What does it mean for boys to tell girls about their emotional experiences?

Something like that. Let me start with two positive aspects:

1, I trust this girl very much. Past emotional experiences are generally regrettable, and some are humiliating. However, a boy can put down his self-esteem and tell a girl about his past scars and show them to her a little, which shows that he has full trust in her and believes that she will not laugh at herself, tell others or embarrass herself.

I have a friend who likes to talk to a girl about her sad history. She talked while eating hot pot. Sometimes she has a runny nose and tears. The girl who listened kept handing out tissues, but after listening, she felt that nothing had happened. Even if someone asks about my friend, she won't say anything.

2. Have a good impression on this girl. Yes, that's the kind of affection I'm talking about, except the kind I didn't express.

He wants to get close to girls, but he doesn't know how to use it, and he wants to find a topic to talk about, but he can't find a suitable topic, so he can only talk about his previous emotional experience, because it is more meaningful, more substitutive and more attractive to girls.

The reality is that this effect is often more effective. I have a colleague who talks about her love experience with another female colleague every day. She is a lively actress who sometimes scolds, sometimes laughs and sometimes laughs at herself. Unexpectedly, more than a month later, the two really got together, and every day, the female colleague was ready to insert his male colleague's mouth, which was regarded as an alternative show of love.

After the above two positive points, let's talk about two negative points:

1, it may be just a habit to meet the opposite sex and like to hook up. Men have a natural affinity for the opposite sex, which can be traced back to primitive society. If so, then he likes to talk about his emotional experience with everyone. One is to show off, the other is to attract attention, and the third is to get close to the opposite sex and take the next step according to the situation.

Such people suggest staying away.

2. It may just be simple emotional intelligence. Because, under normal circumstances, if I don't know you very well, I can comfort you, take your pulse, and find someone to talk to at will about my worries and past events, which is a taboo in interpersonal communication.

In any case, it should also be changed. If you have a good impression on this boy, you can continue to listen and talk. If you don't, you can stay away.

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