A 52-year-old middle-aged woman cried and scolded her mother-in-law for "four deadly sins". What do you think of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to get along slowly. It's hard to get along well in the early stage, but everyone is getting along slowly. Moreover, some mothers-in-law can't see the long term and always feel that they can do everything now. As a result, many things are disgusting, which leads the daughter-in-law to dislike her mother-in-law, and then a husband who protects his mother wholeheartedly will naturally have a bad relationship with her mother-in-law.

First, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is slowly brewing. Get over it, and you'll be happy. If you don't get through, you will become an enemy. If it is not the same man, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law may not live under the same roof all their lives, and they all say that the same sex repels each other, which makes it easier for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have problems, but the relationship still needs to be run-in, and both of them can understand each other.

In the early stage, it seems that the mother-in-law is more powerful, rich in life experience and rich in parenting experience, but the daughter-in-law is weak, and the cooking may not be very good, even the children will not be brought, so many mother-in-law will think that the daughter-in-law is not good at all, but when the daughter-in-law is old, she will naturally do everything.

At this time, the daughter-in-law is also capable. Considering what her mother-in-law did to herself before, the daughters-in-law naturally don't want to talk to each other, but at this time, the husband will jump out and accuse his wife of being bad to his mother. In fact, there is no love and hate for no reason in this world. There must be a reason why a daughter-in-law treats her mother-in-law like this.

Second, the husband's attitude in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also very important, and many of them largely determine whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious. Many husbands will say that my mother is not easy when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Then why can't you let my mother say that even when her mother cries, she feels that her wife seems guilty. In fact, at first, the wife will think about filial piety to her mother-in-law, but after getting along again and again, she will gradually change her attitude.

The husband knows nothing about this, but blames his wife blindly, so that some wives can't bear it and divorce when they can't bear it. When the wife is told by her husband, it will have a more adverse impact on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Anyway, my mother-in-law will think that her son has started all kinds of jobs, so the relationship with her daughter-in-law is even worse, because her mother-in-law doesn't understand her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law also thinks that her mother-in-law is an autocrat, so the relationship between them is even worse.

Third, in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be reasonable, and daughter-in-law should understand each other more to get along more happily. In fact, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still need to understand each other. Some mother-in-law always feel that she was very powerful when she was young. Naturally, she didn't take her daughter-in-law seriously, and then she was accused of being picky. Her son supported her, which naturally led to her daughter-in-law's dissatisfaction.

At this time, the relationship between husband and wife will deteriorate, and those who survive will continue to live, that is, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law will be more unequal, and the direct divorce will not survive.

When a female friend marries, she must see if the other person is a treasure mother, because the marriage with a treasure mother is hard to last, so divorce may be the best choice when it can't last long.