How to be a good wife in the eyes of her mother-in-law and a good wife in her husband's heart

If you are filial, of course. However, the reality is not very optimistic. For many parents-in-law, filial piety is hard to find. Daughter-in-law, remember: within a family, honor and disgrace and * * *. Therefore, we should pay great attention to the image of behavior. Don't be disheveled, disheveled, too flashy, and don't be rude, mean and presumptuous. We can't lose face anyway. You have gone too far, and people will definitely recite your in-laws' names and say that their daughter-in-law is really outrageous. I said this scene before: one day I passed a door and saw my daughter-in-law making a scene with her grandmother. The momentum is surging, the momentum is magnificent. Angry daughter-in-law, pointing to the housewife, scolded with all her strength: you old deathlessly, when you are dying, I will definitely help crush you! I'm afraid such a daughter-in-law was crushed to death by her mother-in-law before she was crushed to death. No matter what blood feud you have with your parents-in-law, your mouth should not be so poisonous. The world has changed, and there are all kinds of wives. However, no matter how the world changes, a daughter-in-law should treat her in-laws well. Otherwise, building a harmonious society is meaningless. Tonight, we will talk about my parents' favorite daughter-in-law. Daughters-in-law, if you are interested, look at it and see if you are such a daughter-in-law If not, why not? If so, everyone is happy. 1, don't say filial piety, at least know how to respect. If you are filial, of course. However, the reality is not very optimistic. For many parents-in-law, filial piety is hard to find. Okay, let's not talk about filial piety. At the very least, you should know how to respect. Respect the daily life of in-laws, their self-choice, their psychological space and what should be respected. Seeing your respect, your parents-in-law will respect and love you. 2, can do housework, even if it is rarely done. These days, fewer and fewer daughters-in-law do housework, and more and more in-laws do housework. My parents-in-law became nannies, cooking, washing clothes, cleaning, watering flowers and doing things for the whole family. Where is the daughter-in-law more leisurely than the princess? Even her parents-in-law have to boss her around. In fact, it's no big deal for a daughter-in-law to do less housework, because her parents-in-law are willing. However, if you don't do or can't do any housework, the problem will be big. My parents-in-law will definitely think like this: When we are all gone, can such a daughter-in-law take care of this family? Have your own job, don't eat her husband's soft rice. As a man, you should work hard and take care of your family. The same is true as a woman. Your husband married you home and didn't want you to be opaque. Even if your husband agrees with you, he has the ability to let you do it. You'd better not. Because my parents-in-law don't like it. Husband is their son, and their son's hard work alone will make them feel distressed. As a daughter-in-law, you should go hand in hand with your husband and at least have your own job, no matter how bad it is. How can a woman always eat her husband's soft rice? Love your husband and cherish the happiness of love, marriage and family. It is natural to love your husband well. Don't, marry a daughter-in-law to come back and let her love other men? However, the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher, which fully proves the seriousness of the problem between daughter-in-law and husband. Of course, the responsibility lies with both sides. However, in the hearts of in-laws at home, the daughter-in-law must be done first. No philandering, no debauchery, no romance. Treat your husband sincerely, take care of him carefully, be loyal to him, cherish love, marriage and family. Be a good neighbor and don't make enemies with others. As long as it is a family, there must be neighbors, but the distance is different. Living in harmony with neighbors is part of family happiness. Daughter-in-law, as an important communicative host of the family, should properly handle the relationship with neighbors. If the daughter-in-law is the enemy of the neighbor, it is not only the neighbor who is unhappy, not only the daughter-in-law, but also the parents-in-law. In other words, the daughter-in-law is the representative of the whole family and can't be careless. 6. Pay attention to your behavior image and don't lose everyone's face. Daughter-in-law, remember: the same family, honor and * * *. Therefore, we should pay great attention to the image of behavior. Don't be disheveled, disheveled, too flashy, and don't be rude, mean and presumptuous. We can't lose face anyway. You have gone too far, and people will definitely recite your in-laws' names and say that their daughter-in-law is really outrageous. 7. Make friends with children, don't just beat and scold. If there are no children, you can ignore this. However, there should not be many children. If there are no children, the parents-in-law will definitely be dissatisfied. If you have children, you must treat them well, or your parents-in-law will be dissatisfied. Beating and scolding children all day, how do parents-in-law spoil you? So, let's be friends with children. Strictly understandable, but don't beat and scold casually. 8. Don't go to your parents' house every three days, and don't speak ill of your parents' parents. Marriage means having two families. Mother's family, husband's family. The two schools are equally important and cannot be neglected. But in reality, there are very few people who are impartial, and they are more important than their parents. Originally, it was no big deal to run to your mother's house when you were free. Let's get together. However, it is a bit unreasonable to run to your mother's house once every three days. Others must be puzzled when they see it, thinking that the husband's family is not easy to stay. It's no big deal, to say the least. You can run if you like. However, don't speak ill of your parents-in-law at home. Many daughters-in-law make such low-level mistakes, thinking that their parents-in-law can't hear them. In fact, bad words spread thousands of miles, and deaf parents-in-law will eventually hear them. As a result, civil war followed. 9. Economically, don't haggle with your parents-in-law. There is only one fundamental reason why many daughters-in-law quarrel or even fight with their parents-in-law: money. To put it mildly, it is called economy. In terms of economic rights, how should I divide it with my parents-in-law? Every daughter-in-law is thinking day and night. In fact, the practice is very simple. Yours is yours after all. Don't be so impatient. Especially don't haggle with your parents-in-law. My parents-in-law are getting older every day. Can't you make them happy all their lives? Besides, no matter how overbearing they are financially, they won't leave it to you in the end. The chances of not leaving it to you are slim. 10. Good-looking, smart and humorous. The daughter-in-law is good-looking, and her parents-in-law certainly like it. After all, it is the glory of her son. However, the daughter-in-law is not only cosmetic, but also capable. Otherwise, others will look down upon it. Best of all, humor is funny and can make the whole family laugh all day. Such a daughter-in-law guarantees that no in-laws do not love her. If you are not used to it, it is your parents' problem, not your fault.