My dear sister's essay

My father got seriously ill when he was thirty-one years old. The critical illness notice was issued three times in one day. My mother, who was just twenty-two years old, was so frightened that her face turned pale and she was at a loss. With vigorous rescue efforts by the hospital, my father was temporarily out of danger. It was at this moment that he made a difficult decision. It was this decision that changed my sister's life and the direction of the family.

My father had encephalitis, and the exact name has long been unclear. My father is a veteran, and my mother is a housewife who cannot read Chinese characters. My father called his sister, my aunt, in front of the hospital bed, and solemnly gave my brother, who was only four years old at the time, to the three daughters. My aunt gave her two-year-old sister to the childless uncle in the country, who was also my father's brother... When my father did these things, he hid it from his mother. From this incident, it can be seen that the father has great distrust of the mother. He is very afraid that his children will be wronged after his death. (I was not born yet) According to my father later, he thought that my mother was beautiful and young at the time. If he left, my mother would definitely remarry, and my father would be worried about a pair of children...

Mother She is a country woman. She was only sixteen years old when she married my father. After the accident, she went back and forth between the hospital and home every day, taking good care of her critically ill father. When my brother and sister were taken away by my aunt, my mother had no idea. , I simply thought that it would be convenient to take care of my father and temporarily send it to a relative's home...

A month later, my father was safe and sound, but on the first day he got home, he and his mother broke out in a fierce war. The mother was like a furious lioness. She never thought that she would lose a pair of children if her father passed away. In this matter, she refused to forgive her father in any case. This matter became a watershed in their relationship. The mother, who was proud to be the "head of the family", began to complain about her father day by day, especially when her sister failed to come back after picking her up.

My brother returned home soon, but my sister was not so lucky. Within a month, the aunt fell in love with this cute and amiable little baby. When her father traveled back and forth between the city and the countryside again and again, her sister had been hidden for a long time. Her father went there six times and it was difficult to even see her. ...A wrong decision made the relationship between parents tense, and a wrong decision made the father resent him for life.

It must have been an era of natural disasters, and food was in short supply anyway. My uncle helped our family more than once, hoping to win my mother’s forgiveness, but my mother’s hatred for my uncle was deep-rooted. Although she later had a sister and me, she was still very upset about her sister not returning home.

In my memory, I was six years old when my sister came back. That year, it was my father's birthday, and my mother, who had not seen her sister for many years, finally welcomed her long-lost daughter. The mother had repeatedly asked to see her sister before, but the uncle and aunt refused. They were deeply afraid that the mother would take back the sister who was their lifeblood...

Although the mother bought a It's not a big cake, but it was a rare little cake back then. The father looked at the watch over and over again, hoping that his sister would arrive soon.

My sister finally came back. She is already twelve years old. Her childish face showed timid panic, and her cheeks had the unique redness of country people. She refused to leave her aunt's side for a moment. This made her mother, who had already had deep grudges, resent her sister from then on... This resentment has always been continued for many years to come.

After I was twelve years old, my sister came to my house more frequently. My mother always wanted to get close to this daughter who did not belong to her. My sister didn’t know she was my daughter at that time. Later, when we got to know each other, she talked about my aunt and uncle every day. This was unacceptable to my mother.

Compared with my sister, my sister and I’s urban life is not necessarily better than my sister’s.

My sister enjoys the treatment of an only daughter in the countryside. She has rice and eggs to eat. She often tells my sister and me interesting stories about burning corn and chickens. She said that my father and mother (as they are called in the countryside) are very kind to me. Now, I can eat anything delicious. She can even eat chicken and duck meat, which makes my sister and I often drool...

When I was sixteen years old, my sister finally knew that she was She still loves her parents, but she misses her father more and more. Compared with mother's rejection, father's feelings for his sister are very strong and complicated.

To be honest, my father missed his sister as much as his mother, but he couldn't show it. As long as he said a few words, his mother would strongly fight back against him. When my sister won the first place in the county with excellent results in the countryside, my father felt even more guilty. He could not give his sister a better learning environment. He watched his sister return to the fields in obscurity after graduating from junior high school. At this moment, he felt mixed emotions in his heart. Once, he said to me: "You must study hard, like your sister. If your sister had such good conditions as you, it would be easy for her to get into college with her perseverance and wisdom." In the circumstances at that time, , my sister could not afford to go to high school... If fate had not been like this, I dare not say what kind of future my sister would have had, but at least she was indeed trapped in the region at that time.

One year my father was ill, and my sister sent me a lot of food, which made my father emotional. He said over and over again: "You know, your sister has always been thinking about me and this family in her heart. From now on, you must unite and treat her as your own sister, so that she can have a home when she comes here." The warmth.”

In the early years, my sister was my mother’s worry. In later years, my sister became my father's trouble. One time, my father wrote a letter to my sister: She must honor her parents in the countryside, and he will definitely give her a perfect explanation...

Many years ago, I read the letter my sister wrote to my father. In the letter, she said: Dad, don’t worry about this matter anymore. My daughter doesn’t blame you. Maybe this is her fate... She also wrote a lot. I can’t remember too much. It’s just that my sister has been in this matter since she was little. He never complained about his father, which made his guilt-ridden father feel somewhat relieved. My father is a person who likes to read and keep diaries. I remember once, I read his diary to my sister. What he wrote was: A wrong decision ruined my daughter’s life; a wrong decision affected the relationship between a couple. Wrong decisions caused the family to fall apart...

In the end, he made a firm vow: He must get his sister back and let her live a life in the city...

The opportunity finally came In the 1980s, the trend of succession was prevalent. After a lot of hard work, my father finally got a place. At this time, my sister was already twenty-two years old. She became a teacher in the village and was on a blind date... My father The arrival of the uncle once again broke the peaceful life of the uncle's family. My father's sincerity and reasonable persuasion finally worked. According to my sister's recollection, on the day my father left, he tearfully begged the uncle and aunt to think about my sister's future... The uncle and aunt are already old. If my sister can enter, The city is the dream of many rural children. They finally shed tears and brought their sister, whom they had raised for nearly twenty years, back to the city and back to our home.

There is also an episode when my father takes my sister home. Every time I think about it, it makes me sad. In order to implement this great news as soon as possible, my father came to the countryside despite the heavy rain. Also going with him was the chairman of the labor union of the company at that time. The two of them took the train for six hours. Due to the heavy rain, the highway was blocked and they were very anxious. My father, despite the dissuasion of his colleagues, walked in the mud for six hours and arrived in the countryside at four o'clock before dawn...

My sister finally recognized her ancestor after twenty years of absence. Returned to the clan. But her return did not bring the joy she imagined. For some reason, over the years, her relationship with her mother has drifted apart. Mother always hopes that her daughter can be close to her mother, but my sister always relies more on her parents in the countryside...

On the day my sister came back, my mother stewed a hen for the first time.

My sister and I also put on bright clothes, but my sister kept calling me "Mom, Dad", which made my mother's face gloomy after a while. The more my sister misses her parents, the more my mother hates my uncle and aunt. The blame has reached others, and the mother brought her resentment to her sister. My mother is the weathervane of our family. Whenever she becomes sad, we hold our breath and hold our breath. Until recently, we didn’t even dare to take a breath. The originally wonderful reunion dinner was disrupted by my mother, and my sister looked even sadder.

None of us fell asleep that night. My sister and I were curious that there was another sister lying next to us. The father turned over over and over again, and the mother coughed from time to time!

In the darkness, I recalled my sister’s appearance over and over again. She was no longer the sister she used to be. Facing her mother's indifference, although she was timid, she had an imperceptible resistance. Later, she told me countless times that she regretted coming back. In her original words: I regretted it so much!

The sister I remember was the most beautiful when she was young. Agile and of medium height. She has a face with oval seeds, big eyes, and a healthy complexion. When looking at people, a pair of shining eyes seems to be able to speak. It is so touching! My sister in the country is a talented girl who can sing and dance well. One of her performances even attracted the attention of the county drama troupe. If my aunt hadn't been reluctant to part with her, my sister might have become a star. My sister's life in the country, in her own words later, was that she grew up being pampered by her parents in every possible way. In the eyes of uncle and aunt, she is the apple of his eye. In addition, my sister is loved by everyone for her intelligence and intelligence. If it were not for fate, would she have a bright future covered with flowers and fragrance?

The last thing I want to recall is my sister’s early life at home. Our home was almost suffocating. Mother and sister became the two most hostile people. The mother constantly instructs the elder sister to do this and that, and it is conceivable that the elder sister is at a loss in a new environment. One time, my sister moved too much when putting the bowl, and my mother immediately swept the plates and chopsticks on the table to the floor... My sister ran out crying that day, and I followed her out. My sister said to me, why did my mother do this? If you do this to me, why do you want me to come back? I couldn't answer the questions she raised. At that time, I was still studying and couldn't understand the grudges between them.

The following life made my sister suffer. My sister's longing for her uncle and aunt often haunts her, which deepens her mother's hatred. The mother is a narrow-minded woman. She never understands that she has endured all the hardships for this daughter. She has cried so hard that her eyes are broken for this daughter. She has also learned to smoke for this daughter... But no matter how hard she tries, she can never get her daughter back. Show her your inner love.

My sister, who was already lively, became taciturn, sometimes not saying a word from day to day. What she liked to do most was to write letters over and over again. Sometimes she would shed tears while writing, which made her illiterate mother more suspicious and even more hostile to her sister.

Finally one day, my sister was loudly scolded by her mother for not clearing away the dishes while writing a letter after dinner. My mother said a lot of things that she shouldn't have said that day. As soon as my father stopped me, my mother scolded her loudly. She brought up the story about Chen Guzi and rotten sesame seeds to refute her father...and her sister ran away from home in anger. Just as I was about to run out, my mother roared and said that no one would chase her, and she would never come back if she could...

My sister returned to the country overnight. Even though she lived in the country, she had never experienced this before. Such a blank stare and indifference. During the day at work, her unique accent had already caused discrimination and ridicule from people around her. She could no longer bear it, and the pressure from her mother made her even more suffocated. Since then, she often ran back to her parents' home.

The reasonable uncle and aunt comforted her, and sometimes sent her sister back in person, and kept saying good things for her mother. Those who didn't know it thought her mother was her stepmother... The uncle and aunt repeatedly reassured her that she could live in the city with peace of mind. I have to understand the estrangement from my mother for many years...

Only when I grew up did I understand how much my sister needed a shelter at that time. My father was a bit cowardly, and my sister and I were too young, and The one who gave my sister this shelter turned out to be her home in the countryside...

The atmosphere at home made my sister suffocating, and she nodded in agreement with the first man introduced by the neighbor. In order to escape the family quickly, they got married in a hurry three months after they met. The best match for them is that they have the same working environment and similar family backgrounds. My sister has never talked about feelings. In the confusion, she has decided on the major events of her life. Faced with her mother's indifference, her sister is more determined to leave home. heart.

The brother-in-law is not a bad person. The biggest problem between them is that they understand each other too little. The brother-in-law must report every detail to his mother. Their family even used the ancient method of placing a white towel under their sister's body on her wedding night to prove her innocence...

In addition to the short honeymoon period, their married life Both men are in trouble. Because of the completely different temperaments and temperaments, the marriage only lasted for seven short years...

The sister who was single again moved into the single dormitory in the factory. The sister, who had been in a state of mental stress, finally welcomed her. Comes the complete mental resolution. She became clear and elegant, and her eyes became brighter. Although material life is not rich, the spiritual shackles have been released. Thanks to her efforts, the relationship with her mother began to enter a period of relaxation. My sister once said to me that my mother is an ordinary housewife who has always lived in the narrow circle of the family. Her persistence and narrow-mindedness are reflected in her excessive expectations for her daughter. I can understand it. Especially after having a child...

After the divorce, my sister met the right man in her life in the second year. My brother-in-law works as a driver for the boss in a company. He has a gentle personality and is obedient to his sister. I often joke with my sister that he is afraid of her, and he always laughs and says it’s not fear, but reverence and respect!

My sister often tells us and her friends that her brother-in-law is her first love. When she spoke, the expression on her face was happy and contented. She was always grateful for the blessings life had given her. She said that when the clouds cleared, the moon would shine brightly. Life finally showed a happy smile after going through a lot of hardships.

My brother-in-law’s workplace is in the suburbs, so the family settled in the suburbs. My sister is as youthful as she was yesterday, and her beautiful face has an extra layer of charm. It was as if she had returned to the earth, and with the energy of the earth, she had returned to the life she was most familiar with.

The uncle and aunt died within two weeks of each other. It was time for my sister to start a happy life. The two old men left with satisfaction. Although their death was a catastrophic blow to my sister, she stayed in the country for a month. If it wasn't for work, she would not come back. Countless times, my sister asked the uncle and aunt to live with her, but the old man who was not used to living in the city rejected her request again and again. The uncle and aunt are happy in their old age. My sister gave them infinite care in their later years. Whether they were colleagues in the city or neighbors in the country, they all praised her for her care for the two elderly people. What my sister did was seen by everyone...

My sister’s house is so lively nowadays. Their relatives in the countryside come to my sister's house like a revolving door. My sister never dislikes them and is as kind as she treats us. Whether they are looking for a job or seeking medical treatment, my sister uses all her enthusiasm to receive these folks who she will never forget. A few days ago, a relative we were not familiar with came to see a doctor, and my sister spent another 5,000 yuan to help...

My sister loves the land where she was born and raised, and even more loves the hard-working and kind-hearted folks on that land. them.

My sister’s life is ordinary. She puts all her ambitions into the rugged road of her life. She always smiles at the unfair fate.

Sometimes I think, if my sister had lived in the city and kept reading, she would have been a top student, and even if she could not stand out, she would have at least become an intellectual woman. What would be the outcome of her life? Looking at my busy sister now, working hard in the family atmosphere all day long, is it far from her ideal back then? No matter what, my sister could not choose her childhood and destiny, but she used her adult mind to control the direction of her destiny. She made the best annotation for her life with honesty and kindness.