Should parents-in-law and daughter-in-law celebrate the New Year?

This kind of thing mostly happens in one-child families. Young couples want to spend the Spring Festival with their parents, but the reality doesn't allow it, so some couples want their parents to spend the Spring Festival together. In fact, it is normal for them to have this idea, which not only solves the contradiction of who to go to during the Spring Festival, but also allows them to have a reunion year with their parents. Why not? But they ignored the fact that although the old people on both sides are in-laws, they rarely meet each other and are not familiar with each other. It is not so easy to live in harmony during the Spring Festival. Therefore, experienced in-laws do not recommend two in-laws to celebrate the New Year together.

Chinese new year is a time to pay attention to customs, which can be said to be the most intensive and concentrated time all year round. Because the in-laws come from two different places, they will have their own customs. If we don't celebrate the New Year together, even if the customs are different, there will be no conflict. Anyway, we will have our own years. If in-laws get together for the New Year, customs and habits need to be integrated in a short time. The longer they spend together, the more differences in customs or habits will be exposed. In-laws will complain lightly and quarrel heavily. Contradictions will affect children's small families from top to bottom. The Spring Festival was originally a festive festival. If you don't want the feelings between your in-laws to move forward, you will shrink back.

The best in-laws relationship is to live a good life. Children's small families can help each other and keep the necessary distance from each other. Distance is not alienation, but building a firewall. Courtesy between relatives is the best way to get along. When there is a problem, we can get together and discuss it. When there is nothing wrong, you can have less contact and less contact, so as to achieve mutual respect and mutual benefit. Since there is a saying that relatives are not far away, neighbors generally run into a wall, and in-laws should take warning.

Good interpersonal relationship is inseparable from the word "harmony". The most important thing to get along with others is kindness, and the road of life is getting wider and wider. Having said that, if kindness makes people unhappy or even depressed, there is no need to continue this superficial kindness. No one can change anyone, especially in-laws. Their relationship is based on children. Children need the elderly from both sides to come forward and attend politely. If nothing happens, it's best for in-laws not to disturb each other and get along well.