young age, and simply send their children to their grandparents' home.

In fact, it's very wrong for parents to do this, which will only mislead Dabao's idea that after he got Erbao, his parents would not want him.

parents should let their children have more contact. You can even let Dabao learn to take care of Erbao and participate in his growth, so as to better enhance their feelings.

2. Let Dabao take care of Erbao

Some parents think that Dabao should grow up with Erbao. But parents think that when they get along, they may hurt Erbao because of some unintentional actions. So parents just ask Dabao to help with the housework. Parents should let Dabao take care of Erbao more, let Dabao know Erbao's growth process, know that he grew up like this himself, and at the same time realize that parents love him as much as Erbao.

3. Don't be partial to two treasures

In a family with a second child, parents often say that they want a bowl of water, and they will treat the two children fairly.

However, when two children quarrel or fight, parents tend to be partial to Erbao, thinking that Dabao has grown up and should naturally give way to Erbao, so in this case, there will be an eccentric state.

Parents' partiality for Erbao may cause Dabao's dissatisfaction, and even make Dabao feel that he is no longer important after having Erbao. Therefore, parents must not be partial to two treasures when quarreling.

Warm message:

Parents should stick to their original intention of having a second child, no matter how different the eldest child is from the second child. They should not ignore the eldest child because they have the second child, and let the eldest child have a misunderstanding. Parents should be impartial, even more should love the boss a little more.

daily question: are you an only-child family or do you have brothers and sisters? If so, what is your feeling for him (her)?